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Re: Please Help!! My Dad Passed Away. Please How Do I Overcome The Pains? by gbegudujo: 4:10pm On Mar 27, 2018 |
Ma his soul RIP. Heavens bless and protect the people left behind 1 Like |
Re: Please Help!! My Dad Passed Away. Please How Do I Overcome The Pains? by Mrkumareze(m): 4:22pm On Mar 27, 2018 |
Take heart bro. You are now a member of the fatherless club of Nigeria. May his soul rest in peace 1 Like |
Re: Please Help!! My Dad Passed Away. Please How Do I Overcome The Pains? by Mutemenot(m): 5:05pm On Mar 27, 2018 |
amokeme: Tnx bro. You guys are wonderful. I feel the plenty love from Nairalanders. Much love to you all |
Re: Please Help!! My Dad Passed Away. Please How Do I Overcome The Pains? by amokeme(f): 5:39pm On Mar 27, 2018 |
Mutemenot:I'm a lady. You are welcome |
Re: Please Help!! My Dad Passed Away. Please How Do I Overcome The Pains? by benjanny(m): 6:04pm On Mar 27, 2018 |
If I could overcome the death of my beloved mother Ezinne Christina Madubueze who happens to be the bread winner of the family after my dad was paralyzed with partial stroke,I beleive that everyone can overcome the pains of death no Mather who they lost Bro just be a man life goes on |
Re: Please Help!! My Dad Passed Away. Please How Do I Overcome The Pains? by Mutemenot(m): 6:10pm On Mar 27, 2018 |
amokeme: Noted! My apologies |
Re: Please Help!! My Dad Passed Away. Please How Do I Overcome The Pains? by wazobiang: 7:23pm On Mar 27, 2018 |
A full human soul lost is not a small thing. It is actually illogical looking for consolation when someone dies. Wrong in fact. Just mourn your dead dad sha. He deserves it. It is the mourning that is the consolation in the end. Reflect on his life, who he was. Mourn him. Cheers. I have buried mom and dad plus one more so I know what I am saying. Treat the living well so that your can mourn them better if they go first. Cheers. |
Re: Please Help!! My Dad Passed Away. Please How Do I Overcome The Pains? by tunbebes(f): 8:25pm On Mar 27, 2018 |
Mutemenot: Do you have Jehovah's witnesses around you? They have a brochure that can help you. It's called when someone you love dies. It helps, read all the cited scriptures too. So sorry for your loss. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help!! My Dad Passed Away. Please How Do I Overcome The Pains? by babra19: 8:45pm On Mar 27, 2018 |
Mutemenot:Sorry for your lost it will take time for the pains to go away first have it in mind that your dad travelled outside the country second find something that will make you happy, watch comedy movies, go out with friends for sight seeing stay more on social media and interact with people...I don't mind chatting with you. take heart. |
Re: Please Help!! My Dad Passed Away. Please How Do I Overcome The Pains? by Bjgirl1: 9:12pm On Mar 27, 2018 |
Thanks, God bless you real good Amen amokeme: 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help!! My Dad Passed Away. Please How Do I Overcome The Pains? by SwagPower: 9:21am On Apr 12, 2018 |
Prognose: WOW..had a similar experience.. Didnt cry after my dad passed.. Then out of the blues 9yrs later..i cried like av neva cried b4..Cried 4 almost an hour... my eyes were blood red n my head was pounding!.. It was rily sth.. |
Re: Please Help!! My Dad Passed Away. Please How Do I Overcome The Pains? by UDUJ(m): 9:43am On Apr 12, 2018 |
Mutemenot: I don’t know who you are, where you are, what your problems are or what you're going through but I promise you, it gets better. Key thing to understand here is that everyone experiences grief and pain differently, now before you cringe at that overly used sentence, let me explain. Everyone experiences grief but it is up to us to decide how we react to that grief when it comes. Person A and Person B could be facing a common problem. Lets say the both of them have lost their father ( passed away ). Person A reacts very negatively by cutting himself away from his social life. Person A refuses to accept this and continues to let this inevitable scenario ruin and affect his entire life. He acts irrationally and is easily irritated by the slightest of things. He decides to bottle his emotions by drowning in alcohol. Then we have Person B. Person B understands that the death of a loved one is a terrifying moment that eventually everyone will go through. He let's his friends know not to disturb him for a couple days because he needs time to sort out his feelings and accept the reality. Person B then talks about his feelings to another close member / close friend about it. Person B was depressed, but quickly understood that this was part of life and that eventually he will move on, no matter how hard it hits him. Fast forward a couple months, Person B has moved on from this rough experience , and in this experience has even learned things he otherwise wouldn't know about (the importance of being grateful for what we have, seeing which friends were really there to aid us, etc. ) Person A on the other hand is now an alcoholic , his friends have left him due to his irritable and quick temper. He got fired from his job due to how inefficient he was and is now broke from all the alcohol and cigarettes he buys to cope with all the added misery. Now of course, this is a bit of an exaggeration, but I hope you see how important your reaction to an event is. Both Person A and Person B faced similar problems but one decided to not react negatively on it while the other unfortunately did so. Be like Person B. 2 Likes
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Re: Please Help!! My Dad Passed Away. Please How Do I Overcome The Pains? by stephleena(f): 10:07am On Mar 27, 2019 |
Mutemenot:Bro. I don't know how I landed on this thread .but I sincerely hope and pray you've found solace in God. it's well with you and yours. |
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