Let me go straight to the point...
I met this girl in the market, we exchanged contact and started talking. She seem beautiful and lovely, so I was always eager to see or hear from her. So, the first day we went out, I picked a restaurant where I normally take​ my dinner. The place is so cool and quiet, so I figured out that it could be nice for both of us to spend some quite time. But unfortunately, by the time we got there, their food wasn't ready due to the fact that we arrived early. (She doesn't want to go out late). As a result, all we ordered for was just "samosa" and pet coke. After our outing, I then concluded that am going to take things serious with her, cos from our discussion so far, she is my type of girl.
But then something happened. From that day onwards, she kept complaining of how I took her to a place where she ate only samosa and drank coke, that if I do that again, that she will pour it on my face. "Her exact words". I used to take it as a joke until a friend of mine who is a cousin to her friend told me that what she used to call me in the presence of her friends is the "samosa guy". That I claim to be a worker but all I can buy for a girl is samosa.
I got so annoyed to the extent that the little feeling I was having for her died off. Now, for the past 3 weeks, esp during the long Sallah break, she have been calling me and complaining that I don't want to take her out anymore, that it's unlike me that was eager to take her out when we first started.
Today, there is public holiday in Kano, she called me in the morning, asking me if I can spare some time so we can go to the cinema. I declined, told her I wasn't feeling too well.

I don't feel like taking her out to any where again as I have lost feelings for her. So, there is no need wasting my time with her. I haven't told her anything at the initial, so no need telling her am pulling out of the little thing we have going on.
Plz, am I over reacting.

To the guys, did I do anything wrong or is there any other way that I could have handled the situation.

Run for your life bruu

She didn't want to go out late and still had the nerve to complain


What did she expect you to magically conjure up food? And what's with telling her friends that crap, she just wants to exhaust cash. Since the only thing she wants to do is flex.

To the ladies. Does the "quality" and fun of a date depends on what you eat or on the time and discussion you have with your partner.

VargasVee:
Run for your life

hmmmmm...

Carry her go Mars.. Mister Bongo..

Man up and let her know you don't fancy her Congo..

Wear beta sneakers and run fo ur life

hi Mr Samosa
kindly let her go bro, She got nothing to offer you, she will just be a pest to ur life,
i think she only remember you when she is Hungry or when she need see a Movie...
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Regards

The girl is only interested in how much she could eat from you. Perhaps the Coke and Samosa seem too cheap for her. That's my favourite by the way, Samosa or Spring roll and Coke, I would choose that over fried rice.

Just leave her.

AltarBoy1:
To the ladies. Does the "quality" and fun of a date depends on what you eat or on the time and discussion you have with your partner.

Samosa boy. If i give you an advice now you will buy me only Samosa and pet coke again.

Tell me you ve stopped doing Samosa

Kathmandu:
Samosa boy. If i give you an advice now you will buy me only Samosa and pet coke again.

Tell me you ve stopped doing Samosa

How much to bed u?

Next time the parasite calls you and suggests you take her out, tell her that her next outing should lead straight to a psychiatric hospital because she clearly has a mental issue.
i mean, Wtf?!! samosa guy? do you realize how degrading that is? You acted like a pure,calm,nice guy and she how she treated you in return.
I rarely conform to this idea but i think you have to get her vagina thoroughly and terribly bleeped!.

Silkmoth33:



How much to bed u?

Ga juo nne gi

Kathmandu:
Samosa boy. If i give you an advice now you will buy me only Samosa and pet coke again.

Tell me you ve stopped doing Samosa

lol... if u are close to my location, alert me so u can teach me how to stop doing samosa...

Speaking of, I didn't make the choice for her. there were others snacks on display there. It was just unfortunate that normal solid food weren't ready by then.

Kathmandu:
Ga juo nne gi

I need u

I don't speak that lingo

Ha much to usher u to my bed

AltarBoy1:
lol... if u are close to my location, alert me so u can teach me how to stop doing samosa...

Speaking of, I didn't make the choice for her. there were others snacks on display there. It was just unfortunate that normal solid food weren't ready by then.

i was only joking



Shalom

ikeepitreal:
Next time the parasite calls you and suggests you take her out, tell her that her next outing should lead straight to a psychiatric hospital because she clearly has a mental issue.
i mean, Wtf?!! samosa guy? do you realize how degrading that is? You acted like a pure,calm,nice guy and she how she treated you in return.
I rarely conform to this idea but i think you have to get her vagina thoroughly and terribly bleeped!.

Seriously, am not out for sex. Just looking out for some one I can get along with the hope of settling down. Man isn't getting younger.

Kathmandu:
i was only joking


Shalom

That's y I was playing along. Abi u didn't notice this

She's jst interested in your cash and d food. Jst cut off ties with her, she doesn't worth it.

cerowo:
She's jst interested in your cash and d food.
Jst cut off ties with her, she doesn't worth it.

Yes oh! Are u willing to fill the place

You need to tell her what piss you off. If she apologizes, forgive her. If not, the choice is yours. Wish you well.

Silkmoth33:

Yes oh! Are u willing to fill the place

Nope!

Bro...you need to ignore her calls and request.....no need to lie that you're not feeling good and all that. She knew what the situation was.... but was not explaining that part of it. What does that tell you about her? Yellow flag from jump... you have already seen the nature of the beast...move on.

;DYou should be happy you got saved from this one early, the name is degrading to me sha. "samosa guy".

Countrygirl:
;DYou should be happy you got saved from this one early, the name is degrading to me sha. "samosa guy".

Got served...? you mean I was wrong in buying her samosa.

Do whatever you heart leads you to do.

AltarBoy1:
Got served...? you mean I was wrong in buying her samosa.

did you read what I typed?

You're not overreacting.

But I'm so surprised at the kind of hungry people we seem to have around these days.

Please, them take food swear for some girls?

Countrygirl:
did you read what I typed?

So sorry!!! I initially saw "served".

Person wey wan die meet person wey wan kill m.....

massive1019:
Person wey wan die meet person wey wan kill m.....

she met the wrong person.