Somebody help me!!!!!!!!!! i am in a relationship with two guys i love one and i dont av feelings for the other but the one i dont love looks more serious and promising than the one i love.pls what do i do to get my self out of this mess.

Are you serious? Instead of having to choose, have you heard of polyandry? Google it.

olaideq:

Somebody help me!!!!!!!!!! i am in a relationship with two guys i love one and i dont av feelings for the other but the one i dont love looks more serious and promising than the one i love.pls what do i do to get my self out of this mess.

Make up ur mind quick u double dater, u said u are inlove with 2 guys, then u said again u have feeling for one and not the other, how can u love somebody without having feelings for him?

Very soon u will get ur sorry arse dumped by both.

You cant eat you cake and have it. This will come and bite you in the butt if you are not careful.

Get it straight, What do you want. Love or a serious relationship. If the serious guy loves you,
you can start by loving him. The unserious one is loved by u and maybe not him.
Are you very sure the one u love is not serious, if yes just end it der. You cant eat your cake and have it.
before you loose both choose one.

I don't think you really love (or even like) either. If you really really did, then 1.) you wouldn't be cheating on both, and 2.) you would know who to pick.

But that's just by the way. In answer to your question, what's more important to you? Present happiness or future possibilities? I don't really think you should be with either, personally, but it depends on whether or not you're just ready to settle down now irrespective of feelings.