The boy child....very difficult to tame.

thesicilian:
Good. Better safe than sorry.
I once had to start locking my door also against a 3yr old daughter of a neighbour, who was for some weird reasons, always fond of playing with my belt buckles.

Guy, your belt buckles are usually shiny. Shiny objects draw kids. Your assumption that the child is being sexually abused is a huge leap; but you are correct in being safe than sorry.

I wont saya much : U go born ur own, den ull understand children growth stages.

KingLennon:
It depends on how the kid is being raised tho but children at that age tend to be a little bit restless and insultive. Very soon, the boy will change that behaviour to new one. Children developed in different stages...

Yes, it depends on how the kid is being raised, and I agree with you that they are restless, as in #RESTLESS!, but I don't agree that children at that age tend to be insulting, No! It depends on how they are trained.

My two years old is fond of saying "Gbe'nue Soun", he actually picked it from a neighbour, Alhaja, but the mum will politely tell scold him not to say that again, that "it's not good". And anytime he wanted to mutter something like that, he quickly cautions himself.

momentum85:
you just want to paint men black, 2years old baby doing all these? mtcheew!

Don't mind them. Society (women & pvssy worshipping men) and mainstream media love to demonize boys and men in an overwhelming manner.

Girls and women, on the other hand, are portrayed as the sweetest and most harmless things to have ever existed on the surface of the earth. Like, they can't do anything wrong.

Teewhy2:
Good one, i support her. it all starts from young age. Yorubas will say teach your kids well when they are young so that they can give you rest of mind when they grow old. Let us also inculcate into our kids from young age good manners,how to be responsible Wo/Man in the society, advantages of doing things the normal way than shortcuts, financial intelligence and working smart and safe so that Nigeria can be a better place for us all.

It is not yorùbá that said it; it is the Bible that said it. Mr Proverber!

Children development comes in different stages, some would jump into every arm that is opened to them at some stage, while the same child would reject everyone including one of their parents, he/she may just be comfortable with their maid, as an adult you need to understand that they are forming their own unique personality at these stages. Correction at this stage is good but it's not the most important thing. The child should not be caged at this age, rather, he should be allowed some free will to build their problem solving abilities. Your outburst against a child that age is unnecessary. You appear not only intolerant, it also shows no one in your immediate family has given birth recently.

This is for those of you salivating over this lady.

thesicilian:
Good. Better safe than sorry.
I once had to start locking my door also against a 3yr old daughter of a neighbour, who was for some weird reasons, always fond of playing with my belt buckles.

two years is too small to give names to d child.that is ur own view anyway.

KingLennon:
It depends on how the kid is being raised tho but children at that age tend to be a little bit restless and insultive. Very soon, the boy will change that behaviour to new one. Children developed in different stages...

Bros u are correct. At that age they seem restless. That is how my boy does now. If u chase him away from here he will go to other place. Evn he cant sit or settle down when ever am feeding him. With time i no they will change

Ride on jare, mi o le je ki awon omokomo lo ko ba awon omo temi ohh!

Jostico:
the mum might be wrong, but the child is still a kid.

But that is how it usually starts...from tender age. Obviously the mother is comfortable with such behavior

Hmm

HOW TO RELATE WITH YOUR CHILD
In psychology, it has been established that a child's personality would have formed by the age of 5. This gives insight into how to relate with a child and as he/she grows up.
1. Be a parent to the child between birth and 12 years of age. This is when the spankings, etc can come in. Whatever you don't correct at this age, forget about correcting later. Correct their perceptions, their orientations, etc. Be available to physically incorporate values into them.
2. From the age of 13-19, you are to be a friend to them.
Many parents want to do core parenting at this age range. If you didn't achieve that earlier, you may not succeed outrightly here.
Note that one significant factor that can help the child at this phase is the God-factor. If they find God at this age or earlier, they will likely stick to Him forever.
3. From age 20 and above, the best you can be to the 'child' is a mentor.
At this phase, be an inspiration to him/her. Let your life inspire him/her. Let your marriage inspire. Inspire them to do things rather than wanting to push your way through. You cannot be adopting spanking and slappings at this age. That is if you are not slapped back. Because if you did a good job, you won't have to be slapping a 25 year old.
Conclusion...
1. Never stop praying for your child however old they grow. Never stop committing them to God's hands.
2. Never stop being a parent no matter how old they grow, but don't forget that life is in phases and maximize every phase of their lives by the right approach. Your child is not just the body you see but a soul with an eternity. Parents have a role to play in where that eternity would be.
what most of you shouting and ranting abt the boy's age is that the earlier u start training the better for d child...

HOW TO RELATE WITH YOUR CHILD
In psychology, it has been established that a child's personality would have formed by the age of 5. This gives insight into how to relate with a child and as he/she grows up.
1. Be a parent to the child between birth and 12 years of age. This is when the spankings, etc can come in. Whatever you don't correct at this age, forget about correcting later. Correct their perceptions, their orientations, etc. Be available to physically incorporate values into them.
2. From the age of 13-19, you are to be a friend to them.
Many parents want to do core parenting at this age range. If you didn't achieve that earlier, you may not succeed outrightly here.
Note that one significant factor that can help the child at this phase is the God-factor. If they find God at this age or earlier, they will likely stick to Him forever.
3. From age 20 and above, the best you can be to the 'child' is a mentor.
At this phase, be an inspiration to him/her. Let your life inspire him/her. Let your marriage inspire. Inspire them to do things rather than wanting to push your way through. You cannot be adopting spanking and slappings at this age. That is if you are not slapped back. Because if you did a good job, you won't have to be slapping a 25 year old.
Conclusion...
1. Never stop praying for your child however old they grow. Never stop committing them to God's hands.
2. Never stop being a parent no matter how old they grow, but don't forget that life is in phases and maximize every phase of their lives by the right approach. Your child is not just the body you see but a soul with an eternity. Parents have a role to play in where that eternity would be.
what most of you shouting and ranting abt the boy's age is that the earlier u start training the better for d child...

thonyokun:

Oga pussy pounder guess your surname is jabez. Na everybody know say u dey pound your mama.

Abeg. Unquote him @thonyokun

I was at the clinic sometime ago with my kids, I little boy of about 2 + walked up to me and was trying to say something, I drew closer to him trying to understand him, and before I knew it he gave me a dirty slap, saying "yee me eyone , I drew him closer, opened his buttocks and spanked him very hard, I asked who the mum was, she shamefully came forward begging, rubbish, some parents aren't ready for parenting, they should keep their legs closed if they are not ready to train their kids.


for those doubting, u have no clue about what some kids can do.

kennydotkom:


Bros u are correct. At that age they seem restless. That is how my boy does now. If u chase him away from here he will go to other place. Evn he cant sit or settle down when ever am feeding him. With time i no they will change

when u have ur next baby, try putting him on a high chair, that's where he will sit, watch TV, feed himself, u can start as early as 6 months, it makes them more coordinated and less restless especially during meals, I made the mistake of not using it for my first child, most Nigerian parents dnt see d need for it.

Most kids around that age tend to show aggressive and tough behaviors but it soon changes with time in most cases.

My brother's kid would shout back at you when he doesn't have his way followed by a short cry then life goes on.

logica:
Guy, your belt buckles are usually shiny. Shiny objects draw kids. Your assumption that the child is being sexually abused is a huge leap; but you are correct in being safe than sorry.

Yes o, its not the child I blamed, she was innocent. Its just that to an onlooker it might have meant something entirely different.

enemyofprogress:
the girl wan rappe you?

Lol. No o, she was just playing. But others would not understand.

take him to synagogue of .......he needs deliverance maybe he has karashika inside him

thesicilian:

Lol. No o, she was just playing. But others would not understand.

playing with your weapon of mass destruction

thesicilian:
Good. Better safe than sorry.
I once had to start locking my door also against a 3yr old daughter of a neighbour, who was for some weird reasons, always fond of playing with my belt buckles.

I didn't de ooo

momentum85:
you just want to paint men black, 2years old baby doing all these? mtcheew!

You need to see my neighbor's son he is two not even talking yet but very stubborn and aggressive when he don't have his way if you caution him he pick up stone and throw at you.
These days parent no longer train children on manners just as the mother of that child said "na man na" that is the common slogan after such parents will became restless because the said man child as become a grown monster