I understand the normal norm of dating, courtship then marriage.
But their are certain conditions when one just have to break these 'protocols'

Guys, would you propose to a lady just 4hrs after meeting her?

Ladies, would you take a man who proposed that soon seriously?



P.S Dr Joe Abah is the DG, Bureau of public service reforms.

I want to say its Fate and at same time Faith. Respect and Tolerance will also help.

na dis kind of woman I need
Not all dis slay Queens everywhere

I will only do that if my institution tells me that she's not part of the hoes.

tosyne2much:
Though, there's no universal accepted duration when one should propose to a woman. It all depends on how fast you're able to know the true nature of that person. To some people, it may take some few some years of critical observations before knowing that person, while it may only take some people just a few weeks.

On a contrary, 4 hours is too small bro

You already said it, so no need for the contradiction.

Victornezzar:
na dis kind of woman I need
Not all dis slay Queens everywhere

Bro I they tell you, hoes everywhere, I nor know where I go see better wife marry ni and I wan born next year ni

sonofLuci:

You already said it, so no need for the contradiction.

Okay sir

sonofLuci:


You already said it, so no need for the contradiction.

Exactly

tosyne2much:
Okay sir

Shu, tosyne, I nor even know say na my own person I quote anyway, you are bless, money fall on you plus more pussy, any nairaland girl you want, you shall have, flex bro

sonofLuci:



Bro I they tell you, hoes everywhere, I nor know where I go see better wife marry ni and I wan born next year ni

I hear say novena babes no be hoes

ikp120:
I will only do that if my institution tells me that she's not part of the hoes.

Wat institution?

Victornezzar:

I hear say novena babes no be hoes

Please who is in a long term relationship?I need your past questions.. #Biko

sonofLuci:

sonofLuci:

sonofLuci:


Shu, tosyne, I nor even know say na my own person I quote anyway, you are bless, money fall on you [s] plus more pussy, any nairaland girl you want, you shall have, [/s] flex bro

LMAO you ehn!

Amen oooo

If I was grown up in the 80s, I could have done something like that, but not in this decade of decadence.

IamGobe:


Wat institution?

You are a learner bro.
The mind is a great institution of its own.

ikp120:
You are a learner bro.

The mind is a great institution of its own.

I'm jxt knowing bro

engrMikemd:
Please who is in a long term relationship?I need your past questions.. #Biko

I'm seeing this fr the third time on different threads

U smoke shit neh??

olab059:
If I was grown up in the 80s, I could have done something like that, but not in this decade of decadence.

So its not possible in this era abi?

IamGobe:



So its not possible in this era abi?

Too many fake girls these days...fake hair, fake lashes, fake nails, fake boobs, fake a$$, fake shape (thanks to body magic) fake accent, fake complexion, etc. So, it would definitely take longer to know who someone really is.

tosyne2much:
Though, there's no universal accepted duration when one should propose to a woman. It all depends on how fast you're able to know the true nature of that person. To some people, it may take some people few years of critical studying and observations to know that person before proposing will ensue, while it may only take some people just a few weeks, because we are more sensitive and observant than one another

On a contrary, proposing to someone you meet barely four hours ago is plain STUPIDITY

Bro i guess you feel you're wiseer than the doctor baa....Some people are more spiritual and are given divine informations...By the way life aint got formula bro

olab059:


Too many fake girls these days...fake hair, fake lashes, fake nails, fake boobs, fake a$$, fake shape (thanks to body magic) fake accent, fake complexion, etc. So, it would definitely take longer to know who someone really is.

True shaa

But it is said that wen one meets dat special one ur heart beats two times faster

In this scenario, should one go ahead wit the proposal?

4hrs keh?

With all these two faced bobos flying upandan. Mbanu!

legitimatefrank1:
Bro i guess you feel you're wiseer than the doctor baa....Some people are more spiritual and are given divine informations...By the way life aint got formula bro

Abeg forget about religion sentiments jawe and don't let it becloud your sense of reasoning. I mean it doesn't make any sense if we only use religion sentiment as a ground for proposing to someone?

Going by your analogy, so you mean in as much as you're given divine information or backup, it's not a thing of necessity to critically observe and study the person for validation, but to approach the person and then comes the wedding ?

Wake up to reality my brother.

IamGobe:


True shaa

But it is said that wen one meets dat special one ur heart beats two times faster

In this scenario, should one go ahead wit the proposal?

Yes. Life is short.

tosyne2much:
Abeg forget about religion sentiments jawe and don't let it becloud your sense of reasoning. I mean it doesn't make any sense if we only use religion sentiment as a ground for proposing to someone?

Going by your analogy, so you mean in as much as you're given divine information or backup, it's not a thing of necessity to critically observe and study the person for validation, but to approach the person and then comes the wedding ?

Wake up to reality my brother.

Thats not what am insinuating,but you calling it stupidity is something else,probably God ministered to him...But that i cannot say for sure,but dont call it stupidity

legitimatefrank1:
Thats not what am insinuating,but you calling it stupidity is something else,probably God ministered to him...But that i cannot say dor sure,but dont call it stupidity

Maybe you misconstrued my comment. The OP asked if we could propose to someone we met four hours ago and I said it's plain stupidity in my own opinion

I don't have any business with the man you literary mentioned, I was only talking based on my own stance

tosyne2much:
Maybe you misconstrued my comment. The OP asked if we could propose to someone we met four hours ago and I said it's plain stupidity in my own opinion

I don't have any business with the man you literary mentioned, I was only talking based on my own stance

owk...It just sounded abruptly sarcastic

ikp120:
I will only do that if my institution tells me that she's not part of the hoes.

Which institution? UNILAG or LASU?

LePrezident:


Which institution? UNILAG or LASU?

The mind is the biggest institution on earth.
I guess you thought I meant intuition? Sorry bro. You missed it.