Pls dont mind my errors
Okay so I've been dating this guy for two years now.. he was the one who deflowered me.. honestly I didn't know we are gonna last this long.. I thought we'd be done in months.. fortunately and unfortunately I started liking him.. I love this guy so much I could do anything, as in anything to make him happy

It's been 2 years now nd I can't point to one thing he has ever bought me.. fine he's broke but he doesn't even try at all. He hasn't spent up to 5000 on me since we've been together... I've even spent more than that on him...
I give him when he's really broke at times, I pay the bills when we logde in an hotel..

Okay I realised what I got into already. I decided not to mind.. I'm a student nd he's a student too. I felt I shouldn't bother him financially.. this boy is so rude.. he talks anyhow to me.. he insults me at will.. it's really painful..


I cut off a lot of people because of him.. I don't want us having issues because of my friends.. I'm a very reserved person.. i don't like going out nd all.. I love my personal space.. he told me one time that I don't socialize so I decided to actually start making friends again.. he started having issues with me socializing again.. got mad cos I went to a little get together.. got mad because of my new friend.. spoke to me anyhow


This guy doesn't even care.. he'd want to talk when he has issues but I need him he'd start acting up.. just this week I called nd called nd called.. telling him i wanted to see him.. I really needed too.. I had a lot of things on my mind nd I really needed someone to talk to.. this boy didn't see me oh.. I had to go meet one of my lecturers to talk to.. he called me on Thursday nd I told him I don't need to talk to him anymore.. he told me to go Bleep myself nd d lecturer. I cried so much that night

He's always thinking I'm cheating.. to be honest, he's d only one I've ever had sex with.. no other guy has ever had sex with me but him.. there was a time he accused me of fucking my friend.. I swore with a bible that day that it never happened.. he's so bossy nd careless.. he talks anyhow..I'm just tired.. he abuses me emotionally..

I don't know what to do.. I love so much to see him go

Two things are involved here





. Either You are ugly as fvck


Or

YOUR ancestors have used your brain for sacrifice before you were even born

You are directly responsible for his actions and attitude towards you.

On no account should a partner be so desperate to his/her partner in a relationship, you obviously made him know that you are so much into him, hence prompting his nagging and bad attitude.

No one on this earth is irreplaceable

Nothing on this earth is irreplaceable except your PRIVATE PART .

I'll advice you to take a break in that relationship and stop turning yourself to a big joke before your fellow student in the name of stupid love.

You gat to move on.. Don't look back.

....so what is the help now?

I understand why you are feeling this way. It's because he was the one who tore your hymen.

I try not to advice students as I feel my sage advice will be too advanced for them.

Leave the guy, face your studies. As simple as that

this boy is so rude.. he talks anyhow to me.. he insults me at will.. it's really painful..
Why continue with a relationship that brings nothing but pain nd misery to u