Good day guys, thanks for ur advice all this time. Its really helped me. Its brought me so far, now I'm at the point, where I need to make a decision quick.
So, this girl I've been bleeping for some time now. We had a lil ish and we stopped bleeping and even talking. We went our separate ways, but now we re talking. She keeps claiming that she doesn't want a relationship but her actions are saying otherwise. She asks me about the girls I had sex with during d period we weren't talking, and she asks whether I enjoyed them, how many times we did it, whether I love any of them. She just kept on asking, and she was like"its just to clear my doubt".
Next thing she went on and said that all pussies are not the same, that you have a connection and passion with some, that you can never have with the rest. I replied her that from where I stand, all pussies are the same. She got angry and left.
And she keeps sending me this songs like perfect by ed sheeran, losing you by solange, only you by ric hassani.
I ask why and she is like, she likes them and I should listen to em. And if I post anything on WhatsApp, that is remotely related to love, she will ask, "who is this for? ".
All these things, she does, and she keeps saying she doesn't want a realtionship.

Guy marry her already and stop disturbing us.

This is 6am and this is what’s bothering you.

Damn, we lost it.

Op, go back to bed and come back when you have something productive on your mind

Lol...funny response

fayded:
Good day guys, thanks for ur advice all this time. Its really helped me. Its brought me so far, now I'm at the point, where I need to make a decision quick.
So, this girl I've been bleeping for some time now. We had a lil ish and we stopped bleeping and even talking. We went our separate ways, but now we re talking. She keeps claiming that she doesn't want a relationship but her actions are saying otherwise. She asks me about the girls I had sex with during d period we weren't talking, and she asks whether I enjoyed them, how many times we did it, whether I love any of them. She just kept on asking, and she was like"its just to clear my doubt".
Next thing she went on and said that all pussies are not the same, that you have a connection and passion with some, that you can never have with the rest. I replied her that from where I stand, all pussies are the same. She got angry and left.
And she keeps sending me this songs like perfect by ed sheeran, losing you by solange, only you by ric hassani.
I ask why and she is like, she likes them and I should listen to em. And if I post anything on WhatsApp, that is remotely related to love, she will ask, "who is this for? ".
All these things, she does, and she keeps saying she doesn't want a realtionship.

I made a promise in 2018....Woman issue would never be a first in my life.

So do as I do Bro. Leave Woman cos they are unpredictable

koolaid87:
This is 6am and this is what’s bothering you.

Damn, we lost it.

Op, go back to bed and come back when you have something productive on your mind

I will be busy today and won't have the time to type this again.
So, if u have any advice, I'd really appreciate it.

DuBLINGreenb:
Guy marry her already and stop disturbing us.

Lolz, abeg e never reach marriage levels.

Kenzico:



I made a promise in 2018....Woman issue would never be a first in my life.

So do as I do Bro. Leave Woman cos they are unpredictable

Its easier said than done bro. I have never really loved any girl, buh I know, I love this one.
I've tried running and lying and even sleeping with her friend. I just did everything to sabotage it and make sure that I lose my feelings.
It never worked. And I can't run, she is in my dept, junior colleague. And she is in the same lodge with me. Literally, my neighbor. I hate this feeling I have.

mr speaker...i think we need to call this girl to other...kikiki

baba are u scared of hitting the nail on the head.if u love her.tell her you want her back in your life and if she refuse,move on. stop building a relationship around sex ok.

She just want to be sure before she commit herself to you again and you are not helping matters

All questions she ask is for you to confirm that she is special, so be guided

AnodaIT:
She just want to be sure before she commit herself to you again and you are not helping matters

All questions she ask is for you to confirm that she is special, so be guided

How do u mean exactly??.. She actually told me recently, that maybe I'm afraid of committing to her cos I know she will hurt me,..
Imagine such guts. How can that girl now want to commit.

OP ask her out before someone else does buh I guarantee you the moment it becomes official the Toto loses its flavor not taste..its better like this trust me...never confuse passion for love

Make things clear with yourself.
Seems to me you're having casual sex with strings attached but you're scared to admit it.
Or maybe you think she doesn't feel the same way towards you.
Make a choice.
My advice - leave it at the casual sex level

Resume fvcking her..

fayded:

Its easier said than done bro. I have never really loved any girl, buh I know, I love this one.
I've tried running and lying and even sleeping with her friend. I just did everything to sabotage it and make sure that I lose my feelings.
It never worked. And I can't run, she is in my dept, junior colleague. And she is in the same lodge with me. Literally, my neighbor. I hate this feeling I have.

She wants a relationship, just go ahead and ask her out. All the songs she has been sending to u have a meaning within dem dat u need to listen to but i am 100% sure she is also inlove with u.

Huee:
Make things clear with yourself.
Seems to me you're having casual sex with strings attached but you're scared to admit it.
Or maybe you think she doesn't feel the same way towards you.
Make a choice.
My advice - leave it at the casual sex level

Yea.. Exactly.. Her actions are pointing to d fact dt she wants a relationship buh her words re the exact opposite.
I will consider ur advice. Thanks

fayded:

Its easier said than done bro. I have never really loved any girl, buh I know, I love this one.
I've tried running and lying and even sleeping with her friend. I just did everything to sabotage it and make sure that I lose my feelings.
It never worked. And I can't run, she is in my dept, junior colleague. And she is in the same lodge with me Literally, my neighbor. I hate this feeling I have.

Chai....Na serious one.

Please ignore her for now

DuBLINGreenb:
Guy marry her already and stop disturbing us.

I tire oh.

Op the girl is clearly in love with you. She's just doing the womanly thing by 'forming'.

Abeg when proposing to her (go ahead and propose, she digs you and she has great taste in music) pls if you are kneeling down don't post it on Nairaland. We don tire to read that kain thing.