Amarabae:
Tell them.
Sex sex sex all the time.
Immoralities everywhere.
Go to night clubs and see Small girls sitting on their grandpa's laps as if we are in a PTA meeting.

Amara, Mechieonu gi there


No be you I see for orange room the other night dey dance one corner.

Boltzman:
Yes, your body is not firewood but the Temple of God!

I don't believe in God dude. but I go to church to find meats and fishes tho. lol

sKeetz:


Amara, Mechieonu gi there


No be you I see for orange room the other night dey dance one corner.

tell am oooooo. married woman dey find wetin sef for romance section ?

LadyGoddiva:
The thing tire me oh! Even the one that patronizes ashawo is saying is here agreeing with the post.

Lmao. The hypocrisy is alarming.

So much self righteousness in one thread. Wow !!

If you don't want to have sex, don't and If you want to, then go ahead bearing in mind, the effect of your actions.
I'm part of the latter crew.

I av no problems wit people who don't wanna have sex and I don't pressure them or shame them as I believe everyone should mind their fücking business.

It surprises me when 'preachers' act surprised when they are not welcomed, go ahead and preach to ur fellow christians and leave People alone. I won't listen to ur shît. You have zero right to tell someone how to live their lives.

And to the poster in thé first page, i cant go back an quote, no mattet how you see it or hate, it is their body and it is their life.

Leave people to do their own shît if it doesnt affect anyone but themselves. I'm done with this

Masterclass32:
So much sense in one post.

Pre-marital sex is overrated.

Not just pre-marital sex but sex in its entirety is overrated.

djoe21:


Not just pre-marital sex but sex in its entirety is overrated.

True. The world has become so obsessed with sex for no reason. It almost seems like sex is the latest wonder of the world.

Nice one Op. It is very sad that the society has become so corrupt. When you even speak God's words, the surprising thing is that the people who call themselves Christians will be the ones fighting you.

handsomebanana:
So much self righteousness in one thread. Wow !!

If you don't want to have sex, don't and If you want to, then go ahead bearing in mind, the effect of your actions.
I'm part of the latter crew.

I av no problems wit people who don't wanna have sex and I don't pressure them or shame them as I believe everyone should mind their fücking business.

It surprises me when 'preachers' act surprised when they are not welcomed, go ahead and preach to ur fellow christians and leave People alone. I won't listen to ur shît. You have zero right to tell someone how to live their lives.

And to the poster in thé first page, i cant go back an quote, no mattet how you see it or hate, it is their body and it is their life.

Leave people to do their own shît if it doesnt affect anyone but themselves. I'm done with this

This is what all unrepentant youth say these days. It's just a pity.

The thing is if you can absolutely take care of your body then it can be yours but if you can't provide yourself with 'simple' oxygen that keeps your body alive then you can claim you own it else you no no control of that body. You can't even control blinking of the eyes

Don't be unrepentant dude! God created that body of yours, you cannot choose to use it anyhow and expect the Creator to be happy with you.

terrezo2002:
Nice one Op. It is very sad that the society has become so corrupt. When you even speak God's words, the surprising thing is that the people who call themselves Christians will be the ones fighting you.

Most Christians these days do not want to live by God's standards, they just want to go church while doing the exact same thing the world is doing.

i am worried with the alarming rate of social media sexual abuse by youths

Boltzman:
I am always in shock when I think of how lost the youths of this generation are in sexual sin. I read topics here in the romance section and I'm surprised how sexual sin is being discussed like it's a normal thing to do.

Relationships these days doesn't have any roots apart from sex and when there's a problem, each partner moves on to the next sex mate. Wow! What youths call relationship is just pure fornication and adultery and surprisingly these youths are very religious and active participants in their various religious circles.

I had put up a post some months back asking if my standards of a partner was too much? Guess what? I was mocked. Some asked me to check on Konga while others asked me to create one for myself.

The funny thing is the youths have failed to realize the dangers and results in this sin. Your destinies and prayers for success are somehow delayed or even halted, STDs, unwanted pregnancies, abortion and the guilt that comes with the act, so many negatives. Why do the youths still insist on wasting away their lives?

These days there's absolutely nothing to look forward to in marriage which should be a legal union between a man and a woman, youths have more sex and cohabit together as couples without going through the necessary process to seal the union legally.

The rate of abortion these days is alarming and everyone including the religious bodies are silent.

Youths are encouraged to have sex as much as they want provided they protect themselves with condoms. How come a lot more people still get infected with STDs even after all the protection?

The Bible says, flee fornication! Your body is the temple of God NOT your beautiful air-conditioned church building, don't be deceived.

You are messing with the Temple of God which is your body. Repent!

Thank you so much, you nailed it, this romance section is nothing but a porn section, I ran away often from this section in other for me not to be tempted as a matter of fact, fornication has eaten deep into the fabrics of youth life and nothing kills destiny than fornication

NoFavors:
Please let us be lost in our sexual sin in peace. We love it like that. Don't be preaching BS here


Too many Pharisees be judging man
Smh

The message has got you thinking, your spirit agrees but your flesh is stubborn and unrepentant. Take heed bro,

OP you are so right... Just like one fool that apparently wasted his time for a year and woke up a few days ago saying he couldnt continue with a no sex relationship. I told the funny dude off and of course his loss...

They keep complaining they are not progressing, yet to follow the right way of God to lead better lives they cant. I mean who ends a relationship cos of sex, he wasnt even faithful in it. It was quite a struggle as everyday it seemed he was living in bondage. God must really love me cos I didnt compromise the crap. Trade fornication for peace of mind and sanity? So no way! Good riddance anyways.

To all the guys pressuring women for sex out of wedlck una do oo, you'll get whats coming your way. if you wanna have sex simply get married. Leave the life of sin and immorality, its a killer... My two cents...

OP thanks again for this piece.

God bless you

I wonder why people focus more on sexual immorality like its the greatest sin & only sin.

Some people making noise about fornication but same people commit others sin(s), but are not particular about those others sin. That I don't commit sexual immorality doesn't make me better.

As a matter of fact, no human being is sinless, Selfishness, Lying, Pride, Prayerlesness, gossiping, Anger, Disobedience of authority, parent etc, and the likes

Scriptures say if u break one of this we Av broken all. Sin is sin, same consequences apply to all. Before men some may look grievous, but before God all is disobedience.

We all try our best, but our best will never be enough to please a perfect God. So please our righteousness is in God through Christ. Not by works lest any man should boast.

In Christ alone are we seen as righteous despite our inadequacy(ies). No body holy pass, but in Christ God sees us holy as He is.

Not that we encourage sin, but we don't condemn the sinner. Cos we r also not free of sin.

Balaclava


Nobody is saying sexual sin is the worst but it is the most dangerous unto a person's soul spiritually. There is no other sin so porous as sexual sin that affects the spirituality,destiny of the doer. What makes it so terrible is that the consequences are so subtle and can drag for a long time.

A very very old man once said, sex is like a covenant. For every person you sleep with, you have entered a covenant with each of them. A part of you has become them, a part of them has become you. To add to that,I have heard over 3 people over 50 years of age say the same thing.

You just don't go about sleeping with someone you are not sure of their spiritual well being..

We have a dying and hell bound generation of moral destitutes and reprobates; the sodomites are back in full force and God has not exhausted his fire, but being a kind and gracious God, he is giving every one an opportunity to repent. Except he intervenes, I see millions of our youths screaming in hell. You see, when anyone gets to hell, the first five minutes, he will hate the sight and memory of all the girls he ever slept with. I fear hell that is why I stay away from that forbidden fruit. I pray daily and beg for grace to overcome even the possibility of inward desires. Hell is real and we must avoid it as we would a viper.

handsomebanana:
So much self righteousness in one thread. Wow !!

If you don't want to have sex, don't and If you want to, then go ahead bearing in mind, the effect of your actions.
I'm part of the latter crew.

I av no problems wit people who don't wanna have sex and I don't pressure them or shame them as I believe everyone should mind their fücking business.

It surprises me when 'preachers' act surprised when they are not welcomed, go ahead and preach to ur fellow christians and leave People alone. I won't listen to ur shît. You have zero right to tell someone how to live their lives.

And to the poster in thé first page, i cant go back an quote, no mattet how you see it or hate, it is their body and it is their life.

Leave people to do their own shît if it doesnt affect anyone but themselves. I'm done with this

I feel very sorry for people like you. "It is their body, it is their life" do you really have a body or a life? God loaned that to you the way you would loan your car to your friend and tell me if that friend has the right to use that car any how he likes. Pls be wise before it is too late. You are my brother man and It will be evil of me not to warn you if I know you are headed for danger. If I see you perish when I could have prevented it, I will never forgive myself. FORNICATION KILLS!

balaclava:
I wonder why people focus more on sexual immorality like its the greatest sin & only sin.

Some people making noise about fornication but same people commit others sin(s), but are not particular about those others sin. That I don't commit sexual immorality doesn't make me better.

As a matter of fact, no human being is sinless, Selfishness, Lying, Pride, Prayerlesness, gossiping, Anger, Disobedience of authority, parent etc, and the likes

Scriptures say if u break one of this we Av broken all. Sin is sin, same consequences apply to all. Before men some may look grievous, but before God all is disobedience.

We all try our best, but our best will never be enough to please a perfect God. So please our righteousness is in God through Christ. Not by works lest any man should boast.

In Christ alone are we seen as righteous despite our inadequacy(ies). No body holy pass, but in Christ God sees us holy as He is.

Not that we encourage sin, but we don't condemn the sinner. Cos we r also not free of sin.

These days, many brag about their bodycounts and some even make fun of the inexperienced ones. I don't think any one brag about all those you mentioned and this why this topic is important

balaclava:
I wonder why people focus more on sexual immorality like its the greatest sin & only sin.

Some people making noise about fornication but same people commit others sin(s), but are not particular about those others sin. That I don't commit sexual immorality doesn't make me better.

As a matter of fact, no human being is sinless, Selfishness, Lying, Pride, Prayerlesness, gossiping, Anger, Disobedience of authority, parent etc, and the likes

Scriptures say if u break one of this we Av broken all. Sin is sin, same consequences apply to all. Before men some may look grievous, but before God all is disobedience.

We all try our best, but our best will never be enough to please a perfect God. So please our righteousness is in God through Christ. Not by works lest any man should boast.

In Christ alone are we seen as righteous despite our inadequacy(ies). No body holy pass, but in Christ God sees us holy as He is.

Not that we encourage sin, but we don't condemn the sinner. Cos we r also not free of sin.

Don't be deceived bro, your theology is very flawed! Sexual immorality is a deep sin, yes, Paul talked about it severally in the new testament, from Romans chapter 1. Besides sex was meant for procreation and everyone you see on earth today came into being through sexual intercourse and sex is also meant for married couples to enjoy their union.

Sin is sin I agree but let me tell you something, sexual immorality is a sin that involves a lot especially connection between two souls. Sexual sin is committed with the whole body and soul. Why do you think years after sex mates can still easy get to make out without blinking, their souls have been tied through sexual sin and its the Blood of Jesus Christ that can separate anyone from such ties.


Let me conclude by telling you that I'm free from sin, I'm not a slave to sin but I'm a slave to Christ. Romans 6:14 confirms that. Wake up bro you can overcome sin if your life is deep rooted in Christ.

awodivictor:


I feel very sorry for people like you. "It is their body, it is their life" do you really have a body or a life? God loaned that to you the way you would loan your car to your friend and tell me if that friend has the right to use that car any how he likes. Pls be wise before it is too late. You are my brother man and It will be evil of me not to warn you if I know you are headed for danger. If I see you perish when I could have prevented it, I will never forgive myself. FORNICATION KILLS!

I concurr.. You have made statements of fact.

But on the other hand, I think you would do better feeling deeply sorry for yourself..cos everyone is entitled to their own life and is answerable to their own God.

The apparently most exalted angle can fall and become a tenebros demon while the fully fledged demon can become true angel...

We usually all love to play hypocrites rather than focus on the realities of our own miserable sinful existence.. And work hard to fix it...

Blackfyre:
Balaclava


Nobody is saying sexual sin is the worst but it is the most dangerous unto a person's soul spiritually. There is no other sin so porous as sexual sin that affects the spirituality,destiny of the doer. What makes it so terrible is that the consequences are so subtle and can drag for a long time.

A very very old man once said, sex is like a covenant. For every person you sleep with, you have entered a covenant with each of them. A part of you has become them, a part of them has become you. To add to that,I have heard over 3 people over 50 years of age say the same thing.

You just don't go about sleeping with someone you are not sure of their spiritual well being..

Thank you very much for your own perspective, I totally agree.

Boltzman:
Thank you very much for your own perspective.

You don't agree?

Blackfyre:


You don't agree?

I totally agree

Boltzman:
Don't be deceived bro, your theology is very flawed! Sexual immorality is a deep sin, yes, Paul talked about it severally in the new testament, from Romans chapter 1. Besides sex was meant for procreation and everyone you see on earth today came into being through sexual intercourse and sex is also meant for married couples to enjoy their union.

Sin is sin I agree but let me tell you something, sexual immorality is a sin that involves a lot especially connection between two souls. Sexual sin is committed with the whole body and soul. Why do you think years after sex mates can still easy get to make out without blinking, their souls have been tied through sexual sin and its the Blood of Jesus Christ that can separate anyone from such ties.


Let me conclude by telling you that I'm free from sin, I'm not a slave to sin but I'm a slave to Christ. Romans 6:14 confirms that. Wake up bro you can overcome sin if your life is deep rooted in Christ.

Lol@ free from sin indeed! It's evident you are treading the dangerous path of a mythomaniac... What official psychology calls delusion of granduer... You can do better...

karli4nia:


Lol@ free from sin indeed! It's evident you are treading the dangerous path of a mythomaniac... What official psychology calls delusion of granduer... You can do better...

I am not threading on any dangerous path. The blood of Jesus Christ on the cross of Calvary has set me free from my sinful nature.

I have overcome the sexual sin that most youths struggle to overcome because they are a slave to it. I have the Holy Spirit dwelling in me and that's why it's easy for me to overcome any temptation.

You hear 'body no be firewood', these are slaves to sexual sin, they must do it because sex is their master. They cannot stay without serving their master. Sex!

How else do you describe a situation where a girl gets pregnant and aborts five to seven times. If she is not a slave she won't even be involved in the first place, but let's say maybe once she did it, fine but seven times? That's a slave to sexual sin. She kept going back because she's a slave with no choice.

I sing, 'My chains are gone, I've been set free..., you know the song right? So what freedom do you sing about?

I'm free from sin! Every born again Christian is free from sin. 1Corinthians 15:57

NoFavors:
Please let us be lost in our sexual sin in peace. We love it like that. Don't be preaching BS here


Too many Pharisees be judging man
Smh

If you believe you have the right to be lost in your sexual sin then he has a right to preach.
Everything the OP posted sounded correct to me so I dont see it at BS.
To me its more of a warning...than judgement. If you feel it is judgment maybe your spirit is trying to tell you something.

majekoam:

If you believe you have the right to be lost in your sexual sin then he has a right to preach.
Everything the OP posted sounded correct to me so I dont see it at BS.
To me its more of a warning...than judgement. If you feel it is judgment maybe your spirit is trying to tell you something.

what are you saying bro?

NoFavors:
what are you saying bro?

Listen. He is speaking wisdom.

majekoam:


Listen. He is speaking wisdom.

Wisdom Promise of the old Flying Eagles?

NoFavors:
Wisdom Promise of the old Flying Eagles?

. it is well.