Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,195,121 members, 7,957,187 topics. Date: Tuesday, 24 September 2024 at 08:42 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent (7265 Views)
SEXUAL CONSENT: What It Means And Why Every Woman Should Understand It / What Is The Legal Age Of Sexual Consent In Nigeria. / 'Rape & Beg': Elnathan John Addresses Sexual Consent (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by ubunja(m): 12:02pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
ReinaFarine:virgins are not mental hospital escapees like feminists are. |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by kazyhm(m): 12:05pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
MissWrite: you have tried so well to make sense but is tiring to make sense out of your logic..............you can rest now |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by MissWrite(f): 12:21pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
kazyhm: Then take a nap. No one is forcing you to do this. |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by Nobody: 12:22pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
oyb: Why would I want someone to sleep with me even though he does not enjoy it? In a good relationship, you show understanding in such situations. My two cents. |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by MissWrite(f): 12:39pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Faxole: If there isn't a signed lease, you can take back your property from someone at any point you please. It might be insensitive of you, but it's your absolute right. The guy can grumble, but if you're there to relieve him of the keys, he cannot claim he's got a right to drive it to said destination. He cannot insist that, since you already said "yes" you cannot change your mind. Unless there's a contract. The best he can do is call you an unreliable friend and never borrow your car again. Since we don't know what's happening in the mind of the participants and the potential consequences saying "No" or refusing to pull out may have on either of the partners, why then are we legislating this as a rape crime of which the only victim is the woman? "No" can be used by anyone. It doesn't matter if it's a woman or a man. As you've noticed during my argument, I've always been specific about what I'm against. I'm against a woman telling a guy to pull out after consentingly opening her legs for him to fuçk. I know there are cases where a woman can unwillingly open her legs, but I'm specifically referring to the cases of full consent. Yes, this part is clear to me. I only tried to explain (earlier) that there are non-vindictive reasons for retracting consent. Therefore, a woman who urgently needs her car to drive her sick mother someplace, shouldn't be treated too harshly for retrieving the vehicle from a friend who was only looking to oppress some guys. Sometimes a girl has genuine issues, which is why her request to be left alone should be respected.
. Men are coming from a place where women couldn't even bring these kinds of suits, so I understand how it can feel like you're "losing ground". It's all relative. 1 Like |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by Nobody: 12:56pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Faxole: They usually win because the courts are biased or because most of them were actually raped/abused? 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by Faxole: 1:20pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
MissWrite: I'm usually pragmatic when discussing issues like this. I don't just argue for theoretical purposes. I'm usually more concerned about the practical implications of an argument. I find how you are justifying being insensitive quite shocking and morally reprehensible as well. Someone once said that extreme left wing ideology has the potential to undermine society. I've always found that to be quite a profound statement and when I think about issues like this, the validity of the statement continues to shine forth. Ideas like the one you are holding have the potential to turn humans into apathetic robots who don't care about the effects of their actions on others, on the basis that they have rights and freedoms. One of the things that has helped sustain society, is the acknowledgement that an individual's actions have consequences and these consequences can affect others, so when we make a decision to act, we should do it with the awareness of the negative effects it can have on others, even if it temporarily infringes on our so called rights. You don't just sentence a man to jail for years and destroy his reputation and life just because he couldn't pull out after consentingly opening up your legs for him to fuçk. It's not just insensitive to take the keys from the friend halfway through his journey, it's also selfish, callous and cruel. And the selfishness, cruelty and callousness of that action doesn't seem to faze you. All you care about is imposing your perceived rights. This is the kind of mindset that led to the death of millions of people in the Soviet union and this is the kind of mindset that's going to lead to the collapse of society as we know it. What you feminists actually care about is power and exercising that power over men. You don't care about the consequences of your actions and the implications of your arguments. You don't care whether they are selfish, insensitive, cruel or callous. You just want to exercise power. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by Nobody: 1:55pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
ubunja:are you saying a virgin can't be a feminist? hian! nairalanders sef 1 Like |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by ubunja(m): 2:10pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Proudgorgeousga:im saying if you are not a virgin why are you even talking to me?? you dont qualify dont bother. 1 Like |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by Nobody: 2:15pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
ubunja: and I'm saying I'm a virgin. now answer the question. can a girl be a virgin and a feminist at the same time? |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by ubunja(m): 2:18pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Proudgorgeousga:no she cant. but if she calls herself a feminist then she gets disqualified. |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by Nobody: 2:21pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
ubunja:you have confirmed what I thought about you. you are obtuse. |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by ubunja(m): 2:31pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Proudgorgeousga:whatever that means... but the way i abhor feminists is like how i abhor vomit mixed with menstruation blood boiled in sewage with pubic hair sprinkled on top then mucus sprayed on top for seasoning. and if you think im a Patriarch think again coz that system is like the shiit that is feminism its just sprayed with perfume to smell good. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by Kekx(m): 2:33pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Mindfulness: Half African, my foot. You'v lived most of your life abroad and yet had the mindset of saying that a man's penis is stronger than his brain, of what reason should you be seen as an exposed lady. 1 Like |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by Nobody: 2:34pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Mindfulness: Heh. It can happen for any number of reasons. One of us might be feeling Hot while the other is preoccupied with something else and just not in the mood per second. That's why we have the aptly named term maintenance sex. It is not a 100% given that both partners will get 100% erm utility from the act everytime. |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by EOOJ(m): 2:39pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
MissWrite: She has com again Where have u been na 1 Like |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by EOOJ(m): 2:42pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
ubunja: Omor brosssssssss... Dis mixture na die o 1 Like |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by Nobody: 2:47pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Kekx: You mean his brain and you missed the sarcasm. And what makes you think that everyone who lives abroad must be automatically exposed? |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by Nobody: 2:49pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
oyb: I will rather wait until he is in the mood than engage in maintenance s.ex. S.ex is not food. |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by MissWrite(f): 2:51pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by Nobody: 2:55pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by Kekx(m): 2:56pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Mindfulness: And you never thought I was also being sarcastic aswell Most of'em are, I don't mind you granting me the permission to believe that you aren't. |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by Nobody: 2:57pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Kekx: You have the permission to think whatever you want. It does not add or take from my bank account. |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by Kekx(m): 3:00pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Mindfulness: And I'v chosen to see you a typical African, forming half-African |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by Nobody: 3:06pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Kekx: To those who it may concern. |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by EOOJ(m): 3:21pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
MissWrite: Been good o... Missed all ur killer killer english 1 Like |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by Kekx(m): 4:44pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Mindfulness: |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by Kekx(m): 4:45pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
Mindfulness: |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by Nobody: 6:47pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
This is one ridiculous write up I must confess is rape or cases of sexual assault only peculiar to Nigeria? So because some lawyers don't understand the meaning of consent, every lawyer in Nigeria is not bright enough to understand? Haven't we read about cases of young teenagers kidnapped and raped in western world in the past? The case on Dr phil show in 2013-2014 comes to mind Why is Southafrica nicknamed the rape capital of the world and not Nigeria ? (no pun intended) I just hate it, when an article that is suppose to deal with an important issue in our society in a constructive way becomes so repulsive. NB: I don't support rape or sexual assault in anyway, but I am against an article trying to paint my darling country in a bad light 1 Like |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by ubunja(m): 6:54pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
greiboy:if you rape you rape. stop the rape and the title will evaporate |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by Nobody: 7:02pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
ubunja:Yes, I get that, Still, I am just one man, thus I cannot control the decisions of every men in Nigeria. Criminals will always exist, regardless of how one try to sensitize the society against criminal acts. I am just saying that it is not right to paint a whole country with a bad image because of the criminal conduct of a few(rapist) 1 Like |
Re: A Rape advocate's outrage at opinions on sexual consent by ubunja(m): 7:15pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
greiboy:im in Jozi and i seen the shiit men can do.i know it hurts but dont take it personally.SA men have anger problems |
See What This 22 Year Old Posted Online That's Causing Uproar / Wanna Teach A Few People How To Make Money / Nigerian Ladies Fights Over Yansh And Breast, Share Pictures. PHOTOS
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 79 |