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A man and lady about to get married have an unresolved issue on ground.
The man has a two-year old son from another woman, the child stays with the mum while the man visit the child there frequently.

The man wants this arrangement to continue but the soon-to-be wife wants the child to live with them once they get married to stop the frequent visits to the other woman’s house.

The man claims that if his to-be wife loves and trust him, she will not want a new arrangement, while she claims that she does not just want another stage set for baby number 2 from the other woman among other reasons.

Whose side are you on? How should this issue be resolved in your opinion?

Very tough but true stance.

For d man he needs to be trusted dat nothing will happen btw them n he cannot just take d child from the mother, that wouldn't be fair.

On d wifes' part she is just being protective so dat their is no rekindling of d old affair.

On d part of the ex, she can't just let go of her child even if d new wife is an angel, in fact no mother will willingly agree to such.

I suggest husband n wife n husband n ex sit n talk b4 the wedding else this issue will tear the marriage apart.

He should discuss with his child's mother to allow his child spend maybe weekends with them n his wife should b d one to pick up and return the child in most occasions dat way he no longer frequents her place.

Whatever he want to give her should go tru his wife all he has to do is call to confirm.

Since she wants the child to stay with dem weekends shouldn't b a problem, from weekends the child can come during holidays or festive periods as they will later agree n b4 u no d mother will be comfortable to release d child but to achieve dis the wife must be an angel n not try to separate mother n child.

If she can den the marriage will work.