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Why Your Relationships Fail And What To Do About It by samsonline(m): 1:19am On Mar 07, 2018
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1. You’re Expecting Too Much

We all want the best out of life. It’s even healthy to understand the importance of your self-value. Nevertheless, this reasoning must come with a limit. Do you expect your partner to be perfect in all areas?

Do you criticize them to the point of changing their behavior to what you desire? If so, you’ve probably encountered many devastating breakups because the reality of that mentality is narrow.

Over time, you’ll exhaust your partner with the hurtful feeling of never being good enough. This causes resentment which certainly leads to a detachment. The dilemma with high expectations in your partner is that you are inevitably placing yourself on a pedestal seeking to dictate the behavior of your mate.

This toxic need for control leaves you unfulfilled and constantly searching for “something better.” Perhaps learning how to let go and allow your match to be who they are will assist you with maintaining a relationship.

2. You Never Learned How to Love
The familial structure in which we grew up with is paramount to understanding why your relationships fail. A recent study indicated that “children of divorced parents have more positive attitudes towards divorce and less favorable attitudes towards marriage.”

Once those children reach the point of dating, it’s easier for them to break off an unhappy relationship because they never learned how to love from their parental units.

Even early relationships can set the tone for how you feel about courting in adulthood. Perhaps you experienced a terrible relationship in high school and that affected how you view dating in general. It may be difficult to maintain a healthy relationship due to trust issues, self-esteem issues or deeply rooted scars that were never treated.

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Re: Why Your Relationships Fail And What To Do About It by Juliusdking(m): 1:27am On Mar 07, 2018
Ok
Re: Why Your Relationships Fail And What To Do About It by InfernoNig: 7:03am On Mar 07, 2018
All na wash and formalities. You can never satisfy anyone in a relationship. Just play you part as a boyfriend or girlfriend with total loyalty and honesty.

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