majekdom2:
All these threads against one gender is uncalled for really. A sane guy knows which type of lady to engage, a sane woman knows which kind of man to keep as a man. Pls stop all these gender ish. It's childish

safarigirl:
your brain belongs to the trash.

This is the only place you can feel relevant, so keep up with your idiocy. Na wristbangle wey I dey follow bring me come this Romance section filled with kids.

You only find worth when you denigrate women, says a lot of your upbringing.

tosyne2much:
You have just been blabbing since even though I'm trying not to use derogatory words against you.

You said you've never dated any guy in your life. Wetin be my own business with that one?

You said you've given a guy N500 before. How that one take affect my life?

You said you're already making money as a student. How that one take add money to my bank account?

You've just been making baseless points ma

KreativGenius:



Tosin, you and your jabs

tosyne2much:
You have just been blabbing since even though I'm trying not to use derogatory words against you.

You said you've never dated any guy in your life. Wetin be my own business with that one?

You said you've given a guy N500 before. How that one take affect my life?

You said you're already making money as a student. How that one take add money to my bank account?

You've just been making baseless points ma

tosyne2much:
Make una dey deceive unaself. Na only for Nairaland we dey hear that kind thing

majekdom2:
All these threads against one gender is uncalled for really. A sane guy knows which type of lady to engage, a sane woman knows which kind of man to keep as a man. Pls stop all these gender ish. It's childish

naijaboiy:
There are angles to everything. It’s not like the so called “humble & industrious” girl doesn’t have her own demons hiding inside of her, which she will definitely exhibit later on.

You can’t escape a woman’s wahala.

safarigirl:
Wristbangle this your post is very much a generalisation and to some extent, unrealistic.

For one thing, most women with feministic ideologies do not go about saying a man should pay for stuff. Feminist women are highly independent in nature and feel more fulfilled when they pay for stuff themselves or even pay for guys. You have a wrong idea of feminism if you think such ladies are actually waiting for men to do jack for them. Any purported feminist who thinks men should provide for them is not a feminist


Meanwhile another point for your topic, women who depend on their parents for everything and who happen to be spoilt in the process tend to be issues. They already have high standards, so, if you can't provide what they are used to getting, they will not settle for less

danieljessy:
I think there shouldn't be a generalization in this post,All ladies are not the same,it all depends on the person in question

LordKO:
@OP

It's unfortunate that you lumped ladies of substance and materialistic ladies in the same article. . . . An irony I must say. There are some ladies of substances that aren't materialistic, even though the may have all the good material things they need - such material things will sure cause someone like you to erroneously conclude that they're materialistic. My point is that not all flashy ladies are materialistic.

The difference between an altruistic and contented lady of substance and a materialistic lady is that while the former lives life on principle the latter lives life on expediency. I don't hold brief for materialistic people.

Humanistme:


I know what is causing all these it is Buhari 's economy guys are broke babes are desperate so they come to nairaland to vent their frustration especially the guys because the chances of finding a babe to date in their broke state is slim. so blame buhari .

harzheez:
All of you saying OP doesn't know the meaning of feminism should learn how to read between the line. I think OP was not literally saying any feminist would declare her bossy attitude verbally or something as opposed the quote "feminism ideology". Therefore, regardless of what anyone might say about ladies being different or not same, take it or leave it, if a lady provide any assist in a relationship even with a pin (especially if it's consistent) conjoin with feminism ideology, she will definitely act over it. So, I think as a guy, what you can do to avoid being nugatory against the feminism ideology is to always display the fact that you can hold your stand regardless of her provisions in the relationship... (even wit dat, dem go still show dat attitude; women? dem craze gan ).. above all, wot do I know sha

safarigirl:
what is a woman doing in a relationship if she hasn't found a means of income?

Why should a man introduce you to how to make money for your personal use? Did you introduce him to one?

If I was a man, I could never date a woman who doesn't have something tangible doing. The best I can do is link you up to something that can bring you more income, but yoi have to first be useful to yourself.

I know girls in school who are almost graduates and still don't know where they are going in life, meanwhile in the same school, there are girls who have been doing small jobs since 100 level and have sizeable savings and business plans in place.

Help yourself first, don't wait for a man to help you

linked:
Safarigirl it been a while.. this makes lots of sense! Best post I've read here today

sonofoluku:
Where is Pocohantas?I want to hear her opinion on this thread?

BrainnewsNg:


Did you read the post well ?

Teespice:
op, your epistle is pretty useless because of the generalisation you made.

then again, this is something you say almost all the time. so I am not surprised.

una go dey alright last last.

naijaboiy:
There are angles to everything. It’s not like the so called “humble & industrious” girl doesn’t have her own demons hiding inside of her, which she will definitely exhibit later on.

You can’t escape a woman’s wahala.

pocohantas:


The truth is, some guys are confused. There was this one that kept talking about money, he even felt money was the reason I don't want him.

In the long run, he said I was only forming for him.
Maybe I should have been asking him for recharge card everyday.

Some don't know what they want. They ignore all the hardworking modest girls and go for the materialistic ones. I am beginning to think, giving these girls money boosts their manhoods. Something to brag about...

mhizsuzzy:
Crap

Cut ur clothes according to ur size.....

Slay queens are not for broke ass, u can't except her not to maintain herself when u married her for her slaying....

If u can't afford a slay queen don't go near and except her to manage.

If u are broke, marry a non slay queen and make her ur slay queen........

brotherMeigma:

Lmao @ 'cut ur clothes according to ur size'.
. 'slay queens are not for broke ass'. Smh. See our notable ambassador. Continue faking u hear. U wey be say na evry part of ur body dy broke nt ass alone.

alexis007:
I'm a die-hard chauvinist with an attitude that can intimidate even mothers, so imagine what a lady below 35 would seem like to me- she is kinda like an ant.

But then, op, this write-up is unnecessary and too sexist even for a chauvinist like me. You drove some points home, by the way. Thing is, a real man should know how to lay his priorities in the appropriate order. More focus is needed on things that matter- that's my attitude. Irrelevancies can sort themselves in the dark hole of oblivion.

This is what I mean: Learn to ignore these type of girls. Continue ignoring. Ignore till it's a habit. When you see a girl slaying but unproductive, just look away. Meanwhile, if you are not as selfish as I am, you can devote your attention to the industrious ones with brains.

As for me, I have no f##k to give to a slayqueen. Your market cannot sell on me. Even good girls get affected sha a. Many do call to tell me that I'm too selfish and uncaring. But then, na so God just create me. I just lack time for people who are not my blood. The only attention I have left in this world- I gave all of them to my family.