While some will say falling in love with two people at the same time is impossible, others believe it is. A lot of people have actually had to feel the overwhelming effect of falling in love with more than one person at a time. Call it what you like, this is about loving someone but becoming powerless after unintentionally developing flames for someone else.

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you fell in love with someone else at a time when you were in love?

IamKashyBaby:



Nope...never..Im too loyal to cheat..One is enough for me..i dont want too much wahala sha..

It's too much walaha truly, with someone else in the picture one tends to loose concentration.

It's possible to fall in love with someone else while still in love but one just need to steer clear of such temptation. I get to meet a lot of cute ladies with my kind of job, i even have access their contact but I don't even think about it for once.

IamKashyBaby:



Nope...never..Im too loyal to cheat..One is enough for me..i dont want too much wahala sha..

This thread is not asking people to act on the new love. It is just a post highlighting the possibility of falling in love with two people at the same time.

fuckerstard:


It's too much walaha, with someone else in the picture one tends to loose concentration.

Very correct. It is even emotionally traumatic.

You are not feeling love
you are feeling lust infatuation or just likeness
love is not a feeling that comes with a sip of the bottle

thefirst:
This thread is not asking people to act on the new love. It is just a post highlighting the possibility of falling in love with two people at the same time.

It seems u dont get the point at all...

U asked the question in public forum so u shud expect all kinds of answers...

NONSENSE.

IamKashyBaby:





It seems u dont get the point at all...

U asked the question in public forum so u shud expect all kinds of answers...

NONSENSE.

It's okay.

True i have 3 crush atm

Evaberry:
You are not feeling love

you are feeling lust infatuation or just likeness

love is not a feeling that comes with a sip of the bottle

Love, just like many things, isn't perfect; it's got cracks that can be exploited!

drunkcow:
True i have 3 crush atm

Will you consider what you have for them another evidence of infatuation?

It's possible, but it's not worth it. The second person will will get to find out only just after the first, and you end up loving two people who don't give a damn about what you do anymore

Deshannel:
It's possible, but it's not worth it. The second person will will get to find out only just after the first, and you end up loving two people who don't give a damn about what you do anymore

Your response, I must say, hits the nail on the head: it is possible(This being a very important part of the point) but not worth it(Another important angle)

thefirst:
Will you consider what you have for them another evidence of infatuation?

though two of them are friends

drunkcow:

though two of them are friends

Okay.

thefirst:
Okay.

Has that ever happened to you

@op,its impossible at the same time.It will be tantamount to clash of feelings.Thou,your defination of "love"is subjected to interpretation base on your perception.Some abuse the word for lust or infatuation which love is a way different.

walepackage:
@op,its impossible at the same time.It will be tantamount to clash of feelings.Thou,your defination of "love"is subjected to interpretation base on your perception.Some abuse the word for lust or infatuation which love is a way different.

Spot on bro!

drunkcow:

Has that ever happened to you

It's almost happening to me now, but I'm resisting the temptation; I won't do it.

walepackage:
@op,its impossible at the same time.It will be tantamount to clash of feelings.Thou,your defination of "love"is subjected to interpretation base on your perception.Some abuse the word for lust or infatuation which love is a way different.

What makes you think love is then so perfect that once you love someone, you cannot be caught loving someone else? By saying loving two persons at the same time would lead to a clash of feelings, the implication is it is possible. You can check that conclusion of yours again and the premise on which it is based.

thefirst:
What makes you think love is then so perfect that once you love someone, you cannot be caught loving someone else? By saying loving two persons at the same time would lead to a clash of feelings, the implication is it is possible. You can check that conclusion of yours again and the premise on which it is based.

thats why i said its base on your subjective interpretation of "love"if you genuinely love someone it wil be difficult for you to love another in thesame vein.I am not disputing that you cant get lust or attracted to another person,but developing an intense feelings for someone takes alot of things into consideration,and if by the way you get along with the new person,the love for the first one just wither away.If you said love fade,yes it does,but u cant have equal love at thesame time for two girls.It either be love or lust.Even a hardcore player has a special girl.

walepackage:
thats why i said its base on your subjective interpretation of "love"if you genuinely love someone it wil be difficult for you to love another in thesame vein.I am not disputing that you cant get lust or attracted to another person,but developing an intense feelings for someone takes alot of things into consideration,and if by the way you get along with the new person,the love for the first one just wither away.If you said love fade,yes it does,but u cant have equal love at thesame time for two girls.It either be love or lust.Even a hardcore player has a special girl.

This is properly articulated. Thumbs up for you. I'm just thinking of how the love that the person has for one of the two persons may take a long time to reduce.

tosyne2much:
Spot on bro!

i hope you conquor with that man.

thefirst:
This is properly articulated. Thumbs up for you. I'm just thinking of how the love that the person has for one of the two persons may take a long time to reduce.

curect man,now you catch the drift.Personaly,i once used my self as a case study to tried what you posted up there,but end up with one whic was so dear to me,thou it was past.Yes,its a multi factors that can make someone to become less attractive to u and by extention reduce the love.May be so many impression and the feelings you build the love on where no more appealing to you,or just get tired of your partner, what i called"routinization" been less spontaneous, then if the bond is weak,you can easily carried away with another person you are lusting for.Thats why psychologicaly,some individual are more prone to "stimulus" than other(s)

walepackage:
curect man,now you catch the drift.Personaly,i once used my self as a case study to tried what you posted up there,but end up with one whic was so dear to me,thou it was past.

walepackage:
i hope you conquor with that man.

You really finished work man!

tosyne2much:
You really finished work man!

tanx my man.I hope your day wasint hectic