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My Fiancee Says I Am Not Loyal And Carin Enough by ozalogbo: 8:35pm On Feb 09, 2010 |
I have been havin a few disagreements with my fiancee that bother on our different notions on carin, and she accuses me of not bein loyal and caring enough. Let me give an example. She visited recntly. As I was walking her to my house, she suddenly thrust her bag at me and said, 'Carry it!' She was slightly angry. She expected me to have taken her bag from her without her askin. Now get this clear: It is not like the hand bag is heavy or she is weary and needs assistance. No, she sees it from the perspective of coursy and respect. I know that this is the result of our backgrounds. She comes from a background where a mother dominate all and call the shots at home; mine is the opposite. I have unlearned some of the things i saw in my home and made a lot of compromise, but i am honestly uncomfortable with carrying my girl's handbag along the road while she walks free in the name of coursey. I need your objective view on this. I readily make adjustments, if i am convinced about an issue; otherwise, i am a firm person. |
Re: My Fiancee Says I Am Not Loyal And Carin Enough by Nobody: 8:39pm On Feb 09, 2010 |
She traveled all the way to see you, a gentleman would carry her bags for her for the rest of the journey. Get it now? |
Re: My Fiancee Says I Am Not Loyal And Carin Enough by daylae(m): 8:47pm On Feb 09, 2010 |
Work on your shortcomings bro! |
Re: My Fiancee Says I Am Not Loyal And Carin Enough by justwise(m): 8:51pm On Feb 09, 2010 |
@op, You don't have to be forced to carry her hand bag, heavy traveling bag? Yes its only fair u do that. She got no clue what loyality means. |
Re: My Fiancee Says I Am Not Loyal And Carin Enough by Nobody: 8:53pm On Feb 09, 2010 |
She expects you to carry her handbag Me I don't understand that one oh! |
Re: My Fiancee Says I Am Not Loyal And Carin Enough by r231(m): 9:03pm On Feb 09, 2010 |
handbag or traveling bag well tell her no in a polite way |
Re: My Fiancee Says I Am Not Loyal And Carin Enough by deniyor: 9:51pm On Feb 09, 2010 |
Tell her off in the most annoyed way possible. She won't even think of it next time. wtf |
Re: My Fiancee Says I Am Not Loyal And Carin Enough by eggy(m): 10:13am On Feb 10, 2010 |
I personally do not see wat all the fuss is abt a damn bag afterall its not atravelling bag but a hand bag made solely4 aestetics .doubt if the manufacturer of the bag ever wanted it to be carried by a man. but all the same if it makes her happy i'll suggest u carry it on head if possible lol. trully belive dat the key 2 a mans happiness is linked 2 his spouses thus man jus make her happy |
Re: My Fiancee Says I Am Not Loyal And Carin Enough by peelovee(f): 10:44am On Feb 10, 2010 |
She expects you to carry her handbag There is nothing wrong for you to carry her handbag. But It is very wrong for her giving you charge to do so. @poster, You can do any thing for her all in the name of LOVE Shine your eyes, make she no give you GHANA MUST GO (x large size) to carry for head all in the name of love |
Re: My Fiancee Says I Am Not Loyal And Carin Enough by justwise(m): 10:58am On Feb 10, 2010 |
peelovee: |
Re: My Fiancee Says I Am Not Loyal And Carin Enough by Nobody: 11:01am On Feb 10, 2010 |
What is wrong with women and their handbags? If you don't want to carry it, leave it at home. |
Re: My Fiancee Says I Am Not Loyal And Carin Enough by pinkylady1(f): 11:16am On Feb 10, 2010 |
michelin89: the thing tire me oh. @ poster why must she force you to carry her bag 4 her. na real wah 4 her |
Re: My Fiancee Says I Am Not Loyal And Carin Enough by ddiamond(f): 11:39am On Feb 10, 2010 |
peelovee: i concur, |
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