My fellow Nairalanders Pls I need advice.

I have a very close friend and our friendship is very strong up-to 12 years now. He has been this church boy since I knew him and have not been in any relationship.
We are close business associates too. So we usually discuss our private lives together. Share some secrets with each other.

In our course of doing business my friend had a client, a young girl and I prodded him to ask her out and he reluctantly did. The girl accepted and they have been going out for two years or more now practicing "no sex" relationship (though the girl is not a virgin)

My fear now is how close and free she has become with me. She asked me if she could be free with me and I said yes.

Since then there is virtually nothing we don't talk about. My fear now is how much we discuss about her sex life.

She is very free to tell me everything she does with my friend. Each time she gives a head,(cos they don't penetrate yet for whatever reason best known to them) or each time she gets b**obsucked. How quickly the guy cums or how long he lasted the last time she gave him a bj) I mean all the dirty details and I'd be like "hmm" ohk" yes" for want of words to say.

Usually we chat on whatsapp and my guy usually goes through her fone. I'm afraid he might see our chats one day and feel bad, and I don't wanna make her feel bad by stopping her from chatting me.

I'm not like my friend so I have a couple girls coming after me so my friend's girl sees me as a bad guy and as such feels like I knw much more things about women than her guy (my friend)

Sometimes she could even ask me why her tips are painful during her monthly "routine". Is it infection?

Questions like "I swallowed his cum, can it harm me? My private is very tight, I'm scared of ur friends cassava ooo.

My question is "Is she just being free with me or she is driving at something'"? Cos she is getting too close for comfort.

waiting for episode 2 of the story with the caption "Pls help i impregnated my best friend's girlfriend""

Would u want ur girlfriend to be free with ur friend in such way?

End time girlfriend

Friendship of 12 years vs *coughs* express bae, hope I have narrowed your choice. Just pick it

O ye bearers of fairy tales...

Bro u r kinda confuse, " She asked me if she could be free with me and I said yes", now "shes getting 2 close 4 comfort". Use dat ur mouth u used 2 say yes 2 tell her she should pull back a bit, except u too u hv ur own hidden agenda already.

coolestofall:
Bro u r kinda confuse, " She asked me if she could be free with me and I said yes", now "shes getting 2 close 4 comfort". Use dat ur mouth u used 2 say yes 2 tell her she should pull back a bit, except u too u hv ur own hidden agenda already.

U misunderstand me. I said yes cos it won't be wise if my friend figures out I'm behaving not cool with same girl I suggested to him. Yes you said it, I have to tell her to pull back a bit. I'm that kind of friend you'd hide a corpse in his closet. I can kill a betrayer so no woman on earth can come between me and my best male friend. "Seen the movie Power"? That's my kind of friendship

GlobalGisting:
I have a very close friend and our friendship is very strong up-to 12 years now.

....and then

GlobalGisting:
Since then there is virtually nothing we don't talk about. My fear [oh really?] now is how much we discuss about her sex life. Questions like [s]"I swallowed his cum, can it harm me? My private is very tight, I'm scared of ur friends cassava ooo[/s]

brotherrrr.

SirBaro:
O ye bearers of fairy tales...

Sounds like one abi? It's true my dear

SUPERPACK:
waiting for episode 2 of the story with the caption "Pls help i impregnated my best friend's girlfriend""

Twill never get to that my dear. I'm not a betrayer

yansh her in a coded way..

gabinogem:
Would u want ur girlfriend to be free with ur friend in such way?

No! But I won't like for my friend not to be cool with my bae. You knw how it is in the street na!

GlobalGisting:


No! But I won't like for my friend not to be cool with my bae. You knw how it is in the street na!

In the street, u must know how to keep the G-code alive...& one of the code is never to allow a broad come in-between u & ur gee.


If she can't straighten herself up, help her straighten up.

she just likes u and dere are women who likes 2 pour out their heart 2 someone who wont judge dem. u signed up for it, if u need tips on how 2 end dis friendship.holla

Pubichairs:
yansh her in a coded way..

There are a million ways you could back out without hurting her. If you continue like this, you will penetrate her one day. Pls NEVER LET THAT HAPPEN. The earlier u back out the better bro.