Since my mother inlaw came to my house my wife no longer eats with me but her mother. Please it's normal? or I should confront her about it?

Please, bear till her mother leaves

How old are you?

Not an issue.

Simple matter. Just call and tell her you're not down with it.

...Naso problems dey take enter marriage.
Call her attention to it ASAP

The wost part of it is no respect any more

goodman41:
The wost part of it is no respect any more

....Open your eyes bro. The serpent is about to enter your home.
Be wise.

JONNYSPUTE:
....Open your eyes bro. The serpent is about to enter your home.
Be wise.

what will I do

PlayerMeji:
How old are you?

what do you mean by how old I am

Oga, let her cherish eating with her mom. Do you know the next time she would ever eat with her mom?

pozehnani:
Simple matter. Just call and tell her you're not down with it.

Haba, that will be too harsh, at least she misses her mum, that bond will always be there and it's just for a little time.

OP, that should be normal, when your mum comes too, you will notice you would just want that special moment just to be alone with her and talk.

It's normal, just let it flow and be in moderation, as far as she has your time and gives you hot hot in the other room, you should be all good.

Na wa o nothing Musa no go see for gate.

Yusufisraelj:


Haba, that will be too harsh, at least she misses her mum, that bond will always be there and it's just for a little time.

OP, that should be normal, when your mum comes too, you will notice you would just want that special moment just to be alone with her and talk.

It's normal, just let it flow and be in moderation, as far as she has your time and gives you hot hot in the other room, you should be all good.

Lol... .
Okay then. But op is not happy about it o.

pozehnani:


Lol... .
Okay then. But op is not happy about it o.

Lols, this great woman. Yea he must learn to be balanced. Jealousy day him body small

Buy a cardboard and attach it to a stick, write "we no go gree" then stand in ur living room and protest all day.

Since u can't just eat alone for some days.
Abi she needs to feed u?
Bros kindly allow her and her mom be. When ur in law goes...u can tell her u found it awkward not eating with her the past few days. That should send home ur point against next time

Oga, let her cherish eating with her mom. Do you know the next time she would ever eat with her mom?

If you think it is an issue for you, please bring it up to her attention ASAP.

Talk to her please. Let her know how you feel

calm down Oga...if after she left and your wife is still not eating with you, that's when you can be worry and be seeking people's opinions


I remember when my husband was complaining bitterly when my sis was around too, he said I would gist gist gist and forget him.......I just simply told him sorry, make e no vex.

when his own brother came last year, hmmmm, they were everywhere together, sometimes they go with the kids, the only time I would see him was bed time, mine was just within the house o.

relax, so that when your own mum comes to visit and volunteer to prepare ur favorite local soup one day that u have missed so much in her kitchen, and she starts giving attitude, don't complain too.

stop attaching so much importance to trivia issue

na jealousy and lack of attention dey do you.

bros calm down.

if her mum leaves and she continues eating alone, then you can call for village meeting

.

Newly weds I guess

When next you see two of them eating, just say it like a joke "so you have abandoned eating with me since your mum came abi".

If she has a good mum, the mum will advise her to go back to eating with you. However, their reaction will let you know if your MIL is good.

goodman41:
Since my mother inlaw came to my house my wife no longer eats with me but her mother. Please it's normal? or I should confront her about it?

I think you should relax cos the old lady definitely won't be around for long. Let them enjoy their moments together bro.

goodman41:
The wost part of it is no respect any more

Oh, that's not cool

goodman41:
Since my mother inlaw came to my house my wife no longer eats with me but her mother. Please it's normal? or I should confront her about it?

Quit being jealous of your mother in-law.
That you married a woman does not mean you acquired sole rights over her.
The people in her life before you came will continue to matter. It's not only about you.
There's a thin line between love and obsession.


Why are some men such crybabies?

goodman41:
The wost part of it is no respect any more

Please! This is probably just you imagining things!
Who would want to eat with a disrespectful wife?

Or all of you can eat together at mealtimes. I guess

cococandy:
Or all of you can eat together at mealtimes. I guess

I doubt op would want that...He doesn't seem like the sharing type

A very possessive human being if you ask me

Aww,he misses his wife.Some couple hardly eat without each other.I guess Op is one of them.

Just tell her you miss eating with her.She can rotate,morning with mom night with you.She's just trying to bond with her mom .Who knows when next she'll come?
If hers is like mine that visits only for Omugwo every 3 yrs only to stay for 3 weeksthen endure.

goodman41:
Since my mother inlaw came to my house my wife no longer eats with me but her mother. Please it's normal? or I should confront her about it?

If u dont like it, let her know but i dont see anything bad there.the mum wont be with u forever . so give the mum attention too just like how u will want her to give urs attention too. All of u shud pray together in the morning and at night to cement ur bond. Treat her like ur mum bro.