I find it hard to believe at times that in a marriage, a member could get tired and would no longer be in love with the other. The husband for instance could still be in love with the wife but the wife might not love him anymore.

The genesis of this problem is not far-fetched. We have been sold a lie by the media about the character and nature of true love. Consequently, people spend their lives in search of their ‘soulmate’. The ideal person who will light all their fires, excite them endlessly and complete them perfectly with no conflict in sight.They fall in love with the feeling of being ‘in love’ – the headiness, the highs, and the hopeful aspirations. Then they get married and after several months or years their world comes crashing down.
It is always good to be sincere and and let your partner know how you feel instead of cheating.

The question now is, why do couples lose their love for one another without any circumstances like cheating, financial issues,etc. Or is it because there is no true love?

See finish

You go need call couples wey you sabi say dem get this kind problem make you ask them.

No Love to begin with
A lot of people confuse love for being inlove with someone and it's two different things ..

Yeah, dere is stl tru luv bt only few lucky ones find it. True luv doesn't hv a reason b4 it luvs. Bt dese days, some couples hv one reason or d oda 4 luving u, it's either bc u ar handsome, beautiful, big boobs, tall, money etc, if any of dese tins is Wat actually attracted u 2 ur partner, any morning he wakes up and luk 4 dose tins bt cnt find dem in u again, definitely, he wl lose d luv & go in search of sumone out dere who has possess dem.

Love is not just enough to hold down a relationship or marriage...
Your willingness to continue even when you stop loving your partner has a role to play..
And some persons, just because they are married to that their partner see no reason whey they should go out on fancy date and all the paparazzi you both were doing while courting....
Married is a continuous effort, you work for it, meaning everything you were doing while courting you have to double it and not stop doing them....

Just because you're married to her, you stop buying her gift and because she's now your wife you confine her to the kitchen, no more eating out (what's that )

Just because you're married to him, you stopped doing those little things that make him smile, no gift, no text messages, no every hour calls,don't forget so soon how you guys dated, all because you gat him now, he's now all yours you see no reason why you should do them (retrieve your steps pls )

Op there is true love,just that couples tend to deviate from the drawing board..
Finally make your creator the center of your marriage...
Before you run to the phone, first run to the throne

It's either:
1)They were never in luv in the first place. OR
2) They were living a false life....i. e fake personality (forming), excess packaging etc.. ..only for the real you to start poking it's "ugly" head in the marriage

Somewhere in btw could be sm1 that just changed...this,most times, is never premeditated, It's like a reflex....It just happens; Preferences change you know...smtin you liked wen you were 20 irritates you now that you're 30....OR you stopped doing smtin you normally do because you don't enjoy doing it anymore....That deed might av been the attraction in the first place

The matter tire me too oo

At a point, romantic love fades away and d mutual respect and trust takes over. Love is solely not enough.

Lalas247:


No Love to begin with
A lot of people confuse love for being inlove with someone and it's two different things ..

what is the difference?