carolndidi:
[b]From Mrs Joyce Meyer
American TV Evangelist

A GOOD WOMAN, MAKES A GOOD WIFE AND A GOOD WIFE BECOMES A GOOD MOTHER. A GOOD MOTHER GIVES BIRTH TO A GOOD CHILD. IF YOU WANT TO BE A GOOD WOMAN, WIFE AND MOTHER, EMULATE THESE STEPS BELOW:

1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.

2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you. You are each other's keeper.

3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.

4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.

5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.

6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.

7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.

cool. Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.

9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.

10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband's right. You must give it to him how he wants it. It's very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over that duty (even the anointed
ones)

11). Never compare your husband to your one time Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.

12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.

13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.

14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.

15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.

16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.

17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.

18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?

19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home.

20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always team work.

21). Don't be too judgmental with your husband. No man wants a nagging wife.

22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.

23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food? Try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food.

24). Never be too demanding to your husband, enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.

25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty.

26). Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.

27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.

28) A confrontational wife, can never keep a good husband and her home, she will be grooming irresponsible daughters without manners.

29) A woman who cannot manage her children, home and husband is a complete failure in life no matter her achievements.

30) A wise woman honors her husband, and respect him, in turn the husband will cherish her and love her dearly - it will be natural. Husband is a beautiful gift from God, no woman can stay without a husband. No good man on earth can tolerate a confrontational and argumentative wife except they have lost their value and become less of a real man.

31). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.

32). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason.

33). A prayerful wife is very wise and intelligent and she is a better equipped wife, pray always for your husband and family. Conquer all your challenges and problems with prayers, only Christ can solve our problems - not parent, not pastors, not anybody but, only you and Christ.[/b]

delishpot:
Another bunch of commandments again.

RuthDaniels:
I know this! We all know this.

The problem is Most Nigerian men aren't worth the stress. They will only take advantage of you for their own selfish interest and still cheat on you with some lady who doesn't do half of these things.

They prefer the Alpha females. Women who can stand up for themselves, who will question,challenge and correct them. Women who aren't one way traffic. trust me, these females are the only ones who can handle them!

Watch the men deny this

greiboy:
This is too much rules

You mean you don't want a "dummie" for a wife

RuthDaniels:
You mean you don't want a "dummie" for a wife

RadicallyBlunt:

My dear, a man is a man whether Nigeria or USA. Allow God to break you like he did Joyce Meyer who was battered and deflowered by her father. Too much wisdom has demerits. The main challenge for Nigerian ladies is that most meek and loving men are not very rich.

RuthDaniels:
You are wrong! In this case, a Man is not a man So far there is cultural difference. An American man who believes in opening doors for his lady, sharing chores, treating woman as human. Who knows that woman is his helpmate and not Foot stool is different from a Nigerian Man whom culture and society has made to believe otherwise. So Bro don't tell me they are the same!

The irony is even Joyce Meyer wrote living beyond your feelings. Lol, if women don't need to be strong. minded she wouldn't see the need to do that. Moreover, Joyce Meyer and Ruth Daniels aren't the same, So God will have to deal with us differently.

The not too rich ones are only meek and loving because they aren't rich. But the that is not always the case because some broke ones are proud, insensitive and cruel too. The main challenge is finding a man who knows what he wants.

carolndidi:
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greiboy:
Exactly!

I am a person that believes in freedom of expression, when there are too many rules that freedom will be compromised. So basically one will be living with a highly stressed out robot, instead of a wife

greiboy:
Exactly!

I am a person that believes in freedom of expression, when there are too many rules that freedom will be compromised. So basically one will be living with a highly stressed out robot, instead of a wife

RadicallyBlunt:

The op hasn't mentioned bondage of expression. You shd perhaps comprehend better.

RadicallyBlunt:

And they still have d highest divorce rate inspite of sharing shores and the likes? And yes youre actually stronger than Meyer, she's not strong. On the contrary she's broken according to PS 51:17. Your strenght would fail or limit you someday and you wont be saved by likes and shares. And you shd marry an american on time to live ur desires for real. The truth does not settle down with you, it simply imples you have a long way to go.

What now!

I saw your reply yesterday in two statements you told me to suite myself and excuse for all which I ignored of course. Why the modification? You think you haven't typed enough?

Sorry sir, your original version and the modified one aren't worth debating on. This would be my last reply to you on this topic

RuthDaniels:
What now!

I saw your reply yesterday in two statements you told me to suite myself and excuse for all which I ignored of course. Why the modification? You think you haven't typed enough?

Sorry sir, your original version and the modified one aren't worth debating on. This would be my last reply to you on this topic

carolndidi:
I assumed the forum had lots of intelligent adults. But, can't we as adults express our different sides on issues without incessant quarrels

RadicallyBlunt:

Lol. What you posted is for very mature adults. Not the young adolescents or 20+ people. Your post was a big hit to young girls.

carolndidi:
[b]From Mrs Joyce Meyer
American TV Evangelist

A GOOD WOMAN, MAKES A GOOD WIFE AND A GOOD WIFE BECOMES A GOOD MOTHER. A GOOD MOTHER GIVES BIRTH TO A GOOD CHILD. IF YOU WANT TO BE A GOOD WOMAN, WIFE AND MOTHER, EMULATE THESE STEPS BELOW:

1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.

2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you. You are each other's keeper.

3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.

4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.

5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.

6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.

7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.

cool. Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.

9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.

10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband's right. You must give it to him how he wants it. It's very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over that duty (even the anointed
ones)

11). Never compare your husband to your one time Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.

12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.

13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.

14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.

15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.

16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.

17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.

18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?

19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home.

20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always team work.

21). Don't be too judgmental with your husband. No man wants a nagging wife.

22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.

23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food? Try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food.

24). Never be too demanding to your husband, enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.

25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty.

26). Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.

27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.

28) A confrontational wife, can never keep a good husband and her home, she will be grooming irresponsible daughters without manners.

29) A woman who cannot manage her children, home and husband is a complete failure in life no matter her achievements.

30) A wise woman honors her husband, and respect him, in turn the husband will cherish her and love her dearly - it will be natural. Husband is a beautiful gift from God, no woman can stay without a husband. No good man on earth can tolerate a confrontational and argumentative wife except they have lost their value and become less of a real man.

31). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.

32). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason.

33). A prayerful wife is very wise and intelligent and she is a better equipped wife, pray always for your husband and family. Conquer all your challenges and problems with prayers, only Christ can solve our problems - not parent, not pastors, not anybody but, only you and Christ.[/b]

carolndidi:



I couldn't agree more. I'm stunned that ladies find the post repulsive, when these acts will strengthen the bond in relationships.


What do you think about the debate on this thread (Please check the last two pages only )

https://www.nairaland.com/4341608/lady-rejects-mans-marriage-proposal/7

RadicallyBlunt:

Lol so funny. That poco girl and the other guy just quarrelling unnecessarily.

Its a knotty situation to be in though.

RadicallyBlunt:

Lol so funny. That poco girl and the other guy just quarrelling unnecessarily.

Its a knotty situation to be in though.