Please My Friend Needs Advice Urgently

A friend of mine got herself pregnant by a male friend of hers. Initially the guy wanted her to get rid of it and she has been warned about abortion. The guy later accepted the pregnancy and promised to take care of her and the baby.

He said it should better be a female child. The guy said he will collect the child but he won't marry her claiming he does not love her. My friend is now in love with this guy and she wants them to bring up the baby together cos she does not want the child to pass through what she passed through (she was brought up by a single parent).

This guy claims he does not love her and he doesn't want to see her with any other guy, he asks questions whenever any guy calls, he cares about her welfare and a times complains about her dressing or even dictate for her on the clothes to wear.

Pls it there any way she can make the guy love her?

If she doesn't want to be a single parent,why did she get pregnant when she isn't married?

So you are now the mouth piece of your friend...ok tell your friend to come let me whisper to her.

It high time those from a single parent to open their brains... Don't get pregnant for a guy except he has done the necessary rite.. So we won't be hearing.. I don't want that life style for my kid

Until you admit that you're the friend in question, my advice is still on suspension.

I don't understand. Why restrict someone you don't love?

SingleDad:
Until you admit that you're the friend in question, my advice is still on suspension.

Kamikazes.. Lol

Nma27:
Kamikazes.. Lol

My stalker .

tosyne2much:
Tell your friend to create the thread herself

Madam, tell us your problem and stop hiding under the canopy of "my friend"

lmao.. Under the canopy of love

dammyluv911:
A friend of mine got herself pregnant by a male friend of hers.initially the guy wanted her to get rid of it n she has been warned about abortion.the guy later accepted the pregnancy and promised to take care of she and the baby,he said it should better be a female child.the guy said he will collect the child but he won't marry her claiming he does not love her,my friend is now in love will this guy and she wants them to bring up the baby together cos she does not want the child to pass through what she passed through (she was brought up by a single parent). this guy claims he does not love her and he doesn't want to see her with any other guy,he asks questions whenever any guy calls,he cares about her welfare n atimes complains about her dressing or even dictate for her on the clothes to wear.pls it there any way she can you make the guy love her?

yes... By putting her life together forgetting about him... There's no book or law for love... She had better start preparations to be a single mum... .... Who knows he might fall in luv... But op leave the umbrella of my frnd nw let's help ur condition

What is wrong with your friend?

Why making herself a slave to the guy?
Let her face the reality that the foolish guy doesn't love her and may not love her no matter what she does.

If the guy in question will not marry her, she should go away with her baby. She won't die!

Lalasticlala

Your friend did not get herself pregnant by mistake, it was a calculated move because she hoped this guy would come around. He has told her he does not want her, he does not want to marry her
But still she hopes ...three children later she will still be right here hoping and he will have a wife.

My dear your friend actually wanna get pregnant for the guy,she calculated wrongly..

HMMMM

Baby mama alert

Guys like their baby mamas tho

Maybe he doesn't want to be committed yet

Even if I don't believe it's from your friend I ll give u an advice based on experience

Real love is gradual thing... It builds overtime....so it's possible for d guy to love her n wanna make her a wife later

One reason d guy says he can't marry her is simply because she's not marriable to him ...now your friend needs to develop herself in whatever ramifications needed to be marriable for him.... It might be character, career, her mentality etc.... A guy only wanna marry a lady he can fuse into his future ....an asset not a liability, she doesn't need to be an asset presently buh one can deduce from her mindset that she's ll be an asset n not a liability...

He is a monster, I can't sleep with someone I don't luv let alone getting her pregnant.

A New Metal is added to Chemistry

Name: WIFE
Symbol: Wf
Atomic mass: Light when first found... tends to get heavier over the years with time.

Physical Properties
- Boils at any time
- Can freeze at any time
- Melts if treated with love
- Very Bitter if Mishandled

Chemical Properties
- Very Reactive
- Highly Unstable
- Possesses Strong Affinity towards Gold, Silver, Diamond, Platinum, Credit cards, Debit cards & Cheque books
- Money Reducing Agent

Occurrence
Mostly found in front of the Mirror.

It's highly flammable when mixed with in-laws.

It has mixed properties when seated with parents.

Woe unto you if she sees you with any element similar to itself!

10 Things I noticed from the story above:
1. Your friend is an opportunist and a gold digger
2. She forced herself on the guy thinking getting pregnant for him would make him love her
3. Your so called friend don't love the guy but his money
4. Your so called friend is not ready to work
5. The guy played smart and ran away for his dear life
6. The guy is a control freak and the jealous type
7. Your friend no get sense at all
8. The guy has some one he his in love with
9. Your friend knew right from day one that the guy has a gf he loves

10. The guy wants free Toto

She should pick a baby mama form before dollar forces the price up again.

My friend is now in love with this guy

Like seriously dammy, you killed it right here.

.....she wants them to bring up the baby together cos she does not want the child to pass through what she passed through (she was brought up by a single parent

The apple doesn't fall too far from the tree, does it?

I don't believe it's ur friend it happened to.
If it was u. U were born stewpid for repeating your mother's mistake.



You can't tie a guy down with pregnancy in this 21st century.




All you can do is. Do ur best. Nurse ur offspring. Give all the care. The guy would definitely fall in love with the fruit of his loins and reconsider the hen that hatched it

so


Wat shud we do

Abort the babi or marry her

u can't pin a guy with belle ooh, thank God he told her d truth.its a mistake n she shuld learn 4rm it. its lyk dis single parent tin is a curse oh, she should beta pray n fast seriously abt it so dat it won't transfer 2 d baby she is carryin.

So sad.

I hate it when people brought up by single parents make the same mistake.

The standard of the bible that we have regarded as "old school" is still the best and safest way to live life.

To the OP and her friend, you can't force a man to be with you, a baby will not make him stay. Its a good thing you've decided to keep the baby, but know its going to be without this guy as your husband cause he has made it clear he is not in love with you.

You're a baby mama now.

Get yourself a job if you don't have one, cause it will be unwise to rely on this dude to take care of you, he can only try to support the baby. Then, repent of this way of life, it has obviously not helped you.

God's plan towards you are of good and not of evil to bring you an expected end.

Shalom.

Men

Common sense is indeed not Common..You were raised by a single parent and you're making similar mistake..Madam your problem is hereditary

Classic

You can't force a guy to like you. She should just behave well and pray to God. Maybe in time, the guy may come to accept her..

This is what happens when a fûçking Hoe allow Her fûçking pussy to do the thinking..The fûçking Hoe didn't learn any fûçking lesson from the Person who raised her as a single Parent! Hoes Everywhere