The timeline of a typical relationship

Boy meets girl in school, they enter a happy 4 year relationship that's not marred by serious arguments. They have big plans for the future.

Time for NYSC comes faster than they thought it would and girl gets her dream posting - Lagos State; boyfriend on the other hand isn't as lucky and will have to endure the scorching sun in Kano for a whole year. They make promises to each other, swearing that the distance will only make the their love stronger.

On the first day in camp, they talk for several hours over the phone, it's obvious that they miss each other.

Days later, still in camp, Lagos big boy sights girl and makes advances, girl turns him down, she tells him her heart belongs to another.

Girl tells boy all about the failure of Lagos big boy, this makes boy happy and his trust for her increases greatly.

Lagos big boy shows girl how persistent a man can be, he buys her expensive gifts.

Girl's friends in camp like lagos big boy because he buys things for them too, they keep teasing girl and urging her to enjoy the money.

Girl decides to keep Lagos big boy in the zone, that zone we all dread

After the 2 weeks of misery in camp ends, they get posted to their various L.G.As. Boys comes over to Lagos and organizes a surprise marriage proposal. Girl says yes and becomes his fiancée.

Boy returns to Kano state to continue his service while girl stays back in Lagos, she doesn't tell Lagos big boy so that she can keep enjoying.

Girl's birthday comes, fiancé gets her a gown and a birthday card, Lagos big boy does what he does best, he surprises her with an iphone 8 and 100k bank transfer.

Girl tells  fiancé about Lagos big boy’s gifts, fiancé gets jealous and tells her to return them, she refuses and they argue.

They give each other "silent treatment", girl is still upset.

Girl gets closer to Lagos big boy, they hang out a lot. Lagos big boy tells girl that he really wants them to be closer.

Fiancé calls girl and tries to apologize, this time they have a big argument.

Girl goes over to Lagos big boy's place and tells him about their argument, she starts to cry, the events of the night become blurry but I can assure you, it ends with sex.

She returns to her place, gives boy a call, tells him things aren't working out and they should give each other some space.

Girl starts big romance with Lagos big boy, they go on several dates, they have numerous sleepovers and do all the things 21st century couples do.

Boy tries to get through to girl but fails, he loses his mind, money etc, his friends tell him forget girl, he finally gives up.

Girl gets suspicious, she feels Lagos big boy is cheating on her, she checks his phone and sees several chats that confirm her suspicion.

Lagos big boy gets angry that girl checked his phone, he sends girl away and stops talking to her.

Girl apologizes to Lagos big boy, he gets tired of her and keeps on ignoring her.

Girl tries to reach out to ex, unfortunately boy rushed into an engagement with another person, the love he has for her isn't as strong as that which he has for girl but he doesn't know how to call it quits.

Kodiwithsauce:
The timeline of a typical relationship

Boy meets girl in school, they enter a happy 4 year relationship that's not marred by serious arguments. They have big plans for the future.

Time for NYSC comes faster than they thought it would and girl gets her dream posting - Lagos State; boyfriend on the other hand isn't as lucky and will have to endure the scorching sun in Kano for a whole year. They make promises to each other, swearing that the distance will only make the their love stronger.

On the first day in camp, they talk for several hours over the phone, it's obvious that they miss each other.

Days later, still in camp, Lagos big boy sights girl and makes advances, girl turns him down, she tells him her heart belongs to another.

Girl tells boy all about the failure of Lagos big boy, this makes boy happy and his trust for her increases greatly.

Lagos big boy shows girl how persistent a man can be, he buys her expensive gifts.

Girl's friends in camp like lagos big boy because he buys things for them too, they keep teasing girl and urging her to enjoy the money.

Girl decides to keep Lagos big boy in the zone, that zone we all dread

After the 2 weeks of misery in camp ends, they get posted to their various L.G.As. Boys comes over to Lagos and organizes a surprise marriage proposal. Girl says yes and becomes his fiancée.

Boy returns to Kano state to continue his service while girl stays back in Lagos, she doesn't tell Lagos big boy so that she can keep enjoying.

Girl's birthday comes, fiancé gets her a gown and a birthday card, Lagos big boy does what he does best, he surprises her with an iphone 8 and 100k bank transfer.

Girl tells  fiancé about Lagos big boy’s gifts, fiancé gets jealous and tells her to return them, she refuses and they argue.

They give each other "silent treatment", girl is still upset.

Girl gets closer to Lagos big boy, they hang out a lot. Lagos big boy tells girl that he really wants them to be closer.

Fiancé calls girl and tries to apologize, this time they have a big argument.

Girl goes over to Lagos big boy's place and tells him about their argument, she starts to cry, the events of the night become blurry but I can assure you, it ends with sex.

She returns to her place, gives boy a call, tells him things aren't working out and they should give each other some space.

Girl starts big romance with Lagos big boy, they go on several dates, they have numerous sleepovers and do all the things 21st century couples do.

Boy tries to get through to girl but fails, he loses his mind, money etc, his friends tell him forget girl, he finally gives up.

Girl gets suspicious, she feels Lagos big boy is cheating on her, she checks his phone and sees several chats that confirm her suspicion.

Lagos big boy gets angry that girl checked his phone, he sends girl away and stops talking to her.

Girl apologizes to Lagos big boy, he gets tired of her and keeps on ignoring her.

Girl tries to reach out to ex, unfortunately boy rushed into an engagement with another person, the love he has for her isn't as strong as that which he has for girl but he doesn't know how to call it quits.

interesting

Lol this sounds really personal bro, like you've experienced this. In any case we've all been there before, one way or another. Thank God we don't look like what we've been through. Shalom!

mgtow:
Lol this sounds really personal bro, like you've experienced this. In any case we've all been there before, one way or another. Thank God we don't look like what we've been through. Shalom!

lol....we've all been there