Being divorced for over 10 years, I’ve decided to join A Foreign Affair’s singles tour events in Ukraine. I met a beautiful woman named Natalya in the city of Nikolaev. She has a 5 year old son who is just as lovely and sweet as her. During my stay, we have bonded and got to know each other. I know, falling in love seems impossible for just 1 week but... the more I got to know Natalya, the more I wanted to be with her.

On the day before I left, we’ve had dinner with her son. We got to talk more and decided to keep in touch. We’ve exchanged letters through AFA. 4 months since the tour, I’ve decided that I want her indefinitely. I know she feels the same way, so… I’ve decided to book a flight to Ukraine for next month and propose to her. I plan to bring her to California and introduce her and her son to my children.

I want my children to accept her and her son, I want us to become a family. I am uncertain how my children will react. I need advice on how I should go on about this. I know that there’s a possibility that they won’t agree to it. I want to try and make everything work out. I am really happy with Natalya and I want my children to be happy too.

I dey come, make I finish celebrating Chelsea win over Man United!

You kids should be able to handle it if they truly want you happy...

no child wl b happy seeing anoda woman occupy dia mother's position. Invite her and d son first, let it b a friendly visitation, gradually, dey wl begin to like and play wt d son, 4rm dere, u cn break d news 2 dem. Dnt jst cul dem and break d news jst like dat, let dere b acceptance and friendship between dem first

Op force that bitch down their throat






I think you should relax , give yourself enough time to find out if you really are in love with this woman n in return she love you just about the same way you love her .
As for your kids(s) , it is beyond what they can control ....the can only wail n make your life miserable if you choose to go about it without their approval.

Don't forget they never asked u for replacement for their late mum,
Your life op, and I won't advice she stay for them to get use to her cos of unforseen pretense, let everyone be themselves you inclusive ....I can't even sacrifice my little brothers happiness for an ungambled future .



Op pls you where once happy and still is if you need everlasting happiness head straight to heaven

First question is are you Nigerian? I ask because this story sounds like copy n paste. Second you know that woman will use you for a green card and leave when she is comfortable in America. 3rd why did you choose to take advantsge of those marry russian women sites while you could have gone to south America

Anyway i bet your kids want you to be happy so tell them soon and you should take it slow with Nataliya get to know her more before you propose. Dont forget california is a property state. If she divorce your butt she will get half