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Help Guys I'm Confused!! by Realslimshady(m): 6:01am On Nov 28
There is this certain lady I met during a birthday party i attended, she's 98% everything I've always wanted in a lady....... we started talking, we exchanged numbers, in the week we knew each other, we usually spend nothing less than 14 hours chatting. so things started to get serious, we'll meet sometime and talk continuously for hours. All of a sudden, she told me she has a boyfriend, I was kind of shocked, given some of the stuffs we talked about, I would be mad seeing my gf talking to some guy like that, she told me she loves the guy but given the look of it I would guess that she's not happy in the relationship. since then I became wary and tried withdrawing back from her ,but that didn't work, we are just too good together, hell we've even kissed. now I'm confused, should I leave her and stop talking to her since she has a bf, or should I take my chances and see what the future holds for both of us
Re: Help Guys I'm Confused!! by elyna: 6:04am On Nov 28
take a chance,she wants you.

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Re: Help Guys I'm Confused!! by gabinogem(m): 6:06am On Nov 28
Friend zone her...she want to toy with ur emotion.

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Re: Help Guys I'm Confused!! by eph12(m): 6:31am On Nov 28
A bf-gf relationship means nothing these days, so I have learnt. You should know that too so you won't be shocked when you have a gf and she does same to you.

Some times you guys agree to date and after a couple of months you grow tired of each other and start to look for happiness elsewhere. Is it not better not to date at all?

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Re: Help Guys I'm Confused!! by moshood521: 6:41am On Nov 28
broda stay on d lane if u rilli wnt her....
buh u gat 2 constantly let her knw hw u feelin....
if u re nt sayin anyfin u already frndzone urslf...
tell her wif courage and let her knw u wnt her no mata wah.......4rm wah u said earlier she wnt u 2.....
buh her relationship is hldin her she might b a gudt gal wo dnt wana double dat......buh let her knw bot off u re perfect 4 each oda......nd u wnt her by all means.....
if she dnt wana b on d lane.....flirt wif sm1 u knw dats close 2 her.......lyk a frnd......am sure she wnt want dat......u knw hw it goes.....buh dnt dull urslf bro she is urz.....

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Re: Help Guys I'm Confused!! by Realslimshady(m): 7:09am On Nov 28
moshood521:
broda stay on d lane if u rilli wnt her....
buh u gat 2 constantly let her knw hw u feelin....
if u re nt sayin anyfin u already frndzone urslf...
tell her wif courage and let her knw u wnt her no mata wah.......4rm wah u said earlier she wnt u 2.....
buh her relationship is hldin her she might b a gudt gal wo dnt wana double dat......buh let her knw bot off u re perfect 4 each oda......nd u wnt her by all means.....
if she dnt wana b on d lane.....flirt wif sm1 u knw dats close 2 her.......lyk a frnd......am sure she wnt want dat......u knw hw it goes.....buh dnt dull urslf bro she is urz.....



you killed it man, thanks for the tip
Re: Help Guys I'm Confused!! by moshood521: 7:16am On Nov 28
Realslimshady:




you killed it man, thanks for the tip
uwlcm bro
Re: Help Guys I'm Confused!! by Realslimshady(m): 9:37pm On Dec 07
moshood521:

uwlcm bro


bro I've done exactly as you said and I'm seeing positive results. Sometimes I even forget she has bf until she brings him into the convo out of the blue and I hate it
Re: Help Guys I'm Confused!! by Heloct(f): 10:07pm On Dec 07
Nothing less than 14 hours to chat.. shocked

Out of 24 hours jeez
Re: Help Guys I'm Confused!! by Macgreat(m): 10:43pm On Dec 07
Realslimshady:
There is this certain lady I met during a birthday party i attended, she's 98% everything I've always wanted in a lady....... we started talking, we exchanged numbers, in the week we knew each other, we usually spend nothing less than 14 hours chatting. so things started to get serious, we'll meet sometime and talk continuously for hours. All of a sudden, she told me she has a boyfriend, I was kind of shocked, given some of the stuffs we talked about, I would be mad seeing my gf talking to some guy like that, she told me she loves the guy but given the look of it I would guess that she's not happy in the relationship. since then I became wary and tried withdrawing back from her ,but that didn't work, we are just too good together, hell we've even kissed. now I'm confused, should I leave her and stop talking to her since she has a bf, or should I take my chances and see what the future holds for both of us

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Sir, be careful. You'll hurt yourself. She told you she has a boy friend and loves him.

What you should do;

Cut down on your talk time and your face-to-face meetings.

Relate with her same way you relate with every other lady friend.

If she loves him but not happy, it means that there's something she's expecting him to do that he is not doing and as soon as he does it, she will be gone.

Don't be vulnerable, guard your heart.
Re: Help Guys I'm Confused!! by 2dice01: 10:50pm On Dec 07
Assistant Boyfriend grin

She is just using your heart to play dice angry



She definitely needs a fûckboy not a lover
Re: Help Guys I'm Confused!! by Marcelo290(m): 11:41pm On Dec 07
I found myself in the exact scenario you found yourself, I was hurt when she said she had a boyfriend. I just picked up what was left of my dignity and left her. I cut off all ties with her, stopped calling, chatting and seeing her.

She has been wailing on social media platforms about how I have ignored her. Atimes I find it herculean a task to decipher what women actually want. Abeg nobi my heart them go take play chess, be the man and take that bold step. Girls many, though it's not gonna be easy specially if you love her...
Re: Help Guys I'm Confused!! by CaptainJeffry: 11:45pm On Dec 07
Heloct:
Nothing less than 14 hours to chat.. shocked

Out of 24 hours jeez
Odi egwu. undecided
Re: Help Guys I'm Confused!! by moshood521: 8:32am On Dec 08
Realslimshady:



bro I've done exactly as you said and I'm seeing positive results. Sometimes I even forget she has bf until she brings him into the convo out of the blue and I hate it

let her knw u re angry wen she brings her bf up in ur convo....
gals lyk real man nt d 1 dat hide....
u may even leave her on d spot.....dnt call or pick her call if she doz 4 a while.
if she gt angry dnt wori urslf u re strtin to b tken as a priority.
coz gals dnt get angry 2 doz wo dea dnt lyk.
Re: Help Guys I'm Confused!! by Bidobado: 8:34am On Dec 08
moshood521:
broda stay on d lane if u rilli wnt her....
buh u gat 2 constantly let her knw hw u feelin....
if u re nt sayin anyfin u already frndzone urslf...
tell her wif courage and let her knw u wnt her no mata wah.......4rm wah u said earlier she wnt u 2.....
buh her relationship is hldin her she might b a gudt gal wo dnt wana double dat......buh let her knw bot off u re perfect 4 each oda......nd u wnt her by all means.....
if she dnt wana b on d lane.....flirt wif sm1 u knw dats close 2 her.......lyk a frnd......am sure she wnt want dat......u knw hw it goes.....buh dnt dull urslf bro she is urz.....

Why do people write like this, I am so old school am gonna need a dictionary to read this lazy write up.
Re: Help Guys I'm Confused!! by moshood521: 8:39am On Dec 08
Bidobado:


Why do people write like this, I am so old school am gonna need a dictionary to read this lazy write up.
ehya tk heart. nobdy tell me dis had 2 b a hard write up....
smh 4 u broda

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