I just gained admission into one of our nigerian university far from home and am in a serious relationship so i dont want to beakup with my boyfriend cos i love him so very much but my fear is how to keep the relationship going.i have been thinking cos i know how it is with students in the university and i pray not to lose my relationship cos am going to school and my boyfrnd is bcomin scared of losing me.pls advice me on how to keep this relationship going.

at least ur in the same bloody continent

It's very simple, you can't!

I think your education should come first love

If he really loves you as you him he will wait and keep himself for you.

As a student it is hard, really hard. I doubt u ll be able to balance Constant communication, trust issues and every other thing with ur studies.

Just give your all and leave d rest to God.

Just focus on your education and don't ever think that he might have meet
another girl if you truly love him and he loves you back believe me your
relationship will still be intack.

i dnt blame ur bf, a farmer in the village, whose babe is going to college in the city for the first time shld be damn scared cos of guyz like me in the city. his loss, our gain.

Extra kool 'll do the trick!

u guys are both in Naija na, wetin wey u want make i do? my guy is in scotland and im roasting in the sun here in Naija. Just try and communicate often @least thats what i do.

@jessyport,communication is d key o.and make sure u trust each other ok.i bet u,u we laugh at last. Am an exprience person wen it comes to long distance relationship.

I was apart from mi fiance for 2years, he was in AUS, I was in the U.S. God's grace,Communication and Trust kept us going. I am in Uni, so I ain really got the time to flirt around;I was more focussed on becoming an A student and other important things. Besides, we call each other and send messages to each other. We were both determined, promised to be faithful and we really love each other. Besides, im not into cheating or double dating and he is just the same;I beleive its all vanity. We really trust each other.
You both in same Country, I think you shouldn't have much problem if you both really love each other.

@ selencious (f) : Lucky you, but have you got into a serious fight with ya long distance bf yet??

@ poster: don't worry about the long distance thing girl, it is simply there to test the strength of what u two called love.
So allow the temptations of out of mind - out of sight to prove ya loves; each has to pass the test to call it True love.