If you’ve ever been in a relationship, you’ll know that we all say things we don’t mean from time to time, and we immediately regret them. Unless it’s something truly heinous, these moments are usually forgivable.

But when things are said repeatedly or without remorse, you should take them seriously. While it’s important for partners to feel open and honest when communicating with each other, some . should be off-limits. From my time working with clients in the counseling setting, I’ve learned that there are some things that your boyfriend should really never say to you.

You’re not good enough

You’re not perfect. Big surprise, no one is! If your boyfriend harps on all of your peculiarities and failures while making a point to use them against you, his intentions are definitely questionable. Why would you want to remind someone of all of their flaws?

I’ve seen boyfriends use this tactic to try to prove that their partner isn’t “good enough” for them. It’s emotionally destructive and completely unnecessary. There’s nothing loving about this type of comment.

Pro tip: If someone starts raising questions about your value, you should probably turn the tables on them, and ask yourself if they are worth your time. Spoiler: they probably aren’t.
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