you rite

Dreamer!!! its day pls wake up

I happy for you o ma broda, now you be ladies man, you could sleep and dump them, ask them to leave you alone, or MARRY ONE OF THEM,

MyPeace:

Dreamer!!! its day please wake up

Why is it always Ok for girls to say they are recievin unwarranted favours from boys, and we are not allowed to say the same

@ashala,

A time comes in a mans life (Age 25-30) when girls swarm around you or rather it becomes very easy to get  a lady's atention. I describe it as "open heavens" period because i think it is a divine act. It is God's way of paying us men back for the hard times we've suffered in the past ( Ages 16-23) 

Take good advantage and choose the best one before the heavens close, it wont last forever

my brother ashala

Yo should go and listen to this song by- . . . . eeh. . . . can't remember his name, someone help
well the song goes like this

when money run from you, everybody run away
when money come your way, everybody busy-body

Please my dear for the sake of God, don't sleep with dem and dump them, ok? please have mercy on them. i know they're just greedy, money-hungry set of girls but please let dem carry their wahala go front. please please, you hear??

@ashala.
let me clarify smthg before someone comes here to shoot me. When i said take advantage, i did not mean use em and dump them ooooh. I meant calmly take your pick from the lot. Safe

I trip when I read the way responses go in here, interesting thing bout them is they show respondents mode of thought.

Mr Ashana  Ashala, Wale's said all u need to know, its for the same reasons that Nigerians blindly support Chelsea/ManUtd/Arsenal like say na their family inheritance. People naturally love to associate with success (or the prospect of it), who no like beta tin?

I wont advise sleeping with and dumping them, if u aint interested let em know point-blank (the obvious 'gold'-diggers would defntly need telling off  ), play the game along with others, u never can tell, Ms Right could be among (and maybe not). But no matter how much your head dey swell, don't allow it turn u to what ure not.

Its why they say its easier to meet your true spouse when youre still roughing it, good luck.

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Cuteass if I remember correctly that song was by Tony One Week. . . . . I want to gyrate e o!

Every Good thing comes from God if u are a christian. it glad to hear that u are successful in the affairs of the opposite sex. Remember if u use this opportunity to revenge u are not better than those girls. u have no moral and God-backing standing to judge or condemn them. Whateva they dish out to u u take. u dont know tomorrow. am not saying that U WILL LOSS UR JOB. but remember if it happens just asu used them so they will use u. if u dont use them u will earn the respect of any sane/"lover-of-good-things" person. This is also a manifestation of agape love. do it not because they deserve it but because of who u are. People have been in ur shoes if u are not lying and not all of them misbehaved.

@ Poster - Do you mean those gurls you have wanted to date before that resisted you? Or every woman that know you hav a good job now just want to mingle with you?

Anyway, I dont know what you will gain after you hav sleep with them and dump. Remember wat goes around comes around. Dont bring curses on your head. If you dont like them, you can tell them off. Shikena

* sometime money develop wings and fly away. But this will not be your portion. IJN.
* This is the time for you to be focus and plan your future.

Congratulations!!!

@poster, do as u wish.

I cant just tel wher u guyz fish out dis old threads sef. Mscheww

daduke2k:

I cant just tel wher u guyz fish out dis old threads sef. Mscheww

lol! abi?

Taa! to Everyone who misyearned on this thread.

Ashala just go and buy a register. You know what you really want, don't you? The sweet thing about DSTV is that it has so many channels. Don't let anyone persuade you into watching only African Magic! Watch everything - it's your money damn it!

Eventually, if do end up with just one channel at least you can take solace in the fact that there was a time you had a swell time. Just make sure you don't give any of them bulk sums of money. Any of them who asks for such, should have their name crossed out from the list.

Make hay while the sun shines .

I think this is an old thread o.

This is an old thread and without doubt you could easily know that this poster is exagerrating by saying women perster him their [b]''hundreds'' [/b]who the hell does he think he is?

3 year old thread-and [b]someone [/b]just had to bring it back. SMH!

the point here is this. it is not bad that they want good thing now that u are relatively ok but can they maintain Good things or sponsor something to maturity/fruition. can they sow with u and reap with u in bountiful harvest? can they nourish/nurture someone to fulfill his destiny. otherwise they are saboteurs. keep in mind whatever they do to u or for u it isn't cos of love but lust. so do not get too excited. give glory to GOD and not women. use the resources he has given u to serve God and not women(plural). and it will be well with u.

So nl has become so dry dat people are resurrectin a 3 yr old thread incase we dnt knw there is forum games section, there is a section 4 business,career,cars fashion hmmm dat u culd be interested so lets xplore d world of nl instead of openin dead threads .

na sin? is it against forum rules to do so? what interests u is not the same with me. ok post a link of what u think i might find interesting, not just a general sub-forum plz. old thread is not the same as dead thread. dry bones shall rise again

Nairalanders,
my own case is slightly different from the poster's. I also have a good Job and get more than my fair share of female admirers. Like one poster said, the age btw 25 and 30 is always wonderful for men. I am less than 30, live in a flat and drive a jeep. so as far as most girls are concerned, i am successful in life.
the issue now is that I am tired of rolling in the hay with these girls and I want to settle down. Ironically, non of those girls appeal to me as a wife material. I had to let all of them go. I decided to proceed on a mission: operation "search for a wife", and, e no easy oooooo! the only lady that appeals to me in every perspective does not seem to be eager to date me, not to mention marrying me. I spend sleepless nights wondering what the hell I shall do to get her to at least give me a chance to proove myself and my love to her. na wa ooo!


so my advice is this: use your good standing to get the best girl among them (i.e the one who truly loves you) and marry her as soon as you can.

Is it not clear enuf that they are simply after ur new found higher social strata but remember that lady that was there for u when pepper no rest oo.

GUY GO GIVE URSELF BRAIN O.MK NO B SAY AS MONEY DE ENTA UR HAND,EN DE COMOT, U KNW SAY SOME GALS BE 'AGBANA'.THIS IS THE TIME TO PLAN UR LIFE

iv experienced the same and deep down it hurts cuz i think to myself "so if not for this money, im not important to everybody" its really not a nice feeling knowing people are only paying u attention cuz of ur money, it makes u feel used and only a fool would let it get to his head or take "advantage of it" as for me, if u where not with me in hard times, i dont want to know u when things are good for me. life is give and take not just take take take and these bloody nigerian gold diggers need to understand that.

Wow, how time flies. This post surely brings back a lot of memories and Nostalgia. Who would believe that the crazy womanizing young man that posted this is now responsibly married with two lovely kids. Good ol memories.