many of us deny this fact but wen we r alone we sob nd cant believe wat we 1ce had is over
so house pls how did you get over a breakup if u have ever had one

Simple!
Don't ever see a relationship as an avenue to get a mate but an opportunity to know your self and understand people better. In other words c it as a school where u learn.
Well, after the break up it's almost certain u'll prefer to stay pained in isolation ( that's if it's a sure relationship). But pal life is more there is. Wipe ur tears, pick your self, go out!, talk to pple (matured minds I mean) so as to ease ur hurts, bear no grudge, pick the good frm the "failed relationship" ; be optimistic about a next one(if there's is),learn your lessons and b4 jumpin into another, ALLOW yourself to HEAL then see your self in a fun fair.

Cheers!

sob and sob till you're weak and dry, lol

engage your mind in other things that you like

life going on,

it takes a while to get over a break up especially if you love the person. just keep your head up, and keep yourself busy by doing things you love.
getting over a break up is no easy process.

gbam

@topic. Does break up hurt guys? It has neva hurt me once.

Aint no use in moppin around over a relationship that didn't work out. Just dust yourself up, and say the word 'NEXT' and you'll be smilin again in no time.

sista-jay:

Aint no use in moppin around over a relationship that didn't work out. Just dust yourself up, and say the word 'NEXT' and you'll be smilin again in no time.

yeah you can do dat but wat of wen u put in so much to dat relationship wnt u
som breakups r hard to deal with believe me

Krissykriss:

@topic. Does break up hurt guys? It has neva hurt me once.

you have been in lust all along not love

sexyLeamon:

it takes a while to get over a break up especially if you love the person. just keep your head up, and keep yourself busy by doing things you love.
getting over a break up is no easy process.

poster there's your answer

I broke up with my Girl two months ago, it was really painful because i never expected that she will heed to the pressuresof her family. Anyway,  the first 2 weeks was just the most painful in my life, Unanswered Calls, Requesting me to be just her friend, Advising me to move on E.T.C,  I didn't know that the effort i was putting to get her back was actually a hand in helping her get thru the break up while i was so isolated with pains and stuff,  The third Week, we talked and she told me that she found a new BF,  I was so surprised at first because i didn't know she would get through it so fast then i came back to my senses and realized i was helping her get through it .  The next day, I deleted her Number, all her Messages in my In-box and phone, Deleted her from my friends list on FB and destroyed  everything that would tempt me to get in touch,   

To cut the long story short, Since the past 2 Weeks, She's sent so many Emails  to me apologizing and wanting to come back, she misses me and stuff, thinking about me,   I have not yet replied any of them and she's been calling too but no answer from me,  Infact i changed my Number on Monday and that has driven her Crazy,  She's sending emails like Crazy and i have no plan of ever replying her back again,   For once i thought she was  a Superwoman for getting on so fast and meeting a new guy But now i realized that she's like everybody else,

So Poster, No matter what you do, Allow yourself time to heal before you try to get into another relationship,

turn it over to God , he'll take the pain away

When ur relationship breaks, sweep it up and pour it in the trash can. Then Go out and get another.

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after my break-up, i turned my room to a fountain
but on the outside i was my bubbly self
it can be painful esp. when you see that your partner moved on so fast[/size]

coatsms:

Simple!
Don't ever see a relationship as an avenue to get a mate but an opportunity to know your self and understand people better. In other words c it as a school where u learn.[/b]
Well, after the break up it's almost certain u'll prefer to stay pained in isolation ( that's if it's a sure relationship). But pal life is more there is. Wipe your tears, pick your self, go out!, talk to pple (matured minds I mean) so as to ease your hurts, bear no grudge, pick the good frm the "failed relationship" ; be optimistic about a next one(if there's is),learn your lessons and b4 jumpin into another, ALLOW yourself to HEAL then see your self in a fun fair.

Cheers!

I agree with you.

When a guy breaks up with me, I say to myself we were never meant to be. I see it as a good sign, there is someone better out there for me.

@Rokiatu, dats y i'v refused 2 fall in luv yet. My heart have bn intact ever since.

@Disturbia, i think u need 2 change ur name (disturbia). Guess dats y guys break up with u,lol.

andysnoopy:

I broke up with my Girl two months ago, it was really painful because i never expected that she will heed to the pressuresof her family. Anyway, the first 2 weeks was just the most painful in my life, Unanswered Calls, Requesting me to be just her friend, Advising me to move on E.T.C, I didn't know that the effort i was putting to get her back was actually a hand in helping her get thru the break up while i was so isolated with pains and stuff, The third Week, we talked and she told me that she found a new BF, I was so surprised at first because i didn't know she would get through it so fast then i came back to my senses and realized i was helping her get through it . The next day, I deleted her Number, all her Messages in my In-box and phone, Deleted her from my friends list on FB and destroyed everything that would tempt me to get in touch,

To cut the long story short, Since the past 2 Weeks, She's sent so many Emails to me apologizing and wanting to come back, she misses me and stuff, thinking about me, I have not yet replied any of them and she's been calling too but no answer from me, Infact i changed my Number on Monday and that has driven her Crazy, She's sending emails like Crazy and i have no plan of ever replying her back again, For once i thought she was a Superwoman for getting on so fast and meeting a new guy But now i realized that she's like everybody else,

So Poster, No matter what you do, Allow yourself time to heal before you try to get into another relationship,

na wa o must you write an eassy just to sent a message across?

Mr abi na Mrs Scrutiny, Thanks for pointing out my gaffe, I'm new and getting to know how things work.

andysnoopy:

Mr abi na Mrs Scrutiny, Thanks for pointing out my gaffe, I'm new and getting to know how things work.

lol no hard feelings

googles:

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after my break-up, i turned my room to a fountain
but on the outside i was my bubbly self
it can be painful esp. when you see that your partner moved on so fast[/size]

Weally!!
a fountain
dont wowee
i would help u re-arrange that fountain!