I NEED TO BREAK UP WITH MY FIANCE

I KNOW HE IS CHEATING,

HE LIES TO MY FACE STILL DESPITE ALL EVIDENCE I SEE, HE KEEPS RANTING "IT WASNT ME"

I CRY LIKE CRAZY AS OFTEN AS I CAN BREATH

I LOVE HIM TO MY SOUL,

I CANT CHEAT TO GET A PAY BACK, NOT WHO I AM


I AM EVEN MORE AFRAID TO LOOSE HIM

BUT I KNOW HE IS NO GOOD FOR ME, I FEEL HE TAKES MY NICENESS FOR A FOOL

I NEED TO BREAK UP AND NOT BREAK DOWN,

AM LOOSING MY MIND

HOW DO I GAIN MYSLF BACK

AM SO BROKEN

I CAN BEARLY FIND ANYTHING IN LIFE WORTH LIVING FOR

I HAVE GIVEN MYSELF A TRIP OUT OF THE TOWN WHERE HE IS, NOT WORKIG

LOST WHAT HAPPINESS IS LIKE

NOTHING FEELS GOOD AROUND ME NOW

SOOOOOOOOO LOST

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nope ! but every man must have a woman

@poster
a good step u re about to take break it off he aint good for you he's taken you for granted[/size]

Babe there is light at the end of the tunnel .

You might have been disappointed in the past, give the guy a chance to change, not without talking to him, sit him down and talk to him when he's in a happy mood, talk to him politely and see if he changes, and if he doesn't you'll know he's not good for you, he'll brake your heart the more, if he changes good for you .

Best of luck!!!

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nope ! but every man must have a woman

Gbam, I suffort you Shorry, I mean to say[b] I SUPPORT YOU[/b]

According to the Bible, God saw that the "MAN" was lonely, so he created "WOMAN" to be his companion, confidant and helper _{notice I didnt say cook, housegirl and 5ex slave}

@poster Nope! Is not neccessary every woman have a man and vice versa,cus its a matter of choice. Back to ur case,pls don't settle for less;u have to let him know u won't fold ur arm and watch him flirt around just because u love him and not willing to lose him. I bet u're up 4 a big one when u eventually get married. If he doesn't change now,it will be difficult stoping him later when u're married.

Look at it this way. . .if you leave him now. . .its gonna hurt but its gonna get better with time!


We all deserve the best. . .especially if your giving the best. . .and if the person your giving your best too isn't appreciative or reciprocating back. . .but instead taking you for a ride. . .then you deserve to take a walk!

You'll be doing yourself a huge favor gal. . .better a broken engagement than a broken marriage!

@poster, lemme know when u've broken up so we can hook up k. Dry ur eyes, u're about 2 experience d best! Have i told u i'm d best?

@ tonia. i like what i see there.

@krissykriss Take it easy bro,sure say u no get ur wife/gf, abi na u crash her relationship?

Daylae, my rltshnshp just crashed too; no thanks 2 my girlfrnd. So i can always hook up with d poster when she eventually breaks up with d 'G'.

No, every woman shouldn't marry.

Hotcocoa:

I NEED TO BREAK UP WITH MY FIANCE

I KNOW HE IS CHEATING,

HE LIES TO MY FACE STILL DESPITE ALL EVIDENCE I SEE, HE KEEPS RANTING "IT WASNT ME"

I CRY LIKE CRAZY AS OFTEN AS I CAN BREATH

I LOVE HIM TO MY SOUL,

I CANT CHEAT TO GET A PAY BACK, NOT WHO I AM


I AM EVEN MORE AFRAID TO LOOSE HIM

BUT I KNOW HE IS NO GOOD FOR ME, I FEEL HE TAKES MY NICENESS FOR A FOOL

I NEED TO BREAK UP AND NOT BREAK DOWN,

AM LOOSING MY MIND

HOW DO I GAIN MYSLF BACK

AM SO BROKEN

I CAN BEARLY FIND ANYTHING IN LIFE WORTH LIVING FOR

I HAVE GIVEN MYSELF A TRIP OUT OF THE TOWN WHERE HE IS, NOT WORKIG

LOST WHAT HAPPINESS IS LIKE

NOTHING FEELS GOOD AROUND ME NOW

SOOOOOOOOO LOST

trust me you are better off on yo own

if your feeling this way now

you will feel this way forever

cos believe it or not he wont change

youll be crying every day if u marry him!

u dont need him

move on with your life and focus on yourself

then when the time comes

you will find someone else

women should learn they dont need to settle for less

bein alone is better than bein unhappy

HotCocoa is a Young Lady who is in In love with a guy.
Unfortunately the guy doesn't return her love for him and Cheats on Her.
She claimed to have caught him but Mr Cheat denies all allegations.

Hear from HotCocoa herself.

I NEED TO BREAK UP WITH MY FIANCEE
I KNOW HE IS CHEATING,  HE LIES TO MY FACE STILL DESPITE ALL EVIDENCE I SEE, HE KEEPS RANTING "IT WASNT ME"
I CRY LIKE CRAZY AS OFTEN AS I CAN BREATH, I LOVE HIM TO MY SOUL,
I CANT CHEAT  TO GET A PAY BACK, NOT WHO I AM, I AM EVEN MORE AFRAID TO LOOSE HIM
BUT I KNOW HE IS NO GOOD FOR ME, I FEEL HE TAKES MY NICENESS FOR A FOOL
I NEED TO BREAK UP AND NOT BREAK DOWN, AM LOOSING MY MIND, HOW DO I GAIN MYSELF BACK
AM SO BROKEN, I CAN BEARLY FIND ANYTHING IN LIFE WORTH LIVING FOR
I HAVE GIVEN MYSELF A TRIP OUT OF THE TOWN WHERE HE IS,  NOT WORKING, LOST WHAT HAPPINESS IS LIKE
NOTHING FEELS GOOD AROUND ME NOW, SOOOOOOOOO LOST

HERE IS OUR LIKELY SCENARIO BASED ON EXPERIENCE.


Hotcocoa : John where are you coming from ?
John : From the stadium, i went to watch Manchester United versus Chelsea.
HCC : Since when did Old Trafford move to Julia's House because that was where i found You ?
John {stammers} uhm, Julia is a fan of Chelsea, we be-be-be-bet some money on who was gonna win. Hey here is the money , i won, here is the money.

John puts his right hand in the pocket to bring out money as Hotcocoa gives him A hot Slap.


HCC : {starts to cry} What do you take me for, A fool? I saw two of you kissing John, You ve been lying to me ever since we started.
I cant take this from you John, I love you so much, what did i do to you John ?
John : {Knowing that any word is a ticket for another slap, decided to stay quiet}
HCC : {continues} You cant be treating me this way John, What would you do if you are in my shoes ? What havent i endured because of you ?
You know i cant leave you John, I have gotten used to you, It is not fair, i am going crazy



Then later on in the day, She decided to Consult her Friend Thoniaslim and they started drinking Whiskey.


HCC : Thonia lets go and buy more alcohol, i cant seem to get him off my mind, i am going crazy
Thoniaslim : Look at it this way. . .if you leave him now. . .its gonna hurt but its gonna get better with time!
We all deserve the best. . .especially if your giving the best. . .and if the person your giving your best too isn't appreciative or reciprocating back. . .but instead taking you for a ride. . .then you deserve to take a walk!
You'll be doing yourself a huge favor gal. . .better a broken engagement than a broken marriage!
HCC : Are you sure Thonia, I just think we need more Bottles , {starts to cry again}

Hotcocoa got home, Mr John Arshole Is not Home, Probably with Julia watching Man U vs Chelsea Replay on Julia's TV, My guess is that he forgot the score from the live game. so he needed to watch it again on tv.

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Hotcocoa : {soliloquizing} I cant marry this kind of man, Must every woman have a man for that matter, No No i cant do this.
I am going to ask people if it is compulsory that every woman should have a man.

Hotcocoa slept alone that night and by the time she woke up the following morning,
she has already made up her mind to report John On The Internet.

Venue : Nairaland LS LIBRARY
Topic :  Must Every Woman Have A Man?
url : https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-391164.0.html

Sam Milla : My dear Hotchick, I think the advice from Your friend Thonia is good enough.

I cant even understand why some ladies stand a cheating BF .
You ppl should stop thinkin of giving them second chance cos they will ask for 3rd,4th . . . .chances.
Once you know he's cheating,just drop him like hot dodo.

^^ exactly

i think women are soo desperate nowadays

and are afraid of bein alone

inno how it feels

you just have to know your worth

what you think you deserve and what you dont

@Poster
Nope! Not really. Though Naija society / backward culture might want to tell you otherwise.

Nwaka77:

@Poster
Nope! Not really. Though Naija society / backward culture might want to tell you otherwise.

So Nigeria is now a backward society?Really if not for the way our leaders treat us,there will be no place like Nigeria so do not feel cuz you are over there,you are better than people here.

@EVERYONE

i am gratefull


i will not lie that i will end it now, yeah some right? am scared of lonely and i hate to count how many men i have dated, its just not something i wish for myself,

however TRUTH HURTS, I KNOW DEEP INSIDE I SHOULD LEAVE

YET I FIND MYSELF TAKING THE ADVICE 'GIVE HIM ANOTHER CHANCE, '


HOW LOVE SUCKS, it weakens so harshLY,

With God i trust the right decision,


just hurts so much

times i wish i am like one of those hard babes who just never loves , cos atimes its like they have all the men being nice to them,


THANKS PEOPLE I AM GREATEFUL FOR THE CONTRIBUTIONS

girl leave him

and get a hobby!

its not love if ur the only person doin the lovin

4get abt all the men uve dated and dont give a hoot abt bein alone

think of it as havin opportuinities

No