I have been havin a few disagreements with my fiancee that bother on our different notions on carin, and she accuses me of not bein loyal and caring enough. Let me give an example. She visited recntly. As I was walking her to my house, she suddenly thrust her bag at me and said, 'Carry it!' She was slightly angry. She expected me to have taken her bag from her without her askin. Now get this clear: It is not like the hand bag is heavy or she is weary and needs assistance. No, she sees it from the perspective of coursy and respect. I know that this is the result of our backgrounds. She comes from a background where a mother dominate all and call the shots at home; mine is the opposite. I have unlearned some of the things i saw in my home and made a lot of compromise, but i am honestly uncomfortable with carrying my girl's handbag along the road while she walks free in the name of coursey. I need your objective view on this. I readily make adjustments, if i am convinced about an issue; otherwise, i am a firm person.

She traveled all the way to see you, a gentleman would carry her bags for her for the rest of the journey. Get it now?

Work on your shortcomings bro!

@op,

You don't have to be forced to carry her hand bag, heavy traveling bag? Yes its only fair u do that. She got no clue what loyality means.

She expects you to carry her handbag

Me I don't understand that one oh!

handbag or traveling bag

well tell her no in a polite way

Tell her off in the most annoyed way possible. She won't even think of it next time. wtf

I personally do not see wat all the fuss is abt a damn bag afterall its not atravelling bag but a hand bag made solely4 aestetics .doubt if the manufacturer of the bag ever wanted it to be carried by a man.
but all the same if it makes her happy i'll suggest u carry it on head if possible lol.
trully belive dat the key 2 a mans happiness is linked 2 his spouses thus man jus make her happy

She expects you to carry her handbag

There is nothing wrong for you to carry her handbag.
But It is very wrong for her giving you charge to do so.

@poster, You can do any thing for her all in the name of LOVE
Shine your eyes, make she no give you GHANA MUST GO (x large size) to carry for head all in the name of love

peelovee:

She expects you to carry her handbag

There is nothing wrong for you to carry her handbag.
But It is very wrong for her giving you charge to do so.

@poster, You can do any thing for her all in the name of LOVE
Shine your eyes, make she no give you [b]GHANA MUST GO (x large size) to carry for head all in the name of love [/b]

What is wrong with women and their handbags? If you don't want to carry it, leave it at home.

michelin89:

What is wrong with women and their handbags? If you don't want to carry it, leave it at home.

the thing tire me oh.

@ poster
why must she force you to carry her bag 4 her.

na real wah 4 her

peelovee:

She expects you to carry her handbag  

There is nothing wrong for you to carry her handbag.
But It is very wrong for her giving  you  charge to do so.

@poster, You can do any thing for her all in the name of LOVE  
Shine your eyes, make she no give you GHANA MUST GO  (x large size) to carry for head all in the name of love  

i concur,