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When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by Favoredchic: 6:28am On Jul 31, 2017
Hello,

After I got married and disvirgined, I thought Sex will be fun after waiting all these years. But I feel only pain and no fun. Is it normal. When does it start to feel good please. Does sex feel good? How long will it take. Although the pain has reduced after the first few times.
Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by taylor88(m): 6:32am On Jul 31, 2017
and who said u didn't enjoy it the first time




show us ur pix of sealed pvssy or....

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Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by Favoredchic: 6:32am On Jul 31, 2017
Please give a sister some real advice.
Thanks
Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by ezebrightike: 6:34am On Jul 31, 2017
It's takes a while bae. sometimes when in the bathroom try to insert one or two figers yourself. I'm a practicing doc though

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Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by Larryfest(m): 6:47am On Jul 31, 2017
First of all it's deflowered and not disvirgined,secondly it shouldn't be more than twice before you start enjoying it except maybe there is a problem thou....
Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by Nobody: 6:47am On Jul 31, 2017
Probably you dont feel relaxed or your hubby aint getting it right

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Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by Nobody: 6:48am On Jul 31, 2017
Larryfest:
First of all it's disflowered and not disvirgined,secondly it shouldn't be more than twice before you start enjoying it except maybe there is a problem thou....

Oga Corrector...Its Deflower not disflower

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Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by Nobody: 6:55am On Jul 31, 2017
Maychang:


Oga Corrector...Its Deflower not dispflower
Ahahah.....you for tell am privately na....
C'mon be a good girl
Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by 9jayes: 6:56am On Jul 31, 2017
Immediately, talking from experience tho
Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by Nobody: 6:58am On Jul 31, 2017
Op ur man needs to service u regularly.....d more u do it the less painful it becomes till d pain finally go away..
With constant service...1.5 months maximum

The pleasure is worth d pain u are going thru....as that will sooth ur pain in future..
Especially when u are tired and need to relax ur body from head to toe..

Or as future sleeping tablet.....ur man should try some lubricant for now..... enjoy
Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by Martin0(m): 7:02am On Jul 31, 2017
Maychang:

Oga Corrector...Its Deflower not disflower
clapsgrin

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Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by Nobody: 7:04am On Jul 31, 2017
Favoredchic:
Please give a sister some real advice.
Thanks


There's nothing more fun than open it to ur hubbydoo.. grin

Tell him what u really like to do and do not be afraid to explore new things..sex is boring if u only do same thing again & again.. wink

Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by remedick: 7:05am On Jul 31, 2017
Favoredchic:
Hello,

After I got married and disvirgined, I thought Sex will be fun after waiting all these years. But I feel only pain and no fun. Is it normal. When does it start to feel good please. Does sex feel good? How long will it take. Although the pain has reduced after the first few times.

Do you get wet, as in really wet, before penetrative sex? Your answer will let me know what to say.

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Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by Nobody: 7:43am On Jul 31, 2017
Do u get wet before penetration?...u Guys should do a lot of pre-intimacy...sex isn't just about penetration...I think after the first time, u should begin to enjoy sex...try out different stuffs with ur hubby....u guys could also try watching porn....Nd make sure u feel comfortable during sex...if he's not getting it right feel free to tell him, With time u'll get to. Know what turns u on....couples should enjoy sex....(not a doctor oo)

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Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by LalaSnakeLala(m): 7:51am On Jul 31, 2017
Tell your hubby to go down and suck you till it starts flooding. lipsrsealed

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Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by xynerise: 7:51am On Jul 31, 2017
Tell oga to do some touch-touch before visiting the promise land.

Enjoying sex is also psychological... You need to relax as well

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Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by maxdosh(m): 8:53am On Jul 31, 2017
I doubt OP is married jor. Na young babe wey her bf no dey allow rest after deflowering. tongue

See as she run tell us say she don marry. AFTER I GOT MARRIED.... ... Who ask you. Besides who dey marry Virgin nowadays. They no go test wetin they won buy before they buy am? grin

Anyway Babe he has to let it heal o wella before the sharpener is hungry for the pencil



Favoredchic:
Hello,

After I got married and disvirgined, I thought Sex will be fun after waiting all these years. But I feel only pain and no fun. Is it normal. When does it start to feel good please. Does sex feel good? How long will it take. Although the pain has reduced after the first few times.

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Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by newslifeop: 8:56am On Jul 31, 2017
I
mediately
Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by ucheslime(m): 8:57am On Jul 31, 2017
Oga Correcting the corrector.... .Its Deflowering not deflower
Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by PromiseUche(m): 9:12am On Jul 31, 2017
ucheslime:


Oga Correcting the corrector.... .Its Deflowering not deflower
Oga correcting the correctors' corrector... it's Deflowered as suitable in that sentence & not deflowering.

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Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by RedDistrict: 9:27am On Jul 31, 2017
enough pre-intimacy babe, pre-intimacy is key. maybe ur hubby is a holy holy man so he dont knw shii about nakin other than to penetrate, tell him to touch u more, let him blow u sef, na ur husband so wahala nor dy. Basically u guys need to increase the romance more before the main naks.

All those ppl doing english language correction on the op's matter, na the advice wey she dy find be that abi?? why not make ur contribution if u get the point already?? Nigerians sha,
I blame buhari sha and even GEJ join sef grin

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Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by wolextayo: 9:35am On Jul 31, 2017
Favoredchic:
Hello,

After I got married and disvirgined, I thought Sex will be fun after waiting all these years. But I feel only pain and no fun. Is it normal. When does it start to feel good please. Does sex feel good? How long will it take. Although the pain has reduced after the first few times.
When you give birth, all the pain will go with the child birth

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Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by ikbnice(m): 9:40am On Jul 31, 2017
Keep ursef well lubricated with pre-intimacy or lubricant before he penetrates.
Secondly, your hubby may not be doing it right, possibly he's a Virgin or semivirgin too
Favoredchic:
Hello,

After I got married and disvirgined, I thought Sex will be fun after waiting all these years. But I feel only pain and no fun. Is it normal. When does it start to feel good please. Does sex feel good? How long will it take. Although the pain has reduced after the first few times.
Keep ursef well lubricated with pre-intimacy or lubricant before he penetrates.
Secondly, your hubby may not be doing it right, possibly he's a Virgin or semivirgin too
Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by Peachess(f): 9:59am On Jul 31, 2017
OP your problem is probably vaginismus, see a gynecologist ASAP.
What's Vaginismus?
Vaginismus, sometimes called vaginism, is a condition that affects a woman's ability to engage in vaginal penetration, including sexual intercourse, manual penetration, insertion of
tampons or menstrual cups, and the penetration involved in gynecological examinations (pap tests ). This is the result of an involuntary vaginal muscle spasm, which makes any kind of vaginal penetration painful or impossible.

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Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by MissRaine69(f): 10:31am On Jul 31, 2017
Sex is not just a physical thing its in the mind too. Do you do any pre-intimacy at all? How much do you understand your own body? Sex should not be painful you are right in thinking that but it should not be one sided either.
It's not necessarily vaginismus let's not jump to conclusions here. There are no set rules regarding sex but stimulation is mandatory. What positions do you find comfortable which ones are not all this needs to be explored. Liken a woman to an engine any good driver knows to warm up the engine before driving. Now if the key is just being put in the ignition and being driven off that's not good ma.

I reiterate you need to know your body that's the most important aspect of sex. Self discovery is the first step.

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Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by MissRaine69(f): 10:33am On Jul 31, 2017
Peachess:
OP your problem is probably vaginismus, see a gynecologist ASAP.
What's Vaginismus?
Vaginismus, sometimes called vaginism, is a condition that affects a woman's ability to engage in vaginal penetration, including sexual intercourse, manual penetration, insertion of
tampons or menstrual cups, and the penetration involved in gynecological examinations (pap tests ). This is the result of an involuntary vaginal muscle spasm, which makes any kind of vaginal penetration painful or impossible.
Do you know what the term frigid means? It's not always physical it could be psychological as well

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Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by Martin0(m): 10:43am On Jul 31, 2017
MissRaine69:
Sex is not just a physical thing its in the mind too. Do you do any pre-intimacy at all? How much do you understand your own body? Sex should not be painful you are right in thinking that but it should not be one sided either.
It's not necessarily vaginismus let's not jump to conclusions here. There are no set rules regarding sex but stimulation is mandatory. What positions do you find comfortable which ones are not all this needs to be explored. Liken a woman to an engine any good driver knows to warm up the engine before driving. Now if the key is just being put in the ignition and being driven off that's not good ma.

I reiterate you need to know your body that's the most important aspect of sex. Self discovery is the first step.
hmmmm
Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by ProudtobeaMUMUM(m): 10:43am On Jul 31, 2017
Martin0:
hmmmm
Just shut up
Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by Martin0(m): 10:57am On Jul 31, 2017
ProudtobeaMUMUM:

Just shut up
neither was I even talking to get such rudeness from a immature human like yougrin

I think you will need a ban to get your brains working normalgrin
Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by dreamwords: 11:08am On Jul 31, 2017
Come & see me for once, u will b ok, ayam not harmful ,,aswear
Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by freshinko: 11:31am On Jul 31, 2017
I expect ladies to advise this sister not men. Unless you re a male Doctor or medical expert. cool
Re: When Does A Disvirgined Gal Start To Enjoy Sex by Hhenryy: 1:06pm On Jul 31, 2017
Favoredchic:
Hello,

After I got married and disvirgined, I thought Sex will be fun after waiting all these years. But I feel only pain and no fun. Is it normal. When does it start to feel good please. Does sex feel good? How long will it take. Although the pain has reduced after the first few times.

op, nobody here is telling you the truth.

the truth is that you have been genitally mutilated(circumcised) while young, thus you can never enjoy sex.
the primary aim for Circumcision is to kill the female libido/urge for sex so that she won't be wayward/promiscuous. but unfortunately it also doesn't allow a woman to enjoy sex when she is ready.

did I even say wen she is ready? let me say when the husband is ready, because a genitally mutilated woman will have very little or no urge/appetite for sex.

i know you won't agree with this fact, you may not even know if you have been circumcised or not because it's normally done at a very tender age.

but you are not alone, it's a common practice in Africa, in Nigeria about 70% of the women (20 yrs & above) are circumcised.

little wonder why African men are mostly polygamous. since most of our women here don't enjoy sex, hence constantly denying their husband, then the husband will be under pressure to look elsewhere.

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