In all of this, where’s the blame for the stupid idiotic man who’s not only a cheat but also a pedophile? You people are damaged beyond repair.

Geesaintagape:
Fis wife y keeping a maid in mix of ur bareness.?
Are u so lazy n stupid?
Mumu woman

tundesto:


That girl may be 14 years of age, her body features may cmpete with that of a 30 year old lady.

Tosinville:
Person Wey never even born her child dey collect house maid again? Her laziness led her into this and she need to pack her belongings and leave fr

kizyalex10:
Women always their worst enemy since 1890.maybe d woman treats her so bad dat she decided to have a pound of her flesh too.but if i were her,i for wait till i give birth

Nairaland men/boys are very very extremely disgusting.
I hope this is not representative of the general Nigerian male population.

Daeylar:
I don't understand?
Why is the topic of this barren woman displaced by 14. Year old pregnant maid? And not useless man arrested by police for raping (statutory) and impregnating underaged 14 year old maid and divorced by wife?


Why do men get away with a lot of rubbish in this country? Why do we allow them do that?
Even when the man is dead wrong, he swept with a 14 year old and impregnated her. Cheated on his wife, yet according to the topic we are still meant to attack the females?
Misogynistic country.

And going through the thread. Very few reasonable responses.

And we need to stop having kids under 18 as maids. It needs to stop. Eldee is right.

Hand a mad man the mic and see him spit things like this.

NwaAmaikpe:



More women use the time they would have used in making babies to watch Telemundo and Jenifas diary.
When their husbands do the needful, they'd begin to cry foul.


But some women don't have conscience sha.

You refused to give him a child and another lady gave it to him. Yet you still want to stay in the same house with them.

I ga-a bu ogbenye bu kwa amosu?

BetaThings:




Somebody made a simple observation about journalistic standard by a reporter from southern Nigeria
You decided to unload on the Northern Nigeria in pursuit of your agenda of bigotry an hate

Anyway
Marrying a girl at age 14 is better than allowing them to become intimacy gadgets at 10
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/10/girls-aba-start-sex-age-10-research-shows/

Slaughtering children in the name of exorcising withchcraft is common in a certain part of the country
http://punchng.com/left-to-die-tales-of-woe-from-nigerian-children-branded-witches/
Ritual killing for money is common in a certain part of the country

Esther Oruru was 14 and Yinusa was dating her with the knowledge of her mother, because Yinusa was the first person the mom asked for when she got missing
The story was about kidnapping - how do you transport an abducted girl to an interstate motor park in Bayelsa and convey the girl to Kano in the presence of other passengers?

This lady from the South got married at 14 (same age as Ese) and the Senator's bride. You know why her mother gave her away? Her friends were already into prostitution (at age 14)
Marriage at that age 14 by a Northerner is a cause of national outrage but prostitution at age 14 in the South is progress. Right?
http://punchng.com/port-worker-blinds-wifes-eye-over-housemaid/
I got married to him when I was only 14 because my mum didn’t want me to get into prostitution like other girls in the village.

Uncu we are saying the same thing. The girl never complained of rape according to this article. She is willing to drive away the wife of the house which means she knows what she is doing. I only answered Ishilove because she made reference to a "dumb" question asked by a journalist.

blackbeau1:
refused to give him a child ? Really ? Like she holds the power of getting pregnant in her hands. Abi she'd prefer her house help to get her husband ? Lemme just assume you are being sarcastic or making a joke

if u like,don't close dar ur tiny legs till u get married....

be doing Skin-to-Skin....


And wen ur housemaid takes over nw,u ll come here to create thread...

Caprigal:


Are you minding the stupid Nairaland boys on this thread?
All manner of rubbish statements coming from their mouths from the woman must have aborted her womb away to the woman refused to bear a child so she shouldn't blame the husband and maid.

The morons are not blaming the man that could not act as an adult and end his marriage with legal divorce before marrying an adult instead of taking advantage of a minor.

I already knew majority of men are criminally minded sociopaths but coming to Nairaland just reinforces that my knowledge everyday.

This!!!
This part I bolded, the man is responsible for causing pain in the lives of 2 people, yet we are supposed to blame the women,

I don't really know what's going on, I don't know where all these people that make these type of comments come from.

Seahawk:
Nairaland men/boys are very very extremely disgusting.
I hope this is not representative of the general Nigerian male population.

I don't really know where these men/boys that say nonsense come from, not only men, there are some females that said rubbish on this thread.
I don't know what's wrong.

Girls no get small one...

blackbeau1:
refused to give him a child ? Really ? Like she holds the power of getting pregnant in her hands. Abi she'd prefer her house help to get her husband ? Lemme just assume you are being sarcastic or making a joke

Don't mind these children on Nairaland, they don't know what tomorrow holds till the time comes.

suregalluv:
14yrs old proud of being pregnant and even boasting of not capable of being a "house-sharer" with her boss?
Mehn this world is really turning upside down. I feel for the woman

She's been told what to say, the best is she just let the wife cater for her as a kid.

Kid mother and Babu

BetaThings:

Marrying a girl at age 14 is better than allowing them to become intimacy gadgets at 10
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/10/girls-aba-start-sex-age-10-research-shows/

Esther Oruru was 14 and Yinusa was dating her with the knowledge of her mother, because Yinusa was the first person the mom asked for when she got missing
The story was about kidnapping - how do you transport an abducted girl to an interstate motor park in Bayelsa and convey the girl to Kano in the presence of other passengers?

This lady from the South got married at 14 (same age as Ese) and the Senator's bride. You know why her mother gave her away? Her friends were already into prostitution (at age 14)
Marriage at that age 14 by a Northerner is a cause of national outrage but prostitution at age 14 in the South is progress. Right?
http://punchng.com/port-worker-blinds-wifes-eye-over-housemaid/
I got married to him when I was only 14 because my mum didn’t want me to get into prostitution like other girls in the village.

I already knew even before checking the author of this comment that a Muslim person is the one talking.
This is what they typically do during arguments.

Oga sah, no way is marriage at the age of 14 better than prostitution at the age of 14.

BOTH ARE EQUALLY BAD!

Let's not justify one for of evil because a certain prophet married his wife at the age of 6, that practice was common during his time not in the present day and age where girls get educated and employed and where many northern girls who married too early are suffering from fistula after childbirth.

Evablizin:



14yrs old maid, Oga Emma why?

Just look at the insult,shame and unnecessary expenses you brought to yourself,#250,000.

I think what he did wrong was that he should have informed the wife and marry her legally in case Abraham. Age is not barrier to marriage provided the man is responsible cos all those boiz have illicit sexual acts and molest them
even those that made the law are guilty of this offence and that's why the environment is the environment is getting worse day by day cos institution of marriage is not being encouraged

NwaAmaikpe:



More women use the time they would have used in making babies to watch Telemundo and Jenifas diary.
When their husbands do the needful, they'd begin to cry foul.


But some women don't have conscience sha.

You refused to give him a child and another lady gave it to him. Yet you still want to stay in the same house with them.

I ga-a bu ogbenye bu kwa amosu?

I hope and pray you'll get sense one day
if she didn't bear fruit is it her making
If sex is what makes a child then every single sex would results into pregnancy
receive sense dear

where in egbeda did dat happened?

grandstar:


Marriage is for better for worse. No party as the right to break the marriage contract, whether the man or woman. We all owe an accounting to the True God, to, "whom every family in heaven and on earth owe their name" (Hebrew 3:4)

If my wife is barren, I'll stick with her to the end (Psalms 15:1 and 4c)

In the new world, which I always pray for to come(Matthew 6:10), I know I will have as many children as I want (Peter 3:13, Revelations 21:3-5)

You are a J.wit, right?

we are truly brainwashed by the evil white men, is it God that is wrong for giving potency to teenagers? and u believe one can not bear kids until so-called man-made 18yrs abi? #AfricansAreSlave4ever

NwaAmaikpe:



More women use the time they would have used in making babies to watch Telemundo and Jenifas diary.
When their husbands do the needful, they'd begin to cry foul.


But some women don't have conscience sha.

You refused to give him a child and another lady gave it to him. Yet you still want to stay in the same house with them.

I ga-a bu ogbenye bu kwa amosu?

Raping under age girl is good for your side. GI Na ndi ugwu bu kwam Na egbe.

nawtyme:

You said I forgot to add CONSENT. Did you read in the article where the girl on question decided to take over the house? A girl who is willing to drive away the woman of the house, does it look like consent before coitus was absent? Where in the report did she indicate that she was raped by Emmanuel?
And don't come up with the underage crap thereby giving credit to my initial submission that all those who had intercourse with teens below 18 should also be arrested.

We do not live in a lawless country. The law clearly states that sexual intercourse with an individual less than 18 years of age is STATUTORY RAPE and it is punishable the law. Doesn't matter if the girl was vindictive, gave consent or not, Emmanuel raped her and he must face the music. This should serve as a lesson to men that think it's cool to sleep with 14,15,16 year olds (they're all over romance and sexuality sections looking for "smallie" ). I hope the law catches up with them one day like their paedophile friend Emmanuel.

NwaAmaikpe:



More women use the time they would have used in making babies to watch Telemundo and Jenifas diary.
When their husbands do the needful, they'd begin to cry foul.


But some women don't have conscience sha.

You refused to give him a child and another lady gave it to him. Yet you still want to stay in the same house with them.

I ga-a bu ogbenye bu kwa amosu?

For your information, it's God that gives a child. Stop talking like this.

dominique:


We do not live in a lawless country. The law clearly states that sexual intercourse with an individual less than 18 years of age is STATUTORY RAPE and it is punishable the law. Doesn't matter if the girl was vindictive, gave consent or not, Emmanuel raped her and he must face the music. This should serve as a lesson to men that think it's cool to sleep with 14,15,16 year olds (they're all over romance and sexuality sections looking for "smallie". I hope the law catches up with them one day like their paedophile friend Emmanuel.

Pedophilia is a horrible thing, that I agree with. My only concern is what happened to those I mentioned earlier? Since we don't live in a lawless country, there is a Senator currently serving who married a 13 year old girl. Why was he not arrested?

Oro rirun. Wtf are these people sef? When a spouse cheats, regardless of who with, s/he subjects her/his partner to ridicule. Wtf gave this Lil thing enough confidence to stand and make rules? Wtf gave the guy enough confidence to do this? Anyways, I like where the story is going. Everybody would learn their lessons once and for all. As for the woman, she should know she is gonna lose anyways, so she berra see this to a nice wrap. Whew!

I wish my brothers up north will get this kind of punishment too

Rubbish! And why is Ahmed Sani(a senator) and his fellow of paedophiles not charged to court? Do we have different laws for different people in this country?

Caprigal:


Both the man and woman should be arrested. The man's crime is double because it consists both child labor and raping a minor.

agreed

Seahawk:
In all of this, where’s the blame for the stupid idiotic man who’s not only a cheat but also a pedophile? You people are damaged beyond repair.

my dear sea hawk pray u dont find urself in such situation as d man who desperately needs a child.he bleeped up big time but his condition matched his desperation.well maybe u re nt in naija.maybe u see 14 yrs as a minor.but in lagos u will cry for d future of the youth.14 year old girl can take 5 men at a go.nt all but most girls in lagoa re exposed.bleeped up big time

grandstar:


Yes

Ok. Pls what congregation?

edeXede:


Standing ovation to the little lady.. That was a bleeping art of bavery to send the woman out of the house.. The bible said it afterall, a time shall come when the slave shall become king and the king become slave. It also says '' the forgotten pillar will become the main stay of the house ''..

Dont ask me which chapter and verse

Some of you are the worst set of people alive. This is a case with a litany of offenses on it. First, he's having sex with a minor which in sane societies is criminal and unbailable and likely to spend 20 to 30 years in prison. The girl herself needs to be tried in a Juvenile court as our constitution doesn't deem a 14 year old girl old enough to enter into marriage nor have the audacity to tell a woman recognized by law that she should vacate her marital home for her. The sharia constitution may permit that but not the Nigerian constitution. Here you are a socalled Christian clapping for a child committing as much crime as a 14 year old wielding a gun and murdering innocent people. Tufiakwa! Spits

kizyalex10:
my dear sea hawk pray u dont find urself in such situation as d man who desperately needs a child.he bleeped up big time but his condition matched his desperation.well maybe u re nt in naija.maybe u see 14 yrs as a minor.but in lagos u will cry for d future of the youth.14 year old girl can take 5 men at a go.nt all but most girls in lagoa re exposed.bleeped up big time

So because a 14 year old girl can take 1 million men at once, does that add to her age which is 14? Does that change the constitution over night? Una see why police dey use una dey mop floor for Nigeria. Many of you just want to live in a lawless society, no laws, no rights...nothing. Just do as you like. But thank God we still have a judiciary, a government else people like you would join to insult the hapless wife who for no choice of her's being baren and praise a whoring minor who under no circumstance should be pregnant or having sex afterall Lagos girls eye done tear. A competent court will serve the justice both the Paedophilia and the criminal with the audacity to destroy a marriage recognized by law deserves. What a dirty, repugnant country full of dirty people without conscience. If you had a fiber of decency in you, you would try to correct every socalled spoilt underage child bedding the number of men even porn stars would marvel at but then y'all like to praise bad things in Nigeria.

Seahawk:
Nairaland men/boys are very very extremely disgusting.
I hope this is not representative of the general Nigerian male population.

It is ooooooo. They like blaming the women folks all the time even if the men are at barefaced false.

Real child abuse, he should have 4 his wife's opinion first.

NwaAmaikpe:



More women use the time they would have used in making babies to watch Telemundo and Jenifas diary.
When their husbands do the needful, they'd begin to cry foul.


But some women don't have conscience sha.

You refused to give him a child and another lady gave it to him. Yet you still want to stay in the same house with them.

I ga-a bu ogbenye bu kwa amosu?

In short, now it is confirmed. You are possessed!

nawtyme:

Pedophilia is a horrible thing, that I agree with. My only concern is what happened to those I mentioned earlier? Since we don't live in a lawless country, there is a Senator currently serving who married a 13 year old girl. Why was he not arrested?

Married not have carnal knowledge of. There are people that marry children as little as six years old and don't have sex with them till they're old enough, it's called bethrodal. Nobody can prove if the senator slept with 13 year old or not. Besides, he comes from a region that support child marriage. This one got a 14 year old pregnant in a region where sex with a minor is against the law. So you expect him to walk free because she gave consent and she's on a mission to become the new madam?