good day people. in my last post, I talked about a guy I was seeking for advice to date or not. we are finally dating, buh he is freaking me out lately. he always refer to my past. he claimed to spend much on the girls he was with in the past, buh wen I asked him to lend me money, not much for my business idea, he refused. saying he doesn't have after which he bought another phone 10 times worth what I asked for in my presence de next day. mind you, I asked him to lend me not give me. few days ago he changed his relationship status to complicated. he gave me no good reason for doing that. I just ignored it. each time I post a pix of brothers or cousins, he feels jealous and then I remove it. only for him to post an unknown girl's picture on his whatsap status with just her name as a caption. when I confronted him, he claimed it was her birthday and she's just a friend. then I told him to indicate its her birthday as per "happy birthday" he refused, oya remove de pix he refused. we started arguing and am so hurt buh he is still stubborn and doesn't care whether or not removing de pix will settle the whole thing. I feel like leaving this guy. should I??

A guy you started dating only recently, you are demanding for loan to start up business from him. Is he a microfinance or world bank?

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What a wawuu relationship

Chairman's. Nairalanders will not kill me with laughter one day my dear open, this is NOT a relationship. it is a situationship.

Guys who are always jealous and suspicious of their girlfriends are serial cheats... Quote me anywhere

Omo the guy wahala too much, you get time. I hate someone giving me headache.

Both of you are not serious.
Ur not ready to be in a relationship..
I think u guys are just playing around.

there is nothing wrong asking for a loan. However, he needed a phone and he has a budget, he starts saving for the phone. you have to understand the motives people hold money. I am sure No Man would have given you the money.
Going forward, when you need loan, do tell him in advance. so that he will able to make a budget for it.

Jacksparr0w1207:
A guy you started dating only recently, you are demanding for loan to start up business from him. Is he a microfinance or world bank?

It is quite bemusing tbh. It's all because he bought an expensive phone for himself rather than sponsor her business. I can't say much about this since they both seem to have some funny traits, lol.

queenice7

1. Take time to understand your man.

2. Give him the benefit of the doubt in every situation, never make assumptions.

3. Talk to your man

4. Don't be a liability to him.

Bamz:


It is quite bemusing tbh. It's all because he bought an expensive phone for himself rather than sponsor her business. I can't say much about this since they both seem to have some funny traits, lol.

queenic.e7

1. Take time to understand your man.

2. Give him the benefit of the doubt in every situation, never make assumptions.

3. Talk to your man

4. Don't be a liability to him.

Its even more ridiculous that she is thinking of dumping him because he won't bankroll her business. So she only got into the relationship cuz she needed a financial mugu.

Because the guy puts himself first by buying a phone, he deserves to be fired. These girls she. Smh

Jacksparr0w1207:
A guy you started dating only recently, you are demanding for loan to start up business from him. Is he a microfinance or world bank?

i wonder o, e sweet me as the guy no give am

Jacksparr0w1207:
Its even more ridiculous that she is thinking of dumping him because he won't bankroll her business. So she only got into the relationship cuz she needed a financial mugu.

Because the guy puts himself first by buying a phone, he deserves to be fired. These girls she. Smh

girls ehh! Money wey she no know as the guy take get am... The babe should try another mugu

Jacksparr0w1207:
Its even more ridiculous that she is thinking of dumping him because he won't bankroll her business. So she only got into the relationship cuz she needed a financial mugu.

Because the guy puts himself first by buying a phone, he deserves to be fired. These girls she. Smh

I'm trying not to be skewed in my assessment of both of them, but I believe mutual understanding is an exigency. If that existed, maybe she wouldn't come to NL with her problems. The fact that none of them has thrown in the towel points to either they are trying to make it work or they are both waiting for one more breakup trigger.

Better a broken relationship than a brokem marriage anyway.

Two opportunists in a relationship. Both of you're of the same ethical leanings - the worst ethical leanings for that matter - so, I don't see the relationship becoming a healthy one, not now and not in the future. Quit. Meanwhile, after you quit, kindly embrace a change of attitude.

Start acting like u don't care about what he does and see how he reacts to it, if he doesn't change then it's time to move on. You said u guys just started dating so I think it's too early for that drama.

Is this suppose to be a symbiotic relationship or what? Well anyhow it all depend on u

JONNYSPUTE:
Is this suppose to be a symbiotic relationship or what? Well anyhow it all depend on u

you guys are getting me wrong here. I truly love him, I ain't tryna gold dig. I Neva wanted to ask him for money coz I know it isn't proper buh I needed de loan. I asked all my friends and family non could give me, so I thought I could ask him. up till now I avnt gotten de loan from anywhere. just lazying around doing nothing. I ain't judging him coz of that, but I am bitter coz of de rest of his attitude. too arrogant, too insecure, if it was me, sensing that the picture will bring trouble between us, I'll remove it, there's nothing there. buh he no gree o

If he got the honey pot early
U r useless to him

But has he fvcked u

queenice7:
good day people. in my last post, I talked about a guy I was seeking for advice to date or not. we are finally dating, buh he is freaking me out lately. he always refer to my past. he claimed to spend much on the girls he was with in the past, buh wen I asked him to lend me money, not much for my business idea, he refused. saying he doesn't have after which he bought another phone 10 times worth what I asked for in my presence de next day. mind you, I asked him to lend me not give me. few days ago he changed his relationship status to complicated. he gave me no good reason for doing that. I just ignored it. each time I post a pix of brothers or cousins, he feels jealous and then I remove it. only for him to post an unknown girl's picture on his whatsap status with just her name as a caption. when I confronted him, he claimed it was her birthday and she's just a friend. then I told him to indicate its her birthday as per "happy birthday" he refused, oya remove de pix he refused. we started arguing and am so hurt buh he is still stubborn and doesn't care whether or not removing de pix will settle the whole thing. I feel like leaving this guy. should I??