Am an introvert too. I cannot allow anyone to change me. Accept me or go. Simple! Life is too short to be impressing people at your own detriment

how intending couples settle their differences in issues like this or misunderstanding, determines how far they would go

So after stealing someone's gf you think she would be safe with you? Oga someone is trying to take her from you thats why she is giving you excuses.

Learnstuffs:
Am an introvert too. I cannot allow anyone to change me. Accept me or go. Simple! Life is too short to be impressing people at your own detriment

I dey feel you guy. Some of these Nigerian girls are even worse when it comes to communication. As for me, no matter how beautiful a girl is, if she doesn't have a good sense of humour, then she doesn't stand a chance with me. I'm a funny person by nature but I can't be the only one trying to lighten up the mood all the time.

maybe she needs the d**k...that is if you haven't given her yet.

If your partner cannot accept you for who you are then the relationship is not worth keeping

nickvanilla:
I dey feel you guy. Some of these Nigerian girls are even worse when it comes to communication. As for me, no matter how beautiful a girl is, if she doesn't have a good sense of humour, then she doesn't stand a chance with me. I'm a funny person by nature but I can't be the only one trying to lighten up the mood all the time.

exactly my point. Girls are manipulative. They always want us to dance to their tune

From your description its seems like your girlfriend is very boring. Introverts and Introverts shouldn't be paired together.

You never said anything about her being a lively person thats why I guessed she's an introvert also.

i think she is seeing another guy,only when you love her you let her go

hanassholesolo:
From your description its seems like your girlfriend is very boring. Introverts and Introverts shouldn't be paired together.

You never said anything about her being a lively person thats why I guessed she's an introvert also.

My papa n my mama na two introverts and them dey come born Five of us.

But na only me d thing come hold pass. Five boys o.

The worst say girls dey like me but I dey too make dem cold.

My female manager after all the smiles n looking of d eyes she asked me why I no dey talk.

Anfieldboss:
We were friends for about 3+ years before we started dating June this year. At the time I met her, I had a girlfriend then but I started asking her out after I quit my past relationship that was around late 2015. She was with another guy at that time, but she eventually agreed to date me after she broke up with the other guy.

I'm the quiet and reserved type. I talk sometimes when I'm in the mood and she can attest to the fact that I could be very lively sometimes. Some other time, I just want to enjoy my space and be on my own. I call her at least twice every day and we can talk for up to 45 mins to 1 hour, sometimes I might not really be in the mood to talk but I just wish to check on her and she will complain at such times that why am I being quiet.

I don't even know if she loves me as she doesn't say it. She complains that she is not happy when she is with me, that I'll just be quiet. I have tried my best to make her happy even gone overboard against my type of person just to please her, yet she seems not to be satisfied. My being quiet is just my nature and I don't really think I can change.

I love this girl and I have plans to marry her but I want to marry a girl that loves me and is happy being with me not someone that is just managing me. At least I have seen a girl that loved me despite my being quiet and an introvert just that I wasn't ready for a relationship then.

I have not called her for 2 days as her complains are really getting to me and I'm beginning to think of quitting the relationship but on a second thought this girl has been very good to me, even though she doesn't say it to me she loves me, her actions says it.

I really love this girl but this her complains of not being happy with me and the fact that she thinks I'm boring is affecting my relationship with her. Guys please advise me.

question
is your girlfriend employed? or does she have something she's actively involved in?

how old is she?

generationz:

question
is your girlfriend employed? or does she have something she's actively involved in?

how old is she?

She is a fresh graduate awaiting NYSC, she is not working at the moment. She is 24.

But why all this questions?

Anfieldboss:


She is a fresh graduate awaiting NYSC, she is not working at the moment. She is 24.

But why all this questions?

exactly
she is young and unemployed.
she has nothing meaningful taking her time that's why she expects you to be her entertainment

no doubt she loves you. if she didn't she wouldn't even complain so much she'll just find another man to satisfy her need.

she's still young , she still has a fairytale approach to romance
I bet you are her first or second boyfriend. she really doesn't understand men yet.

if she visits you,then I'll say 45minutes is even to long for calls every otherday

what I'll tell you to do is encourage her to concentrate on something. she can start a trade ( hair,makeup,clothes,shoes, bags, events planning etc) and market it online.

you can assist her in learning a new course (cake making, decorations,makeup , tailoring,programming) or something that will take her time.
she can buy honey and sell in small bottles around her area.

you must encourage to get busy or else you'll loose your babe to all these fast guys especially as she's going for youth service.

The stress of being involved with something will take her mind off this Petty talk ish
buy the time she starts working and giving birth ,you'll even be begging for her attention

you too find something to do


don't break up with her if she's wife material,good girls are hard to find.

generationz:

exactly
she is young and unemployed.
she has nothing meaningful taking her time that's why she expects you to be her entertainment

no doubt she loves you. if she didn't she wouldn't even complain so much she'll just find another man to satisfy her need.

she's still young , she still has a fairytale approach to romance
I bet you are her first or second boyfriend. she really doesn't understand men yet.

if she visits you,then I'll say 45minutes is even to long for calls every otherday

what I'll tell you to do is encourage her to concentrate on something. she can start a trade ( hair,makeup,clothes,shoes, bags, events planning etc) and market it online.

you can assist her in learning a new course (cake making, decorations,makeup , tailoring,programming) or something that will take her time.
she can buy honey and sell in small bottles around her area.

you must encourage to get busy or else you'll loose your babe to all these fast guys especially as she's going for youth service.

The stress of being involved with something will take her mind off this Petty talk ish
buy the time she starts working and giving birth ,you'll even be begging for her attention

you too find something to do


don't break up with her if she's wife material,good girls are hard to find.

Thanks, your points make sense

Girls will always want you 2 call them and spend like 30-45mins making fun so dey can laugh.

The only tin they will reply u wit is "yes, no, Mmmmmmmmm, uh-huh"

Op I used to b in ur shoes although urs na over size

Let her go and look for the interesting boyfriend elsewhere..must everything be about Fun?..
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I pray she meets a very interesting gf beater