They should but unfortunately that’s not the case in most marriages these days. Otherwise there wouldn’t be so much divorce. Now before you start on me, I know that the reason for lots of divorce is not just because of lack of attraction between couples but some could be especially if it’s the guy that’s asking for it.

Just as most men will find their wives unattractive after marriage so will most women find their husbands unattractive after marriage. Now the reason for lack of attraction is up for debate and it does vary. In most cases the reasons could be so buried deep in most people subconsciousness that they might find it difficult to actually put a finger to it so the reason such couples should seek professional advice.

But on a more deeper level; attraction between couples after marriage has something to do with the reasons for marring someone and the expectations after marriage. If someone gets married for the wrong reasons or have too high expectations from their spouses, the daily grind and effort that is needed to keep up the union will break them up. Such a person will have little or no reason to push through the difficulties.

Attraction fluctuates during the cause of marriage but if you got married for the right reasons for YOU/BOTH OF YOU and you have reasonable expectations then keeping up and maintaining attraction wouldn’t be so hard.

Now the sixty-four million-dollar questions is how do you keep up and maintain such attraction? Or better still, do YOU want to keep up and maintain the attraction? If got married for the right reasons and if you have reasonable expectations and YOU REALLY want to keep up and maintain the attraction you will find imaginative ways to do that.

No. Cos marriage is big scam.

There are several sources of attraction. Some of which include:
1. The Chelsea (Boobs)
2. The Barca (Ukwu)
3. Colour (Yellow pawpaw)
4. Styles she can do.
These are some of the 'false' attraction for some Men.

1.Money
2. 6 packs
3. Pink lips
4. Six of D1ck

These are source of 'false' attraction for Women.

These false attraction can be lost.

But real attraction like;

1. Character
2. Love
3. Knowledge
4. Godliness

can really help and aid attraction.


NB: Marriage is a Spiritual event. You need to consult God (By Yourself), and ask yourself real questions before deciding to go on.
Marriage also require Perseverance, Forgiveness and LOVE

SDLovers:
They should but unfortunately that’s not the case in most marriages these days. Otherwise there wouldn’t be so much divorce. Now before you start on me, I know that the reason for lots of divorce is not just because of lack of attraction between couples but some could be especially if it’s the guy that’s asking for it.

Just as most men will find their wives unattractive after marriage so will most women find their husbands unattractive after marriage. Now the reason for lack of attraction is up for debate and it does vary. In most cases the reasons could be so buried deep in most people subconsciousness that they might find it difficult to actually put a finger to it so the reason such couples should seek professional advice.

But on a more deeper level; attraction between couples after marriage has something to do with the reasons for marring someone and the expectations after marriage. If someone gets married for the wrong reasons or have too high expectations from their spouses, the daily grind and effort that is needed to keep up the union will break them up. Such a person will have little or no reason to push through the difficulties.

Attraction fluctuates during the cause of marriage but if you got married for the right reasons for YOU/BOTH OF YOU and you have reasonable expectations then keeping up and maintaining attraction wouldn’t be so hard.

Now the sixty-four million-dollar questions is how do you keep up and maintain such attraction? Or better still, do YOU want to keep up and maintain the attraction? If got married for the right reasons and if you have reasonable expectations and YOU REALLY want to keep up and maintain the attraction you will find imaginative ways to do that.

if the marriage is based on LOVE before they wedded, I BELIEVE ATTRACTION REMAINS FOR THE COUPLE,
I Can not wait to get married on SATURDAY, ALL NAIRALANDERS ARE INVITED