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Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by Safiaa(f): 11:44am On Aug 06, 2017 |
mazinoweb:i dont follow men. They come my way. A girl my age has to date, to keep options open. I have a high libido, so when i get comfortable with a guy, i tend to want to take things further. But im trying though. |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by Catalyst4real: 11:56am On Aug 06, 2017 |
sukkot:This is the most senseless thing I've come across today. You make it sound as if there's no forgiveness whatsoever for premarital sex and once the act is done it is irreversible. You said any lady you have sex with is your wife, whether married or unmarried and there's no such thing as premarital sex. Now the question is. What if the lady has already had sex with someone else before me. It means she is someone else's wife. How can I be married to someone else's wife? |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by sukkot: 12:00pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
Catalyst4real:there is forgiveness only after repentance. and repentance requires you stop doing it. most people dont repent. they keep on doing it and if the lady has had sex before you she too is in the same boat as you. its just 2 cursed people being brought together to bring judgement on each other lol. to a wicked man GOD gives a wicked woman |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by Ups01(m): 12:17pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
sukkot: @ the bolded is pure crap @sukkot your logic is warped. Read what you wrote yourself, some people are victim of circumstances IT'S NOT THEIR FREAKING FAULT! |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by gentlegenius(m): 12:20pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
sayentease:The ten commandments, which is the greatest of all laws in the Bible only condemns adultery; it didn't condemn fornication. That shows that those who commits adultery are sinning against God but those who commits fornication are sinning against their own body(1 Cor. 6:18). Sex is more than just physical contact. It Involves the entire being- body, soul and spirit. This is why we become one with the person we have sex with. When two unmarried people engage in sex, they become one flesh. If they went on to get married, they haven't sinned against their bodies and against God. But if they don't get married after all their sexual activities, then they have unwittingly committed a serious sin against their bodies by trying to separate what has been spiritually yoked together. In the old testament days God ordered the Israelites to punish anyone caught committing adultery by stoning him and her to death. But when an unmarried man is caught sleeping with an unmarried woman, the punishment is forcing him to marry that woman. Consider the difference in the two cases and you'll see that fornication is a sin when done by two people that are not ready to marry each other. But it's not really a sin when done by partners that are certainly going to get married. |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by Shelloween(m): 12:20pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
lalanice:I don't expect you to understand hun, those waiting suffer temptation the most. Are you a virgin? |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by Fucktensei: 12:23pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
Safiaa:and I've been looking for women with high libido! WHY All I get are stupidd virgins at my doorstep! |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by sukkot: 12:24pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
Ups01:i dont expect you to understand. in fact i would be shocked if you understood anything i wrote. narrow is the way and only few find it there is no such thing as victim of circumstances. no coincidences. GOD is in full control. trust me |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by Ups01(m): 12:30pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
sukkot: Clearly again your Logic is warped. Bye. cc: @jfleece can you see how he (sukkot) is giving flawed analysis? |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by sukkot: 12:33pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
Ups01:like i said, i dont expect the carnal to receive the things of the spirit. |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by Ups01(m): 12:35pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
sukkot: Okay Mr Righteous |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by sukkot: 12:40pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
Ups01:i neve said i was righteous. however any laws that is written in the bible ? i deliberately make an attempt not to break it. and i have done it for so long now that it is now become a part of me. for example ? i have not stolen a single kobo in close to ten years. one time i went into an office to fill out some forms and then i left the office afterwards and down the street i realized i still had the pen i used to fill the form with on me, and i knew that would be considered stealing, i went all the way back to return one single cheap pen. thats who i have become. i break no laws. GOD is a dangerous terrible deity and i dont want his wrath on me lmao psalm 47 vs 2 For the LORD most high is terrible |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by jfleece(m): 12:55pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
Ups01:boss the thing weak me... Some peeps are so outdated in their religious paradigm.... So sad tho. |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by sukkot: 12:56pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
jfleece:this aint religious paradigm. this is spirituality. thats the problem. you people have been brainwashed in church |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by nkemdi89(f): 1:13pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
mazinoweb:I don't think you understand, OK let me rephrase it, most men see sex as one of the major ingredient in a relationship |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by orunto27: 1:18pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
God doesn't like waste of everything that we cannot easily replace. So don't play game with your Body. It's The Temple of God and a Spirit in you that God Himself is jealously guiding. Operative words here are:- God, Waste, Body, Temple, Spirit and jealously guiding. |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by searay(m): 1:30pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
sukkot:Exactly my view on this issue. Leaving her to another is rather ADULTERY |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by sukkot: 1:38pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
searay:well its both fornication and adultery. you fornicated with her when you left her after sleeping with her and committed adultery with the other person you got with. two laws broken |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by Bleeze2: 1:52pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
I ask myself, 'is there hope for this generation spiritually'. Even Jesus said, 'I tell you that he will avenge them speedily. Nevertheless when the Son of man cometh, shall he find faith on the earth?' Luke 18:8. In 1 cor 7:5, the bible says, ' Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.'. That is even for husband and wife o, so that they will not be tempted to commit adultery not to talk of those who have not married. In 1 cor 6:15, ' Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid.'. And in 1 cor 6:18, ' Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.' But if u burn of sexual desire the scripture has said in 1 cor 7:9,' But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.'. But above all we must address this situation from the foundation cuz the bible says in 1 cor 1:18, ' For the preaching of the cross is to them that perish foolishness; but unto us which are saved it is the power of God.' U av to be born again. Repent of your ways, this is not only by going to church but be a Christian, let your life be fashioned after Christ's. Remember the bibke says in Romans 8:13, ' For if ye live after the flesh, ye shall die: but if ye through the Spirit do mortify the deeds of the body, ye shall live.'. Finally, in Acts 17:30, ' And the times of this ignorance God winked at; but now commandeth all men every where to repent'. So called brother, so called sister, so called chorister, so called pastor, so called sunday school teacher, repent ye all, u don't have any justification to fornicate. May the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with us all. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by Rukkydelta(f): 1:59pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
The fact that most of us are engaging in it that doesn't mean it is not a sin Having any kind of sexual activity with someone you are not married to is a sin Though in this modern generation fornication it's the order of the day May God continue to give those of us who choose to stay away from premarital sex to do so till the end... Amen |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by OurworkComNg1: 2:16pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
5DMindset: and who is the "creator of creators" you are referring to?? |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by Nobody: 2:28pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
OurworkComNg1: Not who but what. |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by Nobody: 2:29pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
ta4ba3: You know & yet willfully do it? OK continue till the day monkey no come back again. |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by enemyofprogress: 2:32pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
VickyRotex:if na joke make you stop am o |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by hadow(m): 2:44pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
the bible says you should flee from all appearance of evil. what is a sin is a sin you have no way to justify it |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by OurworkComNg1: 2:51pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
5DMindset:so what created you sir?? the big bang(er) 6sounds knockout?? |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by NoToPile: 2:56pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
Is a Christian supposed to have a view or opinion on a biblical instruction? Bible says it is wrong so it is wrong. The fact that a lot of people are doing it doesn't make it right. |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by ireneidiva(f): 3:27pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
sayentease:Why should you do something wrong because you can ask for forgiveness later? |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by Nobody: 4:08pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
sayentease: ... and i ask, is there any justification to sin? If God knee we could not be able to withstand it, why did he call it sin? God cannot change his standard. Just obey! |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by Nobody: 4:09pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
The biblical view is our view. |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by greatdave(m): 4:18pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
ucheuzor1: And how much of this "energy" have we harnessed into something productive. You lay down on the bed afterwards,lazy and "empty". Sex is truly overrated! If we are sincere to ourselves, only one who doesn't care about conscience continues to engage in premarital sex without some form of guilt and or conviction. The fact that it's prevalent doesnt make it right. Yes this feelings arise, but it takes discipline and Grace to overcome the urges. It's not easy but it's very possible. We will not for if we don't have such sex. Just imagine a guy fully aroused and ready to get down but the girl suddenly says she has HIV...The "Salutation" will drop instantly. Be guided folks...Jesus Loves you! 1 Like |
Re: Premarital Sex: What Is Your View As A Christian? by piagetskinner(m): 5:14pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
sex is not what binds...but love is...even when one is married... because couples that divorce themselves must have had sex a number of times...if they loved more...the issue of divorce wouldn't arise.. the bible is against sex before marriage.. that all I can say |
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