Bragging about yourself. Let other people do that.Bragging is like arsenic (poison) to a person’s likability.

Prone to elaborate lying, hyper inflated stories about themselves

Appointing yourself as the person who should tell others the “brutal truth” about their personal situation.

Finding the downside in everything and killing others’ exuberance. Never being happy or excited for others.

Arguing for no reason other than to have the last word or assert that you are smarter.

Using crass language that isn’t necessary or witty.

Killing conversations: Announcing your dislike of something another person just told you they love (food, fashion, literature, whatever) and not really going anywhere with it. Responding to friendly questions with one-word answers. Basically running other people out of things to say.

Persistently flirting with people who have told you they’re not interested. Sulking or acting hurt when they are unresponsive or ask you to stop. Making wounded remarks. Abusing their friendship by making them feel guilty and forcing them to console you.

Irresponsible and blame others (for their mistakes or bad behaviour).

Prone to stealing things and cheating.

Gossip. If you talk about one person behind her back, you'll talk about another.

Selfishness, people who talk too much, who don’t understand empathy, who are poor listeners, who steal others ideas, cheat, or bully others.

thanks for reading, feel free to add yours

Nice points OP.


I'd say introverts are somewhat unlikable 'cause they come off as too self absorbed.

I guess some people can relate to this.

just dont bother about people liking you or not,,be focused in life and achieve your goals,then even the ones that do feign hate will come crawling ...in life,you don't need to listen about what people are saying about you so long you are on the right track though.