Elparaiso:
Invite her friends to dinner. Then tell her to cook.

She will sign up for cooking classes the next day.

xreal:
Colombia?

My advice wouldn't work in Colombia.

greatdylan10:
Don’t judge me on this, guys but yes, my girlfriend’s cooking is horrible. Don’t get me wrong though, I love how hard she tries and I appreciate her efforts, but dang, I can’t seem to hide it any longer. I need to get this off my chest because I’m going to be visiting her for the 3rd time in her hometown in Colombia and I don’t want to go through another homemade dinner with her.
I want our relationship to have complete honesty and a sense of comfortability which is why I think I’ll start it off with this. I met her through a romance tour a few months back and boy, was I in for a treat in the kitchen. The first time she brought me home and cooked for me, I almost choked (literally.) The second time, I had hoped her cooking skills would improve but was I dead wrong.
Now, I want to break the news to her but I don’t know how to start the conversation. Should I play it safe and tell her through chat or in person? If I do it online, she might not respond me for who knows how long but if I do it in person, she might get mad at me and kick me out.
I know how important cooking skills are for women and I don’t want to hurt her feelings but I gotta do this. Help me out here, guys. I need to break the ice!

richythePH:
i believe telling her literally would cause a stir in your relationship so i suggest you tell her indirectly


eg take a couple of cooking books and manuals with you on your next visit and make sure you dont conceal them so she can see them and then...........(you can take it from there)

makydebbie:
And if they're used to her bad food already?


When people dey talk about cooking abilities sef, I no suppose chook mouth.

Elparaiso:


Nah, I believe women have the most refined taste buds available to humans. At least one of her friends would tell her that's she's prepared nonsense.

You no sabi cook?

donstan18:
You dare not tell a woman straight that she can't cook, it's kinda rude, imagine a woman telling you "you can't fvck", how do you see that?, dame embarrassing, I guess.

What am I tryna imply?, i'm in a way trying to let you know that there are ways it should be done,and mind you, you don't conclude a woman being a bad cook, because how you see her food might be way different from how others sees it, it depends on how the different family run delicacies. If you really don't enjoy her food, start getting close to her in the kitchen to help her out, if you can cook, but if you can't, start getting use to her food for the moment, indirectly add cooking topics while discussing or gisting with her, pretend by getting some food manuals for yourself, watch food programs and channels with her, you can aswell tell your sisters, you know, for them to get close to her and indirectly help her out.

makydebbie:
No need to tell her!

Can you cook? When she's in the kitchen, join and save your stomach from hardship.

SirMichael1:


[b]The topic was pretty concise but you chose to go lengthy with your comment.

[s] You could help him out with direct answers not maneuvering through series of channels [/s]

donstan18:
You dare not tell a woman straight that she can't cook, it's kinda rude, imagine a woman telling you "you can't fvck", how do you see that?, dame embarrassing, I guess.

What am I tryna imply?, i'm in a way trying to let you know that there are ways it should be done,and mind you, you don't conclude a woman being a bad cook, because how you see her food might be way different from how others sees it, it depends on how the different family run delicacies. If you really don't enjoy her food, start getting close to her in the kitchen to help her out, if you can cook, but if you can't, start getting use to her food for the moment, indirectly add cooking topics while discussing or gisting with her, pretend by getting some food manuals for yourself, watch food programs and channels with her, you can aswell tell your sisters, you know, for them to get close to her and indirectly help her out.

Lifeofpolice1:
if she can't cook
Let him direct her to amani63 simple as that

donstan18:

SirMichael1:

Direct answers son , not maneuvering through channels.
English isn't that hard, why make it hard?

makydebbie:
Na true sef.

Lifeofpolice1:
lol
I think by now amani63 will feel like super human
Lolz

makydebbie:
Lol true.

I no sabi like that jare.

Elparaiso:


Try learn o, make your husband no use you do shakara.
Just invite your friends over for dinner. That's a good place to start.

makydebbie:
No thanks.

Husband koh, that one will know how will I even hide it? I'll tell him I can't cook jare.

Elparaiso:


My point exactly, he's gonna flaunt his cooking skills. Besides , why don't you want to learn?

makydebbie:
Lol true.
I no sabi like that jare.

donstan18:

..

makydebbie:
Lmao.
Leave me alone abeg, I said I'll learn.

donstan18:


Let me just believe you

Papanwamaikpe:
Very simple, by dumping her sorry ass

makydebbie:
You know I'm 90% wife material na.