Hello Guys

There is this particular young lady i very into.. i mean i really really like her..
Her actions gives me the green light she really into me..

Let me give out a brief info..

I am a well to do guy and Very Good Looking..I got most ladies willing to throw theirselves at me but i am not interested in them..
But what made me like this particular lady is that she doesn't care how much i have...

So my question is this.. How do i know a lady loves me or just playing with my emotions?

when she gives you a BJ on the first date

and errm bruv i think you should work on ur en____
#justsaying

tuoky:
Hello Guys

There is this particular young lady i very into.. i mean i really really like her..
Her actions gives me the green light she really into me..

Let me give out a brief info..

I am a well to do guy and Very Good Looking..I got most ladies willing to throw their self at me but i am not interested in them..
But what made me like this particular lady is that she doesn't care how much i have...

So my question is this.. How do i know a lady loves me or is playing with my emotions?

have you thrown this question at her directly?

is she shy around you?

KreativGenius:



have you thrown this question at her directly?

is she shy around you?

i approached her few times. at the beginning it was cool.. we got on well but some point she started behaving funny.. asking me to be following her at night.. I told her i Love Her but she replied " I don't love you.. the funny thing is that i left her for a month without giving her any face talk. during this period she starts giving me serious Green like as if i don't talk to her, something bad may happen to her.. I am very confuse bro.. The issue we are having is seeing her only at nights.. she clearly told me she is not available during the day..

it's nt easy 2 detect whether she luvs u or jst playing wt ur emotions, ladies cn b very smart and pretentious too, study her attitude around u very well until it gets 2 a point where ur mind will convince u dat she truly cares. D one who luvs u wl always hv ur interest at heart. Luv wt ur brain, u wl get d answer ursef

tuoky:
i approached her few times. at the beginning it was cool.. we got on well but some point she started behaving funny.. asking me to be following her at night.. I told her i Love Her but she replied " I don't love you.. the funny thing is that i left her for a month without giving her any face talk. during this period she starts giving me serious Green like as if i don't talk to her, something bad may happen to her.. I am very confuse bro.. The issue we are having is seeing her only at nights.. she clearly told me she is not available during the day..

she told you she doesnt love you, but then you have your answer, if you want her to love you, dont expose your feelings to her, maintain contact with her, withdraw the affections and kind words, dont release them too easily, absence makes the heart grow fonder, its so with women, treat them less nicely and you win them over. I swear you will win this chick, but she wants to give herself to a man, not a man falling for her. you need to hit the reset button fast if you want to win her, i suggest you read the tips in the threads below on how to win her heart




https://www.nairaland.com/4218072/ubunjas-miseducation-unbreakable-80-20



https://www.nairaland.com/4219505/ubunjas-miseducation-how-nice-guys



https://www.nairaland.com/4222680/ubunjas-miseducation-secret-language-girls



https://www.nairaland.com/4226909/ubunjas-miseducation-nice-guys-sluts



Final notice, stop treating ladies too nicely, it pushes them away

set some test to find out if she truly care or pretending

set some test to find out if she truly cares or pretending

habsydiamond:
set some test to find out if she truly cares or pretending

no need, the guy was too fast, the lady doesnt love him yet, but can, he needs to take it slow and let the feelings build up in her

Money Is Love... Disguise As A Poor Man To See If She Truly Lover U

Thanks Bro.. You are very Right.. I guess i am too nice..

KreativGenius:



she told you she doesnt love you, but then you have your answer, if you want her to love you, dont expose your feelings to her, maintain contact with her, withdraw the affections and kind words, dont release them too easily, absence makes the heart grow fonder, its so with women, treat them less nicely and you win them over. I swear you will win this chick, but she wants to give herself to a man, not a man falling for her. you need to hit the reset button fast if you want to win her, i suggest you read the tips in the threads below on how to win her heart




https://www.nairaland.com/4218072/ubunjas-miseducation-unbreakable-80-20



https://www.nairaland.com/4219505/ubunjas-miseducation-how-nice-guys



https://www.nairaland.com/4222680/ubunjas-miseducation-secret-language-girls



https://www.nairaland.com/4226909/ubunjas-miseducation-nice-guys-sluts



Final notice, stop treating ladies too nicely, it pushes them away

tuoky:
Thanks Bro.. You are very Right.. I guess i am too nice..

withdraw all nice treatments, reduce the calls/chats/presence by 50%. restrain yourself, if you see her daily, reudce it, walk around where she'll see you pass by, but dont stop by, act like you dont need her, then the emotions will begin to build up inside her, and her head will begin to spin. this is the way. You're the man, dont fall, make her fall

With all My money this lady no send me o..

GraveMan:
Money Is Love...
Disguise As A Poor Man To See If She Truly Lover U

I think she has seen my weakness of too loving her.. If I am poor, i may conclude it because i don't have money but this case is different. thanks bro

KreativGenius:



withdraw all nice treatments, reduce the calls/chats/presence by 50%. restrain yourself, if you see her daily, reudce it, walk around where she'll see you pass by, but dont stop by, act like you dont need her, then the emotions will begin to build up inside her, and her head will begin to spin. this is the way. You're the man, dont fall, make her fall

KreativGenius:


no need, the guy was too fast, the lady doesnt love him yet, but can, he needs to take it slow and let the feelings build up in her

Rome s not built in a day and so is love...it takes gradual process....

The kind of questions people ask on nairaland though.

I no fast o Bros.. She gave me the green light for about five month before i concluded to approach her..

KreativGenius:


no need, the guy was too fast, the lady doesnt love him yet, but can, he needs to take it slow and let the feelings build up in her

tuoky:
I think she has seen my weakness of too loving her.. If I am poor, i may conclude it because i don't have money but this case is different. thanks bro

wow @ five months....


she like them hard then, you're too loving. it means she was trying to see if feelings would develop. bro, sowwie, but she doesnt love you at all...five months is way too long for the process. a lady that loves a guy would drop hints from day one

IAMSASHY:
it's nt easy 2 detect whether she luvs u or jst playing wt ur emotions, ladies cn b very smart and pretentious too, study her attitude around u very well until it gets 2 a point where ur mind will convince u dat she truly cares. D one who luvs u wl always hv ur interest at heart. Luv wt ur brain, u wl get d answer ursef

You have nailed it already.
A like for you.

this five month was like the romeo and Juliet thing o.. The true is i think she is just afraid to admit her feelings to me.

KreativGenius:



wow @ five months....


she like them hard then, you're too loving. it means she was trying to see if feelings would develop. bro, sowwie, but she doesnt love you at all...five months is way too long for the process. a lady that loves a guy would drop hints from day one

tuoky:
this five month was like the romeo and Juliet thing o.. The true is i think she is just afraid to admit her feelings to me.

if its like romeo and juliet why then did you say she said she doesnt love you. take the bull by the horn, ask her out on a date, its not secondary school, talk about things openly, it will help you both so you dont have your thoughts wondering biko.

give me some clue.. thanks

habsydiamond:
set some test to find out if she truly cares or pretending

tuoky:
give me some clue.. thanks

Females are not logical. Never treat them as sensible species. Do not try to appeal to their senses or heads. They don't reason, speak to their hearts, they sense and reason from their emotions not by sound reasoning. Hence, they make the wrong choice by default, to win them over, simple follow the other route and you'll win, don't take them too seriously or intelligently nor treat them as sensible species.It doesn't work in real life scenarios

Cc:

Ubunja

Spasmic

No such stuff as hints.. Believe me know, she doesn't love you bruh

jamariwolf:
No such stuff as hints.. Believe me know, she doesn't love you bruh

what i've been saying all along... you ladies don't hide it, nope, you can't hide love !

tuoky:
i approached her few times. at the beginning it was cool.. we got on well but some point she started behaving funny.. asking me to be following her at night.. I told her i Love Her but she replied " I don't love you.. the funny thing is that i left her for a month without giving her any face talk. during this period she starts giving me serious Green like as if i don't talk to her, something bad may happen to her .. I am very confuse bro.. The issue we are having is seeing her only at nights.. she clearly told me she is not available during the day..

She's much into you as you're into her, don't be confused. She's only playing hard to get by concealing her true feelings with that "I don't love you". You already got the answers you desired @embolden. I think what you should do is to have a heart-to-heart talk with her and tell her to tell you how she feels about you 'cause you don't like the emotional state you're at then act on whatever she says.

how can i do that when she knows me already?

GraveMan:
Money Is Love...
Disguise As A Poor Man To See If She Truly Lover U