A close female friend of mine in her early thirties was really pissed when stormed into my office today when she narrated to me how she overheard her new boy friend of 6 months mocking her on the phone while in a conversation with one of his buddies.

According to what she said, she overhead her boyfriend saying that "All i want from her is to get to her promised land"

Now i found that quite hilarious but quite painful to be frank. Certainly couldn't show it sha, all i could do was simply console her and wish her better luck next time cause certainly this her now ex boy friend appears to be a kiss and tell dude

One of the reasons Pre-marital sèx should be a No.

Missy B:

One of the reasons Pre-marital sèx should be a No.

Very Very Correct.

Missy B:

One of the reasons Pre-marital sèx should be a No.

Relax!!! We are in the Info Age, The Jet Age, where everything moves fast. Go tell a guy he should wait for marriage. He's looking away from you asap or if he's really interested in you, will keep doing his "back" runs.

Go with reality. The way the world is supposed to be is unfortunately not how it is. Be a realist and ditch that idealist outlook.

Gud, u got me on dat one.

it's over mehn, no time to waste on a loser like dat!

let her look for another boyfriend that will not mock her

@ poster any thing abt the relationship u didn't share is the gurl older than the guy has she shown desperations considering her age.but wonders wud never end

The guy is not serious wit her, and does not love her for anything. She shuld move on and forget him.

neily:

The guy is not serious wit her, and does not love her for anything. She shuld move on and forget him.

She should move on and forget him? Hmmm, you need some classes on Emotional Intelligence, honey! I will suggest Daniel Coleman's "Emotional Intelligence"!

http://www.amazon.ca/Emotional-Intelligence-Matter-More-Than/dp/0553375067

If the guy has been taking her to that supposed promised land, emotionally she's been deeply hooked like a slave chained to a pillar. The best advice is for her to be herself. Just keep hanging in there and enjoying your promise land.

Don't ever talk about marriage. I can understand she's in her early 30s. But ma, I am dumping any girl that ever brings up the topic of marriage in our relationship.

Just as not all dates must turn into relationship, so should not all relationships, irrespective of how serious they might seem, turn into marriage.

Marriage is overrated. I am divorcing any silly thing the moment I sense any sign that she's slowing me up in my career and restricting my freedom.

Ladies please, give your boyfriends their freedom and let their conscience do the rest. You can't stop him from cheating or mocking you by stalking. Geez.

I don tire for Naija babes!!!

oh dear, that guy is mean. has he gotten to the promised land yet? if he hasn't, good for her and nobody needs to tell her what to do. ruuunnnnn. If he has gotten there, oops!

@weedinLA. u sound so immature how old are u 18?

kay0195:

@weedinLA. u sound so immature how old are u 18?

What made you think I sound immature?

^ ^^^^^ obviously still has the case of raging hormones

still in the "sowing my wild oats" stage

give it another  15-20 years

_{"na harmattan go warn persin wey dey wear loin-clothe"}

in the words of the great writer- ne-yo

[b]F[/b]uck that nigga!!!

Hey ayet, whos agnes ?

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/london/8624418.stm

RIP_

Dat niggy is way too imature 4 her,its actually good riddance to bad trash 4 her,but i hope he hasn't goten to the p land yet.

mheen dat guy fucke*ed up,gurls do dat too.

i hav nothin say