Life hit me hard recently n i hv come to the realisation!!! That there is a big, huge difference between friendship n loyality!! Close friendships are enjoyable when young n growing but when we r in a mature state!! When u hv less time 4 gisting n talking n ur focused on ur dreams,, whats more valuable is loyality!! U think people who know ur life n ur whole secrets are the ones who are gonna stand with you in difficult situations or support u when its needed but they dont, because they get new friends n their loyality shifts!! This is because they feel ur already there n there is no need to please u!! But their new friends, they hardly know, are the ones they do eye service to!! N belittle u to them just because they hv 'see u finish' but someone who is ur friend but aint that close to you or know ur secrets, are the first set of individuals to show themselves, suppose u n help u[right][/right] when in need!! Funny enough those close friends are laughing at ur down fall n watching ur next move so they will try to move higher than u, innocent you thinking we are cool n best friends!! No ur not!!! Ur their no1 competition!! I found out late!! There is nothing like best friend,close friend n all that!! Just loyal friends!!! they might not be too close to you or know much abt ur shortcoming, but they are ones rooting 4 you!! Trust me

What's your point?

donstan18:
What's your point?

my dear if u dont get the point fine!!! Read till u do!! Or move along!! I dont expect everyone to understand the point!!

Shugavee:
my dear if u dont get the point fine!!! Read till u do!! Or move along!! I dont expect everyone to understand the point!!

I asked a harmless question with no harm intended, i'm not art endowned, I like it brief with full of point.

So I ask again, what's the point?

Lol did any 1 betray u lately? ?
Withstanding wat u wrote up there am still with my day 1 niggas ...always got each others back before, now and always

some guys and their incoherent posts sha

donstan18:


I asked a harmless question with no harm intended, i'm not art endowned, I like it brief with full of point.

So I ask again, what's the point?

sorry 4 the reaction!! My point is the subject!! Thanks

HOLYDICK:
Lol did any 1 betray u lately? ?
Withstanding wat u wrote up there am still with my day 1 niggas ...always got each others back before, now and always

not betray really but u just get some funny reactions from people u could absolutely do anything 4!! N ur amazed!! His ur no 1 nigga till u become a competition!!

Shugavee:
sorry 4 the reaction!! My point is the subject!! Thanks

Like, we shouldn't have best friends?, we should be our own best friend to avoid emotional drama.

Nice one brO, you recently got snithced? you can guide us with your experience, if you don't mind

donstan18:


Like, we shouldn't have best friends?, we should be our own best friend to avoid emotional drama.

Nice one brO, you recently got snithced? you can guide us with your experience, if you don't mind

not sntiched tho but hurt!! Its a long story but cant really say it all in writing but it hurts hving a friend not worth all the stress u hv gone through with that person!! Funny enough my friends told me their own experiences with their close friends but i thought it would never happen to me!!! I had this thought "what can even make us stop being best friends" i thought nothing will ever change till it did!! N am like wow!!! Had no fight wth this friend of mine o but i didnt need to

u got betrayed or what?

Shugavee:
not betray really but u just get some funny reactions from people u could absolutely do anything 4!! N ur amazed!! His ur no 1 nigga till u become a competition!!

I was there.... It got worse... When best friends left...I decided to Chanel all my interest to a girl, gave her all my attentions, made her my best friend and she decided to leave too....

Don't ask me....I am not a terrible person, but because I was pursuing my dreams and I lost friendships to the wind!!!

I build up and stayed strong, focussed and determined... it helped me to get to where I am today!!

Shugavee:
not sntiched tho but hurt!! Its a long story but cant really say it all in writing but it hurts hving a friend not worth all the stress u hv gone through with that person!! Funny enough my friends told me their own experiences with their close friends but i thought it would never happen to me!!! I had this thought "what can even make us stop being best friends" i thought nothing will ever change till it did!! N am like wow!!! Had no fight wth this friend of mine o but i didnt need to

@Bolded, you mean the same set of friends?

Or a particular "Best friend", pardon my much questions.

But, I thought guyz hardly snitch, throw more light to us, we might help talk in to you, you know.

yanabasee:



I was there.... It got worse... When best friends left...I decided to Chanel all my interest to a girl, gave her all my attentions, made her my best friend and she decided to leave too....

Don't ask me....I am not a terrible person, but because I was pursuing my dreams and I lost friendships to the wind!!!

I build up and stayed strong, focussed and determined... it helped me to get to where I am today!!

funny story but honestly u n ur best friend r u guys as close?? Like u tell him everything n all? Focusing on my dreams is all am abt atm

Shugavee:
Life hit me hard recently n i hv come to the realisation!!! That there is a big, huge difference between friendship n loyality!! Close friendships are enjoyable when young n growing but when we r in a mature state!! When u hv less time 4 gisting n talking n ur focused on ur dreams,, whats more valuable is loyality!! U think people who know ur life n ur whole secrets are the ones who are gonna stand with you in difficult situations or support u when its needed but they dont, because they get new friends n their loyality shifts!! This is because they feel ur already there n there is no need to please u!! But their new friends, they hardly know, are the ones they do eye service to!! N belittle u to them just because they hv 'see u finish' but someone who is ur friend but aint that close to you or know ur secrets, are the first set of individuals to show themselves, suppose u n help u[right][/right] when in need!! Funny enough those close friends are laughing at ur down fall n watching ur next move so they will try to move higher than u, innocent you thinking we are cool n best friends!! No ur not!!! Ur their no1 competition!! I found out late!! There is nothing like best friend,close friend n all that!! Just loyal friends!!! they might not be too close to you or know much abt ur shortcoming, but they are ones rooting 4 you!! Trust me

I personally do not believe in friendship,not to talk of 'best friend';what exists in the whole world is simply associations of convenience otherwise known as acquaintances...
TRUE FRIENDSHIP IS AN ILLUSION.
I have never been betrayed before,but I just chose never to believe in it and I have no regrets.

donstan18:


@Bolded, you mean the same set of friends?

Or a particular "Best friend", pardon my much questions.

But, I thought guyz hardly snitch, throw more light to us, we might help talk in to you, you know.

hello!!!! guys gossip more than ladies, they gossip to ladies more not guys especially their fights!! Am a lady btw!! N truely guys were actually the once giving me their stories!! N advising me but i never listened!! Carry besty 4 head like government work

Shugavee:
hello!!!! guys gossip more than ladies, they gossip to ladies more not guys especially their fights!! Am a lady btw!! N truely guys were actually the once giving me their stories!! N advising me but i never listened!! Carry besty 4 head like government work

I really may not know how you feel, but.

Hey c'omom, you gotta brave up to keep pushing positively, panicking over gone fellas should be dusted and left behind.

Modern world we are, kill the feelings, kill the secret shared, if possible, kill the friendly intimacy shared.
Speed ahead, no much time for goons

Friends are either blessing or lesson to us

We gotta bold up in whichever one we are fortunate or unfortunate to meet.

We ain't in a perfect world, we shouldn't expect perfect hommies.

Life is fvcked, so expect positive or negative fvcks.

Its normal, my friend for nearly decade tried to Bleep me up.

I have people who our interest align, not friends?
Lol friends, grow up, we came alone, don't you remember?

donsimo:
Its normal, my friend for nearly decade tried to Bleep me up.

I have people who our interest align, not friends?
Lol friends, grow up, we came alone, don't you remember?

ur absolutely right on that one

Shugavee:
funny story but honestly u n ur best friend r u guys as close?? Like u tell him everything n all? Focusing on my dreams is all am abt atm

He knew everything about me same way I knew everything about him....


Don't just focus on your dreams, work hard to achieve it.....You'll get a better result....