At times when I see a girl I admire and would like to approach her, she may look like shes my exact agemate or I may be a year older than she is. when a situation like this comes up, I get discouraged cos I feel she may take me as a small boy for not being old enough to her taste. my question is, what minimum age gap do girls prefer?

not a split second younger I say, also, the idea of dating grandad doesn't quite tickle my fancy either

its criticsal to mention age difference, first sight with a lady/guy matters if it will work out or not

People say age is nothing but a number, I agree to that to some extent. It all has to do with maturity. For me it is better for a guy to be older than his gf because sometimes a girl might act immature in some cases it is easy for a mature guy to be able to deal with it.

I used 2 like this girl so much until i realised durin her birthday that she was two yrs older than me. I made up mind just to be ordinary friends with from then on. I aint plannin on settlin down very soon; dont need some1 puttin all sorts of pressure on me to.

Age doesn't matter much to me. But being with older ladies makes me a lil nervous.

5 - 10 years. ask any lady.

ibkaye:

not a split second younger I say, also, the idea of dating grandad doesn't quite tickle my fancy either

What do you mean?  We can show you some luf!

eina:

At times when I see a girl I admire and would like to approach her, she may look like shes my exact agemate or I may be a year older than she is. when a situation like this comes up, I get discouraged cos I feel she may take me as a small boy for not being old enough to her taste. my question is, what minimum age gap do girls prefer?

Sorry to hear that mate. One day you will find one.

But if you ever find yourself in that situation again. Please just collect her number and forward it to me, no make am waste. 

chipmunkey:

Age doesn't matter much to me. But being with older ladies makes me a lil nervous.

You too, forward number.

101 years.