A mother of two recently advised me on who and who not to marry. In the course of her advice, she said what surprised me. She said that I should insist on ladies that are not more than twenty five years of age. I asked her why and she told me that most clinics are not allowing expectant mothers above thirty for prenatal care again!
My curiousity was aroused when I heard this. I asked her why they said so. She told me that though they allow for pregnant woman above thirty only on the ground of having given birth before, anything short of that they would direct the expectant mother to another clinic. Reason being they don't want to encounter problem during child birth.
This is why I'm using this medium to to tell those ladies who are clamouring for "Mr. Right" to act now before it will be late. I was also told that one of the reasons is the surgical operation that may be involved.

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Mike4S:
A mother of two recently advised me on who and who not to marry. In the course of her advice, she said what surprised me. She said that I should insist on ladies that are not more than twenty five years of age. I asked her why and she told me that most clinics are not allowing expectant mothers above thirty for prenatal care again!
My curiousity was aroused when I heard this. I asked her why they said so. She told me that though they allow for pregnant woman above thirty only on the ground of having given birth before, anything short of that they would direct the expectant mother to another clinic. Reason being they don't want to encounter problem during child birth.
This is why I'm using this medium to to tell those ladies who are clamouring for "Mr. Right" to act now before it will be late. I was also told that one of the reasons is the surgical operation that may be involved.

Absolute BS

ifyalways:

Absolute BS

What is BS?

Lol, op your adviser is delirious.

My aunt who got married at age 25, she and her husband tried everything humanly and spiritually possible to have kids but to no avail. They even travelled abroad twice for IVF, still no show.

After 20years later, that's two years ago she got pregnant, she was admitted into one of the best hospitals in Lagos for antenatal. During those months, the husband has already booked a hospital in the US, for her delivery. On the 8th month, she and her husband travelled to the US, to deliver her babies, cos it was discovered she has twins boys inside her womb. She has delivered her sons. They are two years already. Both US citizens. So what trashing are u and your adviser spewing today?

A close friend of mine got married at age 23, it's 15 years now.. She's still hoping on God. Sex morning and night everytime. But no child. She even know her ovulation period off head.

The morale of my short story is this : No one dictates to God, when children will come, no matter how many times u have sex or how young your wife is or how much u pray. Children comes when God feels like it.
So keep your advise to yourself.

victorian:
Lol, op your adviser is delirious.

My aunt who got married at age 25, she and her husband tried everything humanly and spiritually possible to have kids but to no avail. They even travelled abroad twice for IVF, still no show.

After 20years later, that's two years ago she got pregnant,she was admitted into one of the best hospitals in Lagos for antenatal. During those months, the husband has already booked a hospital in the US, for her delivery. On the 8th month, she asked her husband travelled to the US, to deliver her babies, cos it was discovered she has twins boys inside her womb. She has delivered her sons. They are two years already. Both US citizens. So what trashing are u and your adviser spewing today?

A close friend of mine got married at age 23, it's 15 years now.. She's still hoping on God. No child.

The morale of my short story is this : No one dictates to God, when children will come, no matter how many times u have sex or how young your wife is or how much u pray. Children comes when God feels like it.
So keep your advise to yourself.

Contradiction.

somehow:


Contradiction.

OK.

Complete nonsense!

You get into the hospital and then present your birth certificate

Why will a young man marry a lady that is 30 or above?

Deprofessional:
Why will a young man marry a lady that is 30 or above?

What is wrong with that But a young girl of 22 can marry a man of 40yrs right

No wonder....your signature speaks better. You nailed it dear...

victorian:
Lol, op your adviser is delirious.

My aunt who got married at age 25, she and her husband tried everything humanly and spiritually possible to have kids but to no avail. They even travelled abroad twice for IVF, still no show.

After 20years later, that's two years ago she got pregnant, she was admitted into one of the best hospitals in Lagos for antenatal. During those months, the husband has already booked a hospital in the US, for her delivery. On the 8th month, she and her husband travelled to the US, to deliver her babies, cos it was discovered she has twins boys inside her womb. She has delivered her sons. They are two years already. Both US citizens. So what trashing are u and your adviser spewing today?

A close friend of mine got married at age 23, it's 15 years now.. She's still hoping on God. Sex morning and night everytime. But no child. She even know her ovulation period off head.

The morale of my short story is this : No one dictates to God, when children will come, no matter how many times u have sex or how young your wife is or how much u pray. Children comes when God feels like it.
So keep your advise to yourself.

I was not also happy to hear that a clinic is not allowing expectant mothers that are above thirty for a prenatal care. Living in a country where things are the way it is in Nigeria can cause a delay in marriage.

izaray:
What is wrong with that But a young girl of 22 can marry a man of 40yrs right

Between 40 to 45, a woman ceases to be productive, except in few cases.

A man of 80years can still impregnate a woman.

Mike4S:
A mother of two recently advised me on who and who not to marry. In the course of her advice, she said what surprised me. She said that I should insist on ladies that are not more than twenty five years of age. I asked her why and she told me that most clinics are not allowing expectant mothers above thirty for prenatal care again!
My curiousity was aroused when I heard this. I asked her why they said so. She told me that though they allow for pregnant woman above thirty only on the ground of having given birth before, anything short of that they would direct the expectant mother to another clinic. Reason being they don't want to encounter problem during child birth.
This is why I'm using this medium to to tell those ladies who are clamouring for "Mr. Right" to act now before it will be late. I was also told that one of the reasons is the surgical operation that may be involved.

Utter bunkum.

i dont think datz true, cos when i was going for my ante-natal care, most women i met there were above 30
to say i was among the youngest there

Adamummya:
i dont think datz true, cos when i was going for my ante-natal care, most women i met there were above 30
to say i was among the youngest there

The clinic is in Lagos here.

hmmm,na wa o,nothing we no go hear for dis Nigeria. have never heard that before,be it 20 or 30 years old,who go get complication go get am,though when a woman is close to 40 and is still a primigravidae( that is her first pregnancy),we tread with caution because of her age.for most ladies at 30 they are at their peak and some starts their family then due to a number of reasons.as for surgical procedure,anybody can go thru it even those who are young and have had normal delivery can later have caesarian section on their 3rd child.but its better to start early sha.

Lol
Don't you guys just get tired?

Funnas:
hmmm,na wa o,nothing we no go hear for dis Nigeria. have never heard that before,be it 20 or 30 years old,who go get complication go get am,though when a woman is close to 40 and is still a primigravidae( that is her first pregnancy),we tread with caution because of her age.for most ladies at 30 they are at their peak and some starts their family then due to a number of reasons.as for surgical procedure,anybody can go thru it even those who are young and have had normal delivery can later have caesarian section on their 3rd child.but its better to start early sha.

For those that know Mile 12 area of Lagos, the veracity of this post can be verified. The clinic is in between Obanta and Maidan Primary School.
This is for the avoidance of doubt.

Very soon we will start hearing that the best age to have kids is 15years.
Our hospitals turn down accident victims now it's pregnant women.
Ok if they don't accept her 4 antenatal clinic what is she suppose to do. Born 4 house?
Niaja I hail o

Mike4S:
A mother of two recently advised me on who and who not to marry. In the course of her advice, she said what surprised me. She said that I should insist on ladies that are not more than twenty five years of age. I asked her why and she told me that most clinics are not allowing expectant mothers above thirty for prenatal care again!
My curiousity was aroused when I heard this. I asked her why they said so. She told me that though they allow for pregnant woman above thirty only on the ground of having given birth before, anything short of that they would direct the expectant mother to another clinic. Reason being they don't want to encounter problem during child birth.
This is why I'm using this medium to to tell those ladies who are clamouring for "Mr. Right" to act now before it will be late. I was also told that one of the reasons is the surgical operation that may be involved.

Over 35 is high risk, 30 is fine. Don't chat shitt

Deprofessional:
Why will a young man marry a lady that is 30 or above?

Because he wants to?

izaray:
What is wrong with that But a young girl of 22 can marry a man of 40yrs right

The higher the age the higher women depreciation in the body.

Unlike men....They'll start depreciating when getting very old.

somehow:


Contradiction.

The aunt's marriage clocked 20years as at 2016. He didn't state when she got married.
There isn't any contradiction there.

If she took in 2 years ago, how can the twin be 2 years old now?

WhiteLavender:

The aunt's marriage clocked 20years as at 2016. He didn't state when she got married.
There isn't any contradiction there.

somehow:
If she took in 2 years ago, how can the twin be 2 years old now?

Am not their mum, to know their exact date of birth.

You can call her ask. She may tell you thir exact age.i simply know she took in two year back. Do u need her number?

I'm simply quoting what was written here and since the mum wasn't the one that typed what I quoted, why should I call her?

Simple correction is so hard to take? Let the writer correct the anomalies.

victorian:








Am not their mum, to know their exact date of birth.

You can call her ask. She may tell you thir exact age.i simply know she took in two year back. Do u need her number?

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somehow:
I'm simply quoting what was written here and since the mum wasn't the one that typed what I quoted, why should I call her?

Simple correction is so hard to take? Let the writer correct the anomalies.

Come and correct me.

I dey my house.