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Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by Pharaoh001(f): 11:42am On Feb 11, 2018 |
I won't like it,if anyone challenge or criticize my personal opinion....
“The most” is a tricky phrase to use,
because it might imply that one great trait
is better, more attractive than the other.
That this one trait can be mutually
exclusive from others. That’s not the case.
Instead of a quality, I’ll list a few
qualities. Because men I’m attracted to
have most of these.
If they had them all, I’d probably be
married. If I dated this person and it
didn’t work out, it is probably because I
thought they had all or most of these, but
it turned out they didn’t. (Don’t read the
post thinking I think I’m perfect. I do not
think I’m perfect. No one is. But I do
possess most of the qualities I want from
the other person. The ones I might not
possess, I’m working on every day.) A lovely smile. The smile is friendly and confident. It is wide, real, and the person isn’t stingy with this smile. The eyes join in the smile. It’s not a smirk or a grin. Manners. I don’t mean opening the door for me or taking charge or any of that crap. Although I don’t mind someone opening the door for me (or opening the door for someone), it is not necessary. What’s necessary is someone who knows how to behave: someone who is not picking loud fights in public places, someone who is kind/nice to everyone regardless of their social situation, someone who is only rude when the other person started it, someone who can keep things calm in a stressful situation - not the person starting fights for fight’s sake. Passionate. I am. Not possessive. I’m not. Not jealous. Jealousy is a big turn-off. (I’m not jealous. OK, I would love Ramsey Noah house, but that’s not relationship related.) A certain calmness. No one is calm all the time. It’s not possible. But I love it when a guy makes me feel calm. I feel like someone eradicted all the nervousness, worry and stress in the world. (All of my crushes made me feel like this.) Respectfulness and loyalty. I am respectful and loyal. No cheaters and no pathological liars. Self-care. I’m not talking about being fit here. Yes, fitness is an attractive trait, but I’m talking about knowing weaknesses (when it comes to health) and taking caring of himself accordingly. Will to self-improve. If someone arrogantly (and ignorantly) disses all non-fiction, we are not a good match. If someone doesn’t read, we are not a good match. Hobbies other than his job/ family/friends. Life can get pretty dull pretty fast. Someone who is passionate about things is generally more fun to talk to. I just hope that hobby isn’t all about just one sport. (Being a sports fan is fine, as long as it is not his whole identity.) Charisma and/or charm. How charismatic and/or charming I am is debatable. But I’m thinking he finds me charming and/or charismatic. Otherwise, why did he ask me out? Or why did he say yes when I asked him out? (Yes, I ask guys out. Equality, remember?) Sense of humor. We need to be able to make each other laugh. Things in common. We will have separate friends and hobbies and that is normal. But we also need mutual interests to make the relationship stronger, healthier and more fun. Yes, it is about attraction. I have found men more or less attractive based on what they loved and/or hated. Example: A guy who loves Justin Bieber is NOT attractive. I’m sorry, but he is not. I hate Justin Bieber. (I’m a rock head.) A normal attitude toward communication. I don’t want to date a guy who calls me 10 times a day or someone who calls me only once in 10 days. I return the favor. Personal space and trust. I don’t do shared accounts and passwords. I won’t ask his, I won’t give him mine. If we run a business together, we will then share the relevant business info. Style. I don’t follow or care for fashion. (I love clothes, but trends? No clue. No interest.) He should have his own style. Height. Sorry, this is a bit superficial. But I’ve always found taller guys more attractive. I’m 5′6″ (about 1.72cms.) Yes, there are exceptions. A cool voice. Optional, but it does increase attractiveness. Examples: wizkid, Dbanj, Odunlade's.... (There are tons) Not obsessed with exes. We owe each other a fresh start. Numbers don’t matter. I don’t care how many people he has dated. He should return the favor. Confident, but not arrogant. Aka likes himself but doesn’t think he is god’s gift to the world. Modest, and kind but not a pushover. Doesn’t openly check out other women when we are together. Checks them out discreetly when alone. Bonus point if he is not too interested in checking others out, even just platonically. (Yeah, yeah, not realistic. But it does increase the attraction.) Must be very Romantic, Brave and Loyal. 2 Likes |
Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by XhosaNostra(f): 11:50am On Feb 11, 2018 |
Erm...some women actually like a bit of possessiveness in a man. It gives a relationship that thing 5 Likes
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Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by ITbomb(m): 11:58am On Feb 11, 2018 |
Get money first before all these All a girl needs is a rich man who possess all these qualities 1 Like |
Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by newyorks(m): 12:00pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Endless list.. 1 Like |
Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by yarimo(m): 12:04pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Op all what you listed above won't work if you don't have MONEY. 2 Likes |
Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by Pharaoh001(f): 12:06pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
ITbomb: You're wrong, clinically wrong self Money don't attract someone like me and every other responsibile ladies out there..... |
Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by GabrielAganyi(m): 12:08pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Not jealous kkee..... Try it so your girl will think she's worthless to you.. ..... Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm 1 Like |
Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by justiniyke29: 12:11pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
hmm, what happened to be yourself? who would lyk u would lyk u. 4 instance if u start smiling when ur future mate comes around he/she would pass bcus they were looking 4 sum1 who frowns 1 Like |
Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by GabrielAganyi(m): 12:12pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
newyorks: Correct bro.... .. To be truly attracted to a babe for long.. . Bro you need to be a chameleon (change attitudes and other things with conditions at hand) so truly the list is endless 3 Likes |
Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by Nobody: 12:24pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
two things 1. If the op has all these qualities I wonder why she is still single 2. If the op is looking for all these qualities in a man then she should better start moulding the man now, the earlier the better. 2 Likes |
Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by Pubichairs(m): 12:26pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
keep deceiving your self with these qualities and die being broke and single ... |
Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by Odkosh: 12:29pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Money, owo, ego, kudi.......... |
Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by Odkosh: 12:30pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Pharaoh001:Yinmu. |
Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by topty11(m): 12:31pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
GabrielAganyi: |
Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by Loadedzunne(m): 12:38pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
you expect guys to have all these fear God
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Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by obiorathesubtle: 12:41pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
All this na story.. Without money.. Woman no go love you complete. . |
Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by mrphysics(m): 12:41pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Pharaoh001:we hear you dangotepharaoh001 |
Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by ubunja(m): 12:43pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
at 2M tall i used to be insecure about my height and the way everyone looked at me when i entered a place. but then i noticed people didnt detest my height but were actually fascinated. and ladies like standing right infront of me and looking up like they are looking up a giant...lol..now getting gals isnt that hard. especially when i meet really really tall girls, they give me that look that says " yes!!! there is hope for me". 1 Like |
Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by femi4: 1:27pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Pharaoh001:Wrong! That's probably initial perception but as the relationship gathers momentum, the moneyish character spring forth |
Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by Ontoog(m): 2:41pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
20+ qualities *_*,Don't you think it is a tad too much? |
Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by Henrypraise: 2:55pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Pharaoh001: n for all des, u will offer wat a damn used hole... |
Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by Nobody: 2:59pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
M O N E Y that is all jare |
Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by mega411(m): 8:59pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Nice there are few men who possess most of the listed attributes, but the question is how many ladies has the qualities, aside booty and boobs, to fully attract these kind of men. |
Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by Nobody: 9:23pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Pharaoh001:if You Can Prepare What You Have On Your Profile then I Will marry You |
Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by yEnifex: 7:16am On Dec 11, 2020 |
Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by Nobody: 7:35am On Dec 11, 2020 |
Are U Telling Us Abt Urself Or What? |
Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by Shortyy(f): 7:37am On Dec 11, 2020 |
Physical: smell good, look good, with nicely cut nails and nicely shaved beards. Abstract: Just be honest and a good communicator. |
Re: Qualities In Men That Attracts Women The Most? by Womanizer(m): 7:56am On Dec 11, 2020 |
The most quality is for you to have plenty of money |
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