Here’s an idea that’s deeply ingrained in our cultural mythos: “Everybody deserves a second chance.”

In real life, however, the practical truth is not quite as simple. While forgiveness after an offense is always advisable—letting go to free yourself from lingering bitterness and pain—resuming the relationship is not. Second chances must be viewed on a case-by-case basis, each on its own merits. Sometimes resetting the relationship is the right move. Sometimes it’s not. Here are seven questions to help you know what’s right for you:

Did your partner’s transgression involve physical or psychological abuse?

If the answer is yes, to any degree, stop right there. Delete this person’s info from your phone, return all of their belongings, and move on. Threatening or manipulative behavior is never an isolated event. Odds are good that a second chance will only result in a repeat performance.

Did they take responsibility for their actions?

Here’s a little-understood fact: Deceptiveness is a form of psychological abuse. A partner who lies to you is clearly communicating there are things more important than your trust—an essential ingredient in all healthy relationships. Take the hint, and let them go.

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except you remain single.that's when you won't hear lies...