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Mistake Married Women Make by Chuks9000: 11:26pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Women (married) have their overwhelmingly great sides. But their are some behaviours that could be detrimental to the relationship. 1. Lack of sex. Having sex once in a month! She will always come up with excuses like: I have a headache, I'm not in the mood, you only come to me when you need sex... Sex is one of the cheapest things to get out there! But when the man holds those quality time with his wife as sacred, lack of sex can be a spoiler in the relationship. The funny thing is that most time when he presses on, you tend to submit. Why then make him labour? The worst is when you never initiate sex. No words to describe this torture. Again, why will your husband walk into the room just for you to begin to adjust your top to conceal your boobs or bum? If you can't display the resources for him freely, then don't fault him if he thinks you are having an affair outside. 2. 'Disrespectfulness'. Not acknowledging your husband at appropriate moments. Imaging not saying good morning when you see him in the morning. Maybe after a fight. But making it a habit. Hmmm. She will say you are on leave and still you don't have time to call. But when she is on leave, she will pretend to be asleep until the man leaves the house. Sometimes, he remembers he left his phone or something behind. He comes back to get it and relises that she was only waiting for him to leave the house before she gets up. What a shame. Your husband gets home, rings the bell. You go unlock the door and return to what you were doing without receiving him at the door. Funny when you always think his going out to have a drink is a sin. It's part of a man's DNA. Please get use to it. 3. Love for money. Money makes the world go round. But if the only time you are happy is when your palm is greased with money or gift, then, there is an issue. 4. 'Rudeness. This is a little different from number 2. "Baby, it's not done that way. See how it's done." When you take offence anytime a correction is suggested, you create a gap in the relationship. The husband cannot even ask if you have seen his wallet without you taking offence. 5. Pouring your annoyance on the kids always. No illustration needed here. If you have an issue bothering you, why not discuss it amicably? These have been the order of the day and I just need your mature contribution. Please if you cannot relate with the topic, you should take your joke(s) else where. Thanks in advance. 125 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Nobody: 11:27pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Halleluyah, it hits FP. Lack of Trust Nagging Trying to Domineer the man Emotional Abuse Verbal Assault Emotional Stonewalling Lack of Restrain Lack of Sensitivity Lack of Care Disrespect Too Much Talk Intolerance Bad tasting Meals Boring Sex Rudeness Disloyalty Lack of proper Hygiene 120 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by MrHistorian: 11:45pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
6.)Total disregard for body/beauty maintenance. I don't know if this is peculiar to Nigeria but once a woman is married,she pays little attention to her looks with the ridiculous belief that "Who is looking at me?".. Though a married woman is not expected to portray herself as a slut but at the same time must make herself presentable at home and in the public. 49 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by hobermener: 11:45pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Marriage is hella overrated!! Why bring two different people from different backgrounds, who hold different values and possess different traits under one union, merging them as both one, leaving them with the life long struggle of reconciling their differences with time I just taya 68 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Flashh: 11:46pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Spot on! 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Lexusgs430: 11:48pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Oya, una dey hear so? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by queenfav(f): 11:48pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Even the men a woman lies stark naaked in bed for, will still cheat if they want to.... It takes a lot of self discipline and the fear of God for a man to be a good husband, it's not a function of what his woman does or doesn't do!A woman should however try to stay attractive for her man. 90 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by AfroSamurai: 11:49pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Jupxter:the married women should be the ones learning, not you and me. I've seen that most of them are usually frustrated bitter housewives who come on social media to act macho when in truth, they're submissive wimps to their husbands outside social media. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Hushpuppi: 11:49pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Ok |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by makdcash(m): 11:49pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
I don carry my bed and pillow come,oya our bros dem.make una comment....i wan learn 3 Likes |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by KenModi(m): 11:50pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Highly debateable points OP. Are you married? 2 Likes |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Okoyeeboz: 11:50pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
queenfav: They are talking of what a woman can do to be a better wife and you're talking about lying stark naked in bed. Is that all you could pick from the post? You no see disrespect, rudeness and transferred aggression on kids? Abeg, let those women who would learn pick a point of two. Let those wives who want to argue continue arguing. Covenant and Babcock girls go soon vacate, una eyes go clear. 148 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by afbstrategies: 11:50pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
On point 1 Like |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Ugoeze2016: 11:51pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Unnecessary boring lifestyle 4 Likes |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Nobody: 11:51pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Booked |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by bumi10(m): 11:51pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
this is informative and is on point.... I hope ladies will learn. You should also add - They always stop taken care of themselves whenever they are married. Abeg this slay queen has vowed to snatch any boyfriend she see regardless of he is married or not cuz another girl collected her own read more @ http://www.exlinklodge.com/2017/12/slay-queen-vows-to-sleep-with-peoples.html 1 Like |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by MhizzAJ(f): 11:51pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Noted |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Nobody: 11:51pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
AfroSamurai: I'm here to learn how to be a better guy, and a good husband 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by EmirOMENT: 11:52pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
This advise is good for both husband and wife and not only the women. Creating this thread specifically for women means that you're subjecting them to mere objects/machines in their matrimonial home. I see no reason why a man can't also adhere to the above advise. 23 Likes |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by AfroSamurai: 11:53pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Jupxter:alright. Carry on. |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Drsheddy(m): 11:53pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by PastorLucifer: 11:53pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
AfroSamurai: 4 Likes
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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Endtimesmith(m): 11:53pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Nwaamaikpe...You don sleep? |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Nobody: 11:53pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Op has told us the gospel truth, same as many other "marriage experts" on this thread. Women gotta behave, and men also gotta embrace marriage diplomacy and psychology. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by contigiency(m): 11:54pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
The whole points are germain. Especially the issue of sex and ruddiness. But one other major issue is the appearance of some wives who appear dirty and unkempt with the excuse that they are busy with domestic duties. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by PastorLucifer: 11:54pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Jupxter: Instead of listing all these, just type her name - Pocohantas. Simple. 22 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by LesbianBoy(m): 11:54pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Cococandy must hear of this! |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by youngreezy(m): 11:54pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Using the term weaker sex to dia advantage... Dis one na em dey reign now |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by youngreezy(m): 11:55pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Using the term weaker sex to dia advantage... Dis one na em dey reign now dem use am dey kill men.. |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Nobody: 11:56pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
contigiency: It is saddening, they feel once wooing is complete, to hell goes other things. 2 Likes |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Nobody: 11:56pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
hobermener:You , my friend , are overrated. Sounds like the product of a broken home. You can use the same arguement for having a gf, for having a nation, for anything that brings people together to work towards a common goal. Bottom line: You are overrated. The poster below me though: zero sense made. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by safarigirl(f): 11:56pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Not putting a tracker on their husbands In case you marry a dog, you need to be sure he hasn't been eating shiiit outside before coming to you, lest he gives you a disease 9 Likes |
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