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Giving Cash Or Spending Cash by Nobody: 2:55pm On Mar 18, 2018
I write this post with no wrong intention. I am not a Gold digger neither do I look up to Others in providing my needs.

However, I am sure this same thought may have crossed our mind one time or the other. This is not limited to Relationships as it cuts across other areas.

Here it is.....

What is the Logic behind Men who prefer to spend money on you rather than give you Cash.

Case 1- Relationship

Im sure we all know at some point, a Man ought to take care of his woman no matter how little (If you dont agree with this, its time to exit this thread).

One of my friends talked about her Ex, he was a cool guy. He never for once gave her money but would rather use the money to take her out to restaurants, Club or buy her Clothes she would wear when they go out.

Case 2 - Friendship

Ade and Dapo are friends. Dapo requested for financial assistance from Ade. Ade claimed not to have. But this same Ade would pick Dapo from his house, go Clubbing, Bar or Lounge and buy drinks and all sorts for them to "enjoy" . He might even pay Strippers to give Dapo a Lap dance :

This also applies to Guys who have Female friends. Even when the lady tries to ask, it falls on deaf ears but the guy is willing to spend the money on Drinks , food etc.

Case 3- Family.

Some of us have that Elder Brother or Sister who will never give you One naira but let you follow them Out for recreation or would rather compensate you by giving you their clothes or shoes.

Although this scenario is Rare but it sure does happen.



SO! I was wondering, What exactly do we call this type of attitude?
Is it right to know when to lend a helping hand but dont?
Re: Giving Cash Or Spending Cash by mikejj(m): 2:59pm On Mar 18, 2018
grin well am diffrent.men from d east and west are guilty here

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Re: Giving Cash Or Spending Cash by Nobody: 7:46pm On Mar 18, 2018
mikejj:
grin well am diffrent.men from d east and west are guilty here

Are you a Northerner?
Re: Giving Cash Or Spending Cash by Cutehector(m): 7:53pm On Mar 18, 2018
Man ought to take care of his woman no matter how little (money)


Ubunja come and see them.. grin this thread is a perfect example of your miseducations
Re: Giving Cash Or Spending Cash by mikejj(m): 8:23pm On Mar 18, 2018
Maychang:

Are you a Northerner?
nope why do u ask
Re: Giving Cash Or Spending Cash by Nobody: 12:36pm On Mar 25, 2018
mikejj:
nope why do u ask

Curiosity wink
Re: Giving Cash Or Spending Cash by crismark(m): 12:46pm On Mar 25, 2018
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Re: Giving Cash Or Spending Cash by mikejj(m): 6:05am On Mar 26, 2018
Maychang:

Curiosity wink
well may that curiosity folow u.kiki
Re: Giving Cash Or Spending Cash by mikejj(m): 6:05am On Mar 26, 2018
Maychang:

Curiosity wink
well may that curiosity folow u.kiki
Re: Giving Cash Or Spending Cash by Nobody: 8:37am On Jun 02, 2018
Maychang:
I write this post with no wrong intention. I am not a Gold digger neither do I look up to Others in providing my needs.

However, I am sure this same thought may have crossed our mind one time or the other. This is not limited to Relationships as it cuts across other areas.

Here it is.....

What is the Logic behind Men who prefer to spend money on you rather than give you Cash.

Case 1- Relationship

Im sure we all know at some point, a Man ought to take care of his woman no matter how little (If you dont agree with this, its time to exit this thread).

One of my friends talked about her Ex, he was a cool guy. He never for once gave her money but would rather use the money to take her out to restaurants, Club or buy her Clothes she would wear when they go out.

Case 2 - Friendship

Ade and Dapo are friends. Dapo requested for financial assistance from Ade. Ade claimed not to have. But this same Ade would pick Dapo from his house, go Clubbing, Bar or Lounge and buy drinks and all sorts for them to "enjoy" . He might even pay Strippers to give Dapo a Lap dance :

This also applies to Guys who have Female friends. Even when the lady tries to ask, it falls on deaf ears but the guy is willing to spend the money on Drinks , food etc.

Case 3- Family.

Some of us have that Elder Brother or Sister who will never give you One naira but let you follow them Out for recreation or would rather compensate you by giving you their clothes or shoes.

Although this scenario is Rare but it sure does happen.



SO! I was wondering, What exactly do we call this type of attitude?
Is it right to know when to lend a helping hand but dont?


They are trying to tell u that its not ur money & u should go n get urs.. Its a dellibrate act to keep someone depending on them for any little thing.. Some guys would never assist u if ur in a financial situation but will buy u everything including from expensive drinks to hoe.s for the night which would have gone a long way to help ur situation if it were in cash.

You can call it wickedness

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Re: Giving Cash Or Spending Cash by Nobody: 3:24pm On Apr 16, 2023
I see

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