Married but...

Jide and I have been married for 14 years. We have four beautiful kids. Our 13 year old Betty is the most beautiful teenager. Smart and very wise.

A few years ago, Jide and I started having problems. The problem was because Jide started cheating when things got better for him. When we first got married, things were very hard. I was responsible for most of our family bills. My job as a banker proved to be very rewarding at the time.

But Jide got a job as a GM in a big company and things changed. He started keeping late nights and starting cheating. We would fight most times about this. One time, he said I had become fat and unattractive. I started to work out at the gym. I tried everything I knew. I tried to persuade him for us to see a counsellor but he refused. After fighting for almost three years,i gave up. I gave up because it was clear my husband was no longer in love with me. Ever since, we have lived like strangers in the same house. He has several mistresses he spends time with. One of which has a child for him.

Three weeks ago. Jide came home and asked me to forgive him. He said he just found out he was HIV and hepatitis positive. He said he was dying. His said a found out a year ago and has been treating and living with these conditions. Now, he has spent a his money and his mistresses have left him. It turns out that Jides mistress who has a child for him is also HIV positive. Their child too.

I don't know what Jide wants from me but we cannot go back to where he left our marriage. He is my husband. We are not divorced but I have moved on.

My daughter Betty wants me to accept her father back but there has been too many hurt. Plus, what am I going to do now that he is sick and dying. If not for the condition, perhaps he would never have come to his senses.

Anyway, my heart and life with Jide is over . The problem is, I really don't know how to love this man anymore.

Has anyone been in a similar situation like mine, what should i do.... Maybe for the sake of my kids

From Yvonne


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Ok

"..... For better for worst, in sickness and in health, till death...... "


You remember that phrase ma'am?

emeijeh:
"..... For better for worst, in sickness and in health, till death...... "


You remember that phrase ma'am?

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emeijeh:
"..... For better for worst, in sickness and in health, till death...... "


You remember that phrase ma'am?

did he remember the phrase before flirting around?