https://twitter.com/mrjasonowilson/status/894737420322832384


I don’t think a Nigerian man can imbibe the idea of cleaning the kitchen after his wife finishes cooking. It can only happen when he’s trying to please his wife after doing something wrong. As soon as he gets forgiven, he goes back to his old ways of reading newspaper in the living room while expecting his meal. lol

Well, below is an American dad who has been cleaning the kitchen for 19 years after his wife finishes cooking.

He tweeted:

For 19 years I’ve always cleaned the kitchen after my wife cooks. I am training my son to do the same. Marriage is not 50/50 it’s 100/100!

https://www.wotzup.ng/19-years-cleaned-kitchen-wife/

There is no manual for marriage, what rocked yours may sink others

Bye

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when you finally see a man that's not a misogynist, or have the stupid and absurd African mentality of women being slaves, a man that's a feminist, Logical, driven and career focused and then he tells you he doesn't want to date you _O_ ...

Why are his kids light skinned tho? All these light skin families sef be forming oyibo

This is the kind of man cococandy likes.


Shiorr

its his choice...... the son will also grow up to make his choice, like not cleaning the kitchen after his wife is done with cooking and that can take 50years

lilmax:
its his choice...... the son will also grow up to make his choice, like not cleaning the kitchen after his wife is done with cooking and that can take 50years

Can you do the same?

lalasticlala

Body of a real man. Those acts ought to be private.family secrets. else, ndi uwa would consider it weakness from your part.

Everyone with their unique tactical plan of keeping the family which to me is the most important institution on earth going.

LifestyleTonite:
This is the kind of man cococandy likes.


Shiorr

Yes I actually do.
Not only cleaning the kitchen. Cooking too when required.

Men are also able bodied humans not invalid disabled ones.

Evaberry:
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when you finally see a man that's not a misogynist, or have the stupid and absurd African mentality of women being slaves, a man that's a feminist, Logical, driven and career focused and then he tells you he doesn't want to date you _O_ ...

Why are his kids light skinned tho? All these light skin families sef be forming oyibo

His wife is light

My kinda man

cococandy:

Yes I actually do.
Not only cleaning the kitchen. Cooking too when required.

Men are also able bodied humans not invalid disabled ones.

What about going to the market to buy vegetables and tomatoes?

Pidgin2:


His wife is light

My kinda man

What if he's poor?

LifestyleTonite:
What if he's poor?

Why na? Say no to poverty

I know i don't need a map to go around the kitchen but Based on kitchen etiquette 101.. As you are cooking u are cleaning after yourself..Anyone that knows how to cook kinda know this simple principle

Does the wife just mess the whole place up for the man to clean?...If it was doing the dishes after eating meals, i would have understood that perfectly..

LifestyleTonite:
What about going to the market to buy vegetables and tomatoes?

That too

aXS

Hmm mm fp

and so bleeping what?

Good for you and your wife.

Peeps, something to have in mind is that, what works for him in his marriage might not work for you. Perosnally, I ain't cleaning no kitchen after my wife cooks

But I do help out in the house and all, the moral of his story is that marriage is 100/100.. Both the man and the wife should be contributing to move the family forward.

There are some homes that the wife cooks, bath the kids, clean the house, wash pikin cloth, was oga cloth, was her own cloth, go tp market etc like haba even the slaves didn't work like that...

Also there are households that Oga will go work, make money.. Pay all the bills , school fees, house rent , bring money for food, take the kids to school, bring them back, shower them, cook etc but the wife still end up cheating on him.. Nawo, the gods be like....

so I should now give my wife a free pass to mess up the kitchen because she's expecting a cleaner bah? what happened to cleaning as you cook?

Oga your wife is dirty abeg.

Maybe she's the one with green card. Just saying.

NIGERIAN BABES KEEP DREAMIN!!! What are you doing on nairaland? GO WASH PLATES JOR. hahahaha

Nice. God bless him for that and add more grease to his elbows. I wish my hubby does it even if it is once in six months but he is hardly at home let alone helping me out in the kitchen.

Nice. God bless him for that and add more grease to his elbows. I wish my hubby does it even if it is once in six months but he is hardly at home let alone helping me out in the kitchen.

Black men are romantic.

Marriage is a teamwork. If my wife can wash my boxers and singlet...cook for me and wash the plates. Nothing makes me less a man or human to assit her to keep the family running for the good of everyone.

She's a human being for God's sake! Not a donkey!

Anywhere she is overwhelmed, I must be there to HELP.

I can see all these ladies daydreaming on the thread. They are looking for men that would clean up after them.

Na LAWMA worker una go marry.

So?
Na onle naija dis one be credit.
dis na normal tin na.
After all, madam no be slave