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Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Rejoice5000(f): 7:15am On Dec 20, 2017 |
After explaining how things are to my brother his statement is THAT I SHOULD SORT MYSELF OUT IT HURTS because I SACRIFICED ALOT 4 THEM AS THEIR ELDER SISTER:i think its wickedness:because if u cant assist talk nicely:NOBODY KNOWS TOMORROW: 5 Likes |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by figment232(m): 7:17am On Dec 20, 2017 |
amprat:characteristics of a cultist who has made a covenant with the devil......a condition for his blossoming wealth.Might be using the destiny of his sibblings 1 Like |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Nobody: 7:18am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Rubbiish: Who has stopped you from burying your parents? 4 Likes |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Rubbiish(m): 7:19am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Mrkumareze:Sir i think u are the one who first need to check your source of wealth, not your siblings. God will never give u money u can't use to help those around u...Check yourself sir... 3 Likes |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Rubbiish(m): 7:21am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Reasonabledoubt:Brother fvck off!!! Your are senseless & foolish I Pray none of your kind exist in family 1 Like |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by viceddy95(m): 7:23am On Dec 20, 2017 |
it's either his wife is controlling him or dat's d covenant he entered to become rich"not to render help to family pple"..... because no matter hw stingy u re, u can't abandon ur parents. ....... leave him and hustle for urself and take care of ur parents......dat's life for u.... 1 Like |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Rubbiish(m): 7:24am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Reasonabledoubt:Ingrate!!!! It takes a good heart to reciprocate good You think it apply to your parents alone? Your likes are the type that taunt those who helped them... 1 Like |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Nobody: 7:28am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Rubbiish: Rolling my eyes* you are quite daft. I wonder where in my post I said you should not assist your family. But I know your kind. Lazy ass bum. Leech! Don’t go and work hard, your family members that are making money have 3 heads. It’s your kind that will gossip and discuss all your wicked uncles and aunties that have money but refused to help you, like say na your right. If they don’t exist you will die abi? Bleep you, retard! 6 Likes |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by thorpido(m): 7:29am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Follysho707:What's the gender bias here?The main subject here is the brother..... a he. |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Nobody: 7:33am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Rubbiish: I am quite exasperated. To be an ingrate, don’t you have to have refused to show gratitude for something? What have you done for me that I failed to be grateful for oga? I don’t expect help from people, in whatever I do, I hope on no one. I plan my life based on me alone. My family is one where everyone is self sufficient, when we come together to do anything, it is not out of obligation. We do it because we want to. Emancipate yourself and your generation from mental poverty. Don’t be such a dunce! 7 Likes |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by martjay(m): 7:34am On Dec 20, 2017 |
It's a pity to read how some of us are supporting a family member that refused to help his family. If he cannot help his siblings, why neglecting your mother that sacrificed to train you to become who you are? Had it been there was no input from the family in terms of educational training, I would have agreed. But your mother and siblings you grew up and suffered with, you neglected them. Remember to whom much is given, much is expected. He has no excuse not to support his family. 2 Likes |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Rubbiish(m): 7:40am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Reasonabledoubt:I know your kind You don't even know me... You are digressing including uncle & aunties, which i never included I am calling u a fool because if u think it is not your duty to take care of your parents who passed through alot to care of a senseless ingrate like u, then i can say satan is just few steps from u... Because u have one or two kids now mean they should neglect u when u get old? No be comedian i go die build mansion for him mama? Is that not like a man like u? No be skales build house for him mama? Honestly i sorry for your parents, i can imagine what they are going through No human would wanna have an ingrate like u for a child FOOLISH INGRATE.... 2 Likes |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Nobody: 7:50am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Rubbiish: Well. My parents don’t need me to build them a mansion. I will build my mansions, my kids don’t need to build me these mansions. My parents did not pass through a lot to train me, they planned for me, they know it was their responsibility. My father is of this mindset too. He drums this into our heads. I will not make my children hawk, and suffer with them, train them, them blackmail them with my ineptitude later. They will come when I can afford them, I will be grateful to God for giving me the privilege of parenthood, so I will make sure that they will not have to become adults overnight because they are hustling with me. They won’t grow up thinking I did them a favor. While doing this, I will be planning my old age. So that they won’t have to shoulder the responsibility of their homes, my own home, and that of their siblings. They won’t have to keep jobs that they hate because they have to pay my rent and theirs. They will be free to pursue their dreams, and take risks, discover themselves because they know I won’t be calling to ask them to pay up, for bringing them into this world. I will have children that will actually get to live, not exist, and they will pass this down to their own generation. 7 Likes |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Rubbiish(m): 7:58am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Reasonabledoubt:Yeah....Because life is a movie & u are God directing it? Do you know how many people are bed ridden now who never thought it could happen as last year? Do u know there are certain illness that comes with old age? You bigger fool than i thought, u are more of a spoilt brat...I pray u see the other side of life... 3 Likes |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Mrkumareze(m): 7:59am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Rubbiish: My dear no bad intention meant, am telling you the fact. They are people when you plan to help them things turns around . The moment you forget about helping them everything gets normal. Don't just blame your brother in this situation check yourself well. I can repeat it again. 1 Like |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Nobody: 8:00am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Reasonabledoubt: I think I this point you should stop replying these emotional thinking monikers. They would never understand what you saying. 1 Like |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Nobody: 8:03am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Rubbiish: Maybe if we stopped waiting for God to do everything, things will get better in this country. To each his own. 4 Likes |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by FBS: 8:04am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Not one single insult from Reasonabledoubt. Articulately presented. I may not agree with everything he's said but he's laid out his points. Completely void of emotions but straight to the heart. Maybe his mindset will change when kids start coming in, cos, you know life can be very funny sometimes but I got to say, he is trying to be his own man. 5 Likes |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Nobody: 8:05am On Dec 20, 2017 |
careytommy7: Yeah. I give up.its like beating a dead horse. 4 Likes |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Rubbiish(m): 8:07am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Mrkumareze:You can not help some close people if the source of your wealth is related to satan It is the first rule for them...& u can't also use it for charity...That is why i am asking u to check yourself sir...No bad intention meant |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Nobody: 8:12am On Dec 20, 2017 |
amprat: nigerians again with entitlement mentality how did your brother get to where he is? is it by magic? do you think your brother is not having challenges of his own? are you that easy to 'help'? or are you the type that after connection for interview fails the test, fails the interview, then grumbles about your selfish brother? what have you done for yourself? or have you just sat back waiting for handouts? 2 Likes |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Rubbiish(m): 8:12am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Reasonabledoubt:What has this got to do with taking care of one's parents? |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by krak101(m): 8:17am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Am not a fetish kinda person but am beginning to think he's into blood money and the condition for him is that he neglect his immediate family. |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by omnisali: 8:32am On Dec 20, 2017 |
ur brother has join illuminati, I'm talking from experience here cos I have dem in my family. just bone dem. |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by DaudaAbu(m): 8:35am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Reasonabledoubt: You dont give up. U keep drumming it. Preaching it ..shouting it until it gets into thick skulls. Skales, i go die etc that he mentioned are frm very poor background. Davidos daddy will not wait for him to come and build him mansion. Falz daddy will not wait for him to come and huild a house or buy a car for him. It is a childs responsibility to take care of his parent only if the parent is poor. And every parent pray dat their kids do better than them. But there are parents that their kids will never touch their feet in terms of achievememt. Exampl, Bill gates, Dangote etc. How mamy of Abiolas children are as known as him? 3 Likes |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by DaudaAbu(m): 8:43am On Dec 20, 2017 |
It simply means plan before having kids. Dont enjoy urself (having all kinds of fun) while you are still single and didnt plan properly and expect one of ur brothers dat was more frugal and had a plan and saved to go and bring all his savings to help you when things are not longer rosy and you now had children you dis not plan for. Plan, plan plan. If God did not make ur plan work out ,well so be it. At least you know you tried. Children should take care of their parent but parent should at least plan for their old age. That make things better for everybody 3 Likes |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by DaudaAbu(m): 8:49am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Ishilove: He might not be as selfish as you are insinuating. My parents prayer (esp my mum) is dat may God give each and everyone of us enough dat we dont have to depend on each other. She had 8 of us ,7 of us are living |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by enonche85(m): 9:07am On Dec 20, 2017 |
amprat: Maybe his baba told him not to help anyone, not even his family, else his jazz will fade. 1 Like |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by tomtyte02(m): 9:30am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Reasonabledoubt: I used to think like this but i realised its because im broke. I mean whats the essence of being rich when your siblings cant enjoy part of the riches? Yes,its a the mothes absolute responsibility to take care of her children. What then happens when she joins the dependent ratio? At OP, I will advice you guys to show him more love despite his cursed behaviour. Call him more, call his wife to check their welfare etc. Dont expect any change dou...just keep doing it...esp ur mom |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by Ishilove: 9:31am On Dec 20, 2017 |
DaudaAbu:Would any of you abandon your parents in their old age? The selfishness I was referring to was prompted by his statement "it is not by force to help your mother" (paraphraising) |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by eyinjuege: 10:04am On Dec 20, 2017 |
How old is your mom OP? If she's less than 70years, then she can still do some work like being a nanny for young couples who are both working. As for you and your other siblings, my advice is for you to just strive harder and face your hustle. Your brother in question can equally say none of you have ever contributed anything to his success/life so he may feel he owes you nothing. Don't take his attitude personal, he's decided not to share his money with anyone. Most times, help comes from unexpected quarters |
Re: Is He Being Wise, Cursed Or Just Wicked? by tomtyte02(m): 10:04am On Dec 20, 2017 |
Reasonabledoubt: I used to think like this but i realised its because im broke. I mean whats the essence of being rich when your siblings cant enjoy part of the riches? Yes,its a the mothes absolute responsibility to take care of her children. What then happens when she joins the dependent ratio? At OP, I will advice you guys to show him more love despite his cursed behaviour. Call him more, call his wife to check their welfare etc. Dont expect any change dou...just keep doing it...esp ur mom |
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