I live in Arizona,about 2 years ago my mum's friend introduced me to a guy in naija. I pointed out that the relationship should be for friendship only, I also made it clear say to bros say na only friendship I want. Toh, the friendship began, na so bro go dey message me everyday, call nko...I sha tell am again say no be for here hin go find nwunye (wife).

Any ways, I came out of a relationship and bros was still here but as friend because again he dey naija. Bros still stylishly ask me for a relationship, wey i make am clear say e no interest me.

Last yr sha, bros came to yankee and we met for the first time. Again, he said he wan marry me...because of family pressure to marry, i said yes.

Now, my problem is I dont find bros attractive at all, i no see much prospective in him but his personality dey ok and he seems to love me. E be like say he know i no like am like that but he sha wan force am make e gel. IF i provoke to point wey I feel say e go let go, bros go do strong head and come back as sweet as ever.

I dont see him my oga at the top but I'm confused if say i go let something good go or bros just wan use me enter canada to better himself. As i know hin leg no balance well for naija but he dey make ends meet. I think say he no say I no like because na him to force make i call am pet names, he dont complain say i no dey call etc. Thing dey clear say i no dey show much love interest.

I no fit discuss with mama because her and my papa like the guy. I dont like bros more than friend and definitley dont see him adding any real value to my life besides to say I have husband.

Make una epppp me , I dont dey loose my mind. Family wan choose date for December when they go niaja in feb. I still fit savour the situation before mid of feb.


Wetin una think about the situation? Shey the love fit grow, bros wan use me for one chance enter yankee or make i kuku drop it and move on.

What sort of trash is this?

Yeye dey smell, women and confusion, Ngwanu, dey swing upandan like jangulova. E wan use u enter Canada, na Conakry e for use you enter nah, chicken head. Na so una dey take good men play golf. Go marry your bad guy, leave am, when e hit you no cum open thread here cum dey complain give us. Yey dey smell


Cc : Lefulefu

You see love and you dey complain. Oya o

Jupxter:
Yeye dey smell, women and confusion, Ngwanu, dey swing upandan like jangulova. E wan use u enter Canada, na Conakry e for use you enter nah, chicken head. Na so una dey take good men play golf. Go marry your bad guy, leave am, when e hit you no cum open thread here cum dey complain give us. Yey dey smell


Cc : Lefulefu

women dont know wat they want

Oyindidi:
You see love and you dey complain. Oya o

Na so dem go dey use good men hearts play like clit...Smh...



It will be fun see them do the give me a husband or i die dance when they hit 91


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It's also fun to watch ladies trim down on expectations



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It's even more fun when they turn 40 still single and become " needless " intercessors



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lefulefu:

women dont know wat they want

Confused tins, na one weed smoker wey no go care for them, fvck them in and out for free, collect their money na him dey dey end with last last. We no their types

Jupxter:



Na so dem go dey use good men hearts play like clit...Smh...



It will be fun see them do the give me a husband or i die dance when they hit 91


[img]https://media1./images/cac376ad23d0173364d5b01180ab0766/tenor.gif?itemid=10333324[/img]


It's also fun to watch ladies trim down on expectations



[img]https://media1./images/6ce53060df5a52134ccb618a9e2e8783/tenor.gif?itemid=9694076[/img]



It's even more fun when they turn 40 still single and become " needless " intercessors



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Oyindidi:

Look the third picture well well....


When they are in 20s they start to act na babe be dis, see as i fine, when every every start to dey sag, dem go dey find one good guy to carry the shaft give....confused tins

Jupxter:



Look the third picture well well....

I see am

Jupxter:



Look the third picture well well....


When they are in 20s they start to act na babe be dis, see as i fine, when every every start to dey sag, dem go dey find one good guy to carry the shaft give....confused tins

Be nice

This one is confused, you no love am, you no find am attractive but when him propose you say yes, village people at work.

Oyindidi:
Be nice

Sorry jare, i just hate it to see good men been mis-treated by ladies jare. Its not where i wish my enemy

Jupxter:


Sorry jare, i just hate it to see good men been mis-treated by ladies jare. Its not where i wish my enemy

e better him find a woman wey love am marry than this op wey no ready. That needless intercessor gif funny die

Oyindidi:
e better him find a woman wey love am marry than this op wey no ready. That needless intercessor gif funny die

Infact each time i look that gif, i dey hail myself...

Well, i call it the error of 25, when ladies are 25, they feel trendy, cool, pretty, like sweet 16, i've come to realize when they miss the chances to get hooked to the right guy this age, they end up settling for worse or having regreats down the line. I've witnessed it in at least 10 occassions...Why does this happen?Have you observed it as well?


By the way, the op na narcissist, an egositic self-obsessed selfish, self centered tramp who thinks she's more than she is...Yeye dey smell...

Dem go dey use my brothers heart dey play, who are these tins self?

Jupxter:



Infact each time i look that gif, i dey hail myself...

Well, i call it the error of 25, when ladies are 25, they feel trendy, cool, pretty, like sweet 16, i've come to realize when they miss the chances to get hooked to the right guy this age, they end up settling for worse or having regreats down the line. I've witnessed it in at least 10 occassions...Why does this happen?Have you observed it as well?


By the way, the op na narcissist, an egositic self-obsessed selfish, self centered tramp who thinks she's more than she is...Yeye dey smell...

you sha don fire shots

Oyindidi:
you sha don fire shots

Damn it, my fingers drank too much alcohol..My fingers got drunk


Anyways about the 25 thingey, wetin you think? Have you also observed it ?

Jupxter:


Damn it, my fingers drank too much alcohol..My fingers got drunk


Anyways about the 25 thingey, wetin you think? Have you also observed it?

No, I have not

Oyindidi:
No, I have not

Start to study, when ladies throw out good men, of miss this agelimit,80% of times., they end with scums

Ngozidarlingxox:
I live in Arizona,about 2 years ago my mum's friend introduced me to a guy in naija. I pointed out that the relationship should be for friendship only, I also made it clear say to bros say na only friendship I want. Toh, the friendship began, na so bro go dey message me everyday, call nko...I sha tell am again say no be for here hin go find nwunye (wife).

Any ways, I came out of a relationship and bros was still here but as friend because again he dey naija. Bros still stylishly ask me for a relationship, wey i make am clear say e no interest me.

Last yr sha, bros came to yankee and we met for the first time. Again, he said he wan marry me...because of family pressure to marry, i said yes.

Now, my problem is I dont find bros attractive at all, i no see much prospective in him but his personality dey ok and he seems to love me. E be like say he know i no like am like that but he sha wan force am make e gel. IF i provoke to point wey I feel say e go let go, bros go do strong head and come back as sweet as ever.

I dont see him my oga at the top but I'm confused if say i go let something good go or bros just wan use me enter canada to better himself. As i know hin leg no balance well for naija but he dey make ends meet. I think say he no say I no like because na him to force make i call am pet names, he dont complain say i no dey call etc. Thing dey clear say i no dey show much love interest.

I no fit discuss with mama because her and my papa like the guy. I dont like bros more than friend and definitley dont see him adding any real value to my life besides to say I have husband.

Make una epppp me , I dont dey loose my mind. Family wan choose date for December when they go niaja in feb. I still fit savour the situation before mid of feb.


Wetin una think about the situation? Shey the love fit grow, bros wan use me for one chance enter yankee or make i kuku drop it and move on.

You are on ya own. Goodluck!

Chaieven women rejecting their own. Anyways sha, marriage isnt compulsory, we have sex dolls, cucumber, mango, spinach, all type of tins

Jupxter:


Start to study, when ladies throw out good men, of miss this agelimit,80% of times., they end with scums

That na karma

Oyindidi:
That na karma

I've seen around ten ladies in my life time that missed good men,all never recovered for life, 2 or 3 self don die from the hands of the husband dem marry later...They should settle with their bad guys nah. Wetin consain us...

Jupxter:



Infact each time i look that gif, i dey hail myself...

Well, i call it the error of 25, when ladies are 25, they feel trendy, cool, pretty, like sweet 16, i've come to realize when they miss the chances to get hooked to the right guy this age, they end up settling for worse or having regreats down the line. I've witnessed it in at least 10 occassions...Why does this happen?Have you observed it as well?


By the way, the op na narcissist, an egositic self-obsessed selfish, self centered tramp who thinks she's more than she is...Yeye dey smell...

25 abi? I know them

Jupxter:



Infact each time i look that gif, i dey hail myself...

Well, i call it the error of 25, when ladies are 25, they feel trendy, cool, pretty, like sweet 16, i've come to realize when they miss the chances to get hooked to the right guy this age, they end up settling for worse or having regreats down the line. I've witnessed it in at least 10 occassions...Why does this happen?Have you observed it as well?


By the way, the op na narcissist, an egositic self-obsessed selfish, self centered tramp who thinks she's more than she is...Yeye dey smell...

You're irredeemably stupid. Quit throwing unnecessary shots and move the fvck on! Mstcheeeeew.


Op, you're going to live with this man, not your parents. How could you even say yes to someone you don't find attractive? Please, don't make the mistake of marrying a man out of pity or pressure. Let him go, he keeps coming around because you let him. Make your intentions known to him and firmly this time around.

@Ngozidarlingxox Just tear the whole thing down. Man should get real, swallow the bitter pill and face the reality say e no fit work. Both of you are incompatible. Crazy you live in a civilized society yet accepted the proposal like an unexposed village girl in the first place.

Ngozidarlingxox:
I live in Arizona,about 2 years ago my mum's friend introduced me to a guy in naija. I pointed out that the relationship should be for friendship only, I also made it clear say to bros say na only friendship I want. Toh, the friendship began, na so bro go dey message me everyday, call nko...I sha tell am again say no be for here hin go find nwunye (wife).

Any ways, I came out of a relationship and bros was still here but as friend because again he dey naija. Bros still stylishly ask me for a relationship, wey i make am clear say e no interest me.

Last yr sha, bros came to yankee and we met for the first time. Again, he said he wan marry me...because of family pressure to marry, i said yes.

Now, my problem is I dont find bros attractive at all, i no see much prospective in him but his personality dey ok and he seems to love me. E be like say he know i no like am like that but he sha wan force am make e gel. IF i provoke to point wey I feel say e go let go, bros go do strong head and come back as sweet as ever.

I dont see him my oga at the top but I'm confused if say i go let something good go or bros just wan use me enter canada to better himself. As i know hin leg no balance well for naija but he dey make ends meet. I think say he no say I no like because na him to force make i call am pet names, he dont complain say i no dey call etc. Thing dey clear say i no dey show much love interest.

I no fit discuss with mama because her and my papa like the guy. I dont like bros more than friend and definitley dont see him adding any real value to my life besides to say I have husband.

Make una epppp me , I dont dey loose my mind. Family wan choose date for December when they go niaja in feb. I still fit savour the situation before mid of feb.


Wetin una think about the situation? Shey the love fit grow, bros wan use me for one chance enter yankee or make i kuku drop it and move on.

Na wah oh. Op are you a kid. The words in bold, so because of societal and parental pressures you agreed to marry someone you don't love I just don't understand some people.

Blackhawk01:



You're irredeemably stupid. Quit throwing unnecessary shots and move the fvck on! Mstcheeeeew.


Op, you're going to live with this man, not your parents. How could you even say yes to someone you don't find attractive? Please, don't make the mistake of marrying a man out of pity or pressure. Let him go, he keeps coming around because you let him. Make your intentions known to him and firmly this time around.

I'm not narcissistic, perhaps I placed too much emphasis on the proposal. IT wasn't your usual kneel down proposal. He asked me to date him with view to get married-I agreed to that.

However, he got very carried away by visiting my family members and getting very clingy with my mum; he wants to wed this year!

I don’t necessarily have to marry him but since my parents are going home next month, they are looking to meet his people and fix a date, since bros wants to wed this year.

For all of you with your whack Gif, you really need to walk in people’s shoes before you speak! I’m not a narcissistic but I also don’t want to feel like I’m settling.

I’m 28 and I’ve waited long enough to get married and It keeps me up at night knowing that we may not get to live together in our first year of marriage and how we will survive after marriage. Chances are, for a couple of years I’ll carry the weight financially, spiritually and emotionally.

I am also very concerned marrying someone I have only met once, even though we’ve been chatting for couple of years. I have fear of not really knowing him well. He is getting pressured to marry, he’s 36 and I feel he’s not realistic with the challenges we will obviously face. When he gets angry with me he doesn’t fully express it, I don’t know if that’s his true personality or he is holding back to get what he wants.

Please don’t insult me, this is dear to me, If i could share with my friends, I won’t be here pouring my heart out.

Ngozidarlingxox hun, from your write-up, what you need to do is glaring. I don't understand what's stopping you from walking away from all of these. If it's your age and the fear of not getting another man that's holding you back, hunnie! You'll get another man, there are single men out there that will fit perfectly into your plans.

Yeah, people make compromises for relationships and marriages but the red flags here are too much to ignore. The thought of the man you plan on making a family with should excite you not get you all worked up like this. I would have suggested you guys talk things through and see if changes can be made because I'm a huge fan of communication but you don't even want him! Talking won't solve that. Talk to your parents, tell them how you feel and your decision about this, stand your ground. You're 28, they should know you can make decisions for yourself already. They sure know there's more to marriage than answering "Mrs"


And please, ignore that agbaya spewing thrash. He isn't young himself and he's still very much single. He's just pained about his status.

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