If you are in a situation where you wonder if she’s type of woman you want to take home, know that you may not completely know, women don’t know anything about honesty and this is why they wear makeup to cover their blemish. As much as they hate full disclosure (don't be decisive if they tell you, they want to know everything. It's a lie!) same way most of them lack the courage to attend event without makeup. However, there are some pointers which by no means is all there’s to it that a man can look out for.

1. Type of Men She Dated Before:

When women are about to hit the biological wall (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/09/20/when-she-propose/), they change lanes from dating pop stars, sport athletes, celebrities and the likes to wanting to date regular guys with stable jobs (civil servant, regular jobs), small business managers. It’s important to know the type of men your girlfriend bleeped before and why she suddenly now took shine to a man like you who’s completely different from her previous boyfriends.

If she used to banged guys like sport athletes or men who fuc**ed her so good whether with drugs or stimulants, it’s important to know this, if you are different from the type of guys she dated before, it means she is changing lanes after realizing that are sexual marketing value is declining and about to hit her biological wall. This type of woman is good for dating not marriage because sooner or later she’s going to crave for that spontaneous hot sex and if you can’t meet it, the woes that befall beta male will be your fate.

2. Retired Fuc**ing Machine:

If you’re dating a girl who makes you wait for sex and when she finally let you have it, the sex is of a high class porn star quality, almost about to ruin you with sex and make you wonder how come she fuc*ed so good. A woman like this has been putting up an act, pretending not to be a slut. Basically she performs sexual acts like an actor on stage.

3. Sex by Barter:

More like trade by barter, to her sex is a commodity or currency she expect to claim after giving it to you. She has this entitlement mentality when it comes to sex, if she is offering it, something must be offered in return.

4. Selective and Strongly Control the Sex:

If you have a girlfriend that won’t do certain things and will only have sex at certain times of her choice and will do anything to avoid performing certain sexual acts because she want to give the impression that ‘only sluts/whores do that’ and she ‘doesn’t want you to think she’s a LovePeddler’. Also after sex, she immediately get up to watched the semen in her vaginal/body because she “want to avoid infection” or clean the area that’s wet.

She is very cautious of herself during sex and always accessing her performance and how you are evaluating her sexually. She is never completely free when having sex with you and because of this she never enjoys herself.

5. Are You Committing?

She wants to quickly move to next stage of the relationship, she want to be sure that you are ready to be committed and she will indirectly and openly give hints that she expect to settle down soon as possible. She expect you to also show the same commitment as your own way of compensating her in exchange for the sex she’s doling out. She want you to be committed in exchange for the sex.


Like I said, there are many other tell signs to show a lady who’s sexual attraction level is declining and urgently want a man (Beta man) who meet her social provisioning desire and ready to settle down. A man who can provide for her and take of the kids whom ignorantly may not be their father.

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May Obasanjo Never Write me a letter.

I'm not a fan of OBJ but one of my prayer points has always been that may Obasanjo never write me a letter.
Obasanjo may have done exact or more evil than whoever he's writing to admonish but while OBJ always escape repercussions, whoever he writes to admonish are not always lucky.

OBJ's involvement in any issue signifies the imminent end of that issue.

First he wrote to Shagari when the latter was soaked in mismanagement of the economy few months later the military smashed Shagari government.

In 1995 he then wrote to Abacha and described him as a stone age dictator, the letter landed him in trouble, He was almost killed. But after his death sentence was converted into prison terms, he wrote another letter to Abacha titled NO CONDITION IS PERMANENT, Where he said, "I was a head of state yesterday, today, I'm in jail. You're the head of state today, tomorrow, your condition may be worse than mine...".
Indeed, Abacha's future was worse as he ended inside the grave!!!

OBJ didn't write himself while in power but instead wrote his deputy, Atiku Abubakar. Atiku has become a shadow of his pre-1999 self since then.

It wasn't clear whether he wrote Yaradua, a terminally ill former Kastina governor he imposed on Nigeria....but he came out publicly and asked him to resign!!!

He also didn't spare GEJ he wrote him in a letter titled BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE, But it was actually late before the letter was written. Jonathan, today, has become a sorrowful history.

His latest letter to Buhari is no joke,
Take it or not, Buhari needs absolute care else the letter becomes his political abattoir

Beg Obasanjo for me whenever you see him, may he never write me a letter.
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