jay bee:

Tolerance should have a high dependence on other deciding factors;
1) Kids being involved in the union
2) Location and availability of all sorta support
3) Either party's percentage dependency in relation to finance
4) The last which i don't buy is religious views

PS. IF you ain't married and you have a BF or GF displaying traces of being a serial cheat then please do go into a union with 'em kind of peeps at your own peril. Nothing wrong with marrying a cheat cos people do it for all sorta reasons but the fact of the matter is chances of them changing are very remote.

idifu:

no woman cheats on me, i cheat on em  n dats d way it's supposed to be
i aint a wussie

Ninapha:

Hmm! you see most people shouting, i will kill, i will maim and all that are not saying the simple truth especially the women.

One of the hardest thing to do after marriage is to work out, its not just a relationship. Men yes, but women, its always difficult, heart broken but yet the milk of womanhood holds one down.

for me, I will surely be hurt, but first, i would leave the room untill i am sure he is clean and ready to be a husband and not "women-man"

idifu:

no woman cheats on me, i cheat on em n dats d way it's supposed to be
i aint a wussie

idifu:

no woman cheats on me, i cheat on em  n dats d way it's supposed to be
i aint a wussie

rokiatu:

I think it's hard to say how you'd react before it actually happen. Now I'd say that if any of my future boyfriends or husbands
would cheat on me I'd dump him without thinking twice. But then that might not be how I feel if that actually happens,

P.S i do not thinking I can tolerate it though

gentlegg:

Nawaooo

bluebunnie:

Hmmmm your even going far, even in ordinary relationships its difficult to leave your man your madly in love with cos he cheats on u. Wots d probability dat d next one u get involved with wont do worse. As for me as long as he still puts me first, shows some respect n loves me dearly, i aint going nowhere. But we certainly will talk about it n resolve. Everyday we hurt people, weda conciously or unconsiously, n sometimes we ask for forgiveness, n we wud love to be forgiven. I'll forgive if he's genuine.

cvibe:

Once you tell lies, there's nothing more to hold on to.

will u marry me? for the uptenth time!

You know me and Johnny are already joined for life

otukpo:

Go and open another thread for that.
we'll also want to know your reactions.

ayettymama:


o i see sum attention seekers up there

*ignored*

bluespice:

if we are dating, then im very sure that will either end the relationship or turn it to a huge phucking joke
if we are married,
definitely counseling but i wont leave him, oh well depends on my state of mind, i'm not the most sensible person everytime

Kenny_G:

hmmmm